Kwaye ubona ubunzima bokuqala bunokulinda ezinye. Kuthetha ukuthini ukukhokelela, ukufumana, ukufumana umdlalo? Uhambo lokuthengwa luqwalaselwa? Nokufunda iincwadi kunye nokupheka? Ziyabonwa, ukuba nje uyenza njalo kwaye unemihlali. Ewe, ukuba akukho shishini endiyathanda ukuyenza ukuze ndilonwabe ngamaxesha onke, nantsi imimiselo yezinto ezithandwayo ezithandwayo, eziba ngabanomdla ngakumbi. Ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna into ethile.
Ukuzonwabisa # 1 : qalisa ukufunda iilwimi zangaphandle. Oku akukona nje umdla, kodwa kuncedo. Ukuba nomyalelo olungileyo wolwimi lwangaphandle, uya kukwazi ukufumana umsebenzi omhle, wandise isangqa soqhelwano kwaye uqhubeke nokuhlakulela ubuntu bakho. Uya kwandisa uluhlu lolwazi lwakho lwehlabathi, kwaye umntu owazi iilwimi eziliqela, uhlala eveza umdla kunye nokuhlonipha phakathi kwabanye. Fumana umfundisi okanye iqela apho ungafunda khona. Ukongeza, i-intanethi ineenkqubo ezininzi zemfundo kunye noncwadi, ukuze ukwazi ukufunda imfundo yakho ngaphandle kokuzimela. Kungcono ukuqala ngokufunda ulwimi ongazifundile (umzekelo, phantse bonke baye bafunda isiNgesi, kodwa bambalwa abantu abanokuthetha ngokukhululekile), okanye ulwazi lwabo oluya kulufuna kwikamva. Nangona lo msebenzi awuyinto elula, kodwa fumana umkhuba wokukunika iiyure ezimbalwa ngeveki, kwaye kungekudala uza kumangaliswa ziziphumo. Okona kuncinci, ungabukela iifilimu kwaye ufunde iincwadi ngolwimi lwangaphambili, ungathethi ukusebenzisana nabantu abavela kumazwe ahlukeneyo.
Inombolo ye-Hobby inombolo yesi-2 : ubhalisele umdaniso. Lo msebenzi oqhelekileyo phakathi kwabasetyhini kunye namantombazana kule mihla. Ukunyuka kwiindawo zokuzivocavoca kunokuba kunzima, ukuthungela i-dumbbell kunye nokuzithemba ngokukodwa endaweni ayikwafanelekanga nakumntu wonke. Kodwa ngamnye wethu ufuna ukuba nomzimba omuhle, oguquguqukayo. Ukudansa kunokusinceda kuphela ukuzisa isibalo ngokulandelelana, kodwa nokubuyisa ukunyakaza, okwenza umfazi abe ngumxhasi kunye novuyo. Ekuqaleni, mhlawumbi, ivila esiqheqweni, umzimba onobuqili uya kuba luvila kakhulu ukuya kwi-training, kodwa ekugqibeleni uya kubandakanyeka, kwaye imithwalo yokudanisa ngokuqhelekileyo iya kuba mnandi. Kukholelwa ukuba kumdaniso umntu unokuzibonakalisa, ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe, iimvakalelo. Kwaye kunjalo ngokwenene. Ukongezelela, nakowuphina iqela okanye iholidi uya kuziva unentembelo, kuba ukudansa kuyimpawu ezibalulekileyo zokuzonwabisa. Yaye qaphela ukuba ukuhamba kakuhle kwixesha kuya kukhangeleka kakhulu kunye nokuhle kunokuba kugqithise ngokuqhelekileyo okanye ukuqhubezela kumculo.
Ukuzonwabisa # 3 : uye kwicandelo ngokulwa ngesandla. Ngokuqinisekileyo ukubukela iifilimu kunye ne-Uma Thurman okanye enye intombazana, engeyiyo ephosakeleyo ukuphosa abantu, ngokufihla ufuna ukufana naye. Eyomeleleyo, phucula izakhono ezongezelelweyo kwaye unokukwazi ukuzinzela ngokwakho. Ukongezelela, kwizikolo zobugcisa be-kartial, kungekhona kuphela umzimba kodwa umoya uphuhliso. Ukwazi amandla akho, umntu onobuqili akangxamanga ukuyisebenzisa. Ukuzilibazisa okunjalo kwintokazi kuya kutsalela abanye. Khetha nje ukulwa nokuthanda kwakho kwaye ufumane umqeqeshi ofanelekileyo. Ukuba phakathi kwalaba bantu abanakho abaphathi abakhulu bezinto ezinjalo, i-Intanethi iya kuhlala isinceda.
Ukuzonwabisa # 4 : cinga nge-hobby engavamile. Ngokomzekelo, u-archery, ukugibela ihashe, ukucima akuqhelekanga kuluntu. Kodwa kuwe lo msebenzi unokuba yindawo yokugcina yokuphefumlelwa kunye nesimo esihle sengqondo. Okanye mhlawumbi ufuna ukuba ngumhambi okanye umfuyi wezinyosi? Ngoko yima unamahloni ngoku, yenza! Ungatsho nje ukuba kunzima, akunakwenzeka njalo njalo. Zama ukwenza okufunayo, kwaye mhlawumbi oku kuya kuba ngaphezu kwexesha lokuzilibazisa. Ukuzilibazisa okunjenge-scrapbooking, ukudweba kwidongwe okanye ukudweba kwiglasi kuya kukunceda ukuba uveze kwaye uvelise ubuhle kwihlabathi lakho.
Ukuzonwabisa # 5 : Yenza umdlalo omkhulu. Ukuba amandla anetha ngaphaya komda, kufuneka uqondise kwindlela efanelekileyo. I-Parkour, i-snowboarding, intaba, i-windsurfing, i-kiting, i-parachuting kunye nezinye iindidi zemisebenzi esebenzayo aziyi kukuvumela ukuba ube nexhala. Apha wena kunye nepeti yonke yeemvakalelo eziphosakeleyo kunye nokuziva, kunye nabahlobo abatsha, kwaye ixesha elide lichithe. Ukongeza, uya kufunda ezininzi iindlela eza kukunceda kwikamva. Kwaye inani leminyaka apha alinandaba, ngenxa yokuba, ngokugqithiseleyo, njengothando, bonke abantu bayazithobela.
Njengoko uyakubona, kukho iimbono ezininzi zexesha lokuthakazelisa nelincedo. Into ephambili akuyi kuhlala, uhlakulele kwaye uphucule. Emva koko ubomi buya kuba mnandi ngakumbi kwaye butyebi. Ngenxa yokuba izinto ezininzi umntu anomdla kuzo, ngabahlobo abangaphezulu kunye nababaziyo, unemibandela engaphezulu. Ngoko ke, fumana umdlalo, thola umdlalo okanye ucinge umdlalo, kodwa musa ukuma.