Yintoni umfazi ayenze yintoni eyashiywe yodwa? Unokuzibonela njani wena nomntwana wakho ukuba usebenze kwindawo ehlawulwa phantsi ngaphambi kokuba uqhawule umtshato okanye ube ngumfazi wendlu? Abantu abaninzi abatshatileyo bayabelana. Kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba bubuhlungu kangakanani, kuba bafazi abathile eli nqanaba liba yinto yokuqala yokugxilwa kwindlela yokuzifeza, ubomi obunomdla kunye nobutyebi. Ndifuna ukuxelela ibali lomhlobo wam oye wahlala kwimiba enjalo, kodwa kungengowesithathu, kodwa umntu wokuqala. Ndiyathemba, lo mzekelo ovela ebomini bobubomi uya kufumana usebenzise kwaye ukhuthaze.
"Emva kokuqhawula umtshato, ngokukhawuleza ndaqonda ukuba kuya kuba nzima kum ukuba ndihlale nomntwana kumvuzo wam titshala. Ngokukodwa ukususela ekubeni ndandisetyenziselwa imilinganiselo ephakamileyo yokuphila endodeni yam owayengaphambili yanginika yona. Ngoko ndijamelene nenyaniso: Ndifuna ukukhangela umsebenzi omtsha ngemali emihle.Ukuze kungabi nciphise ixesha, kwinkqubo yokuphenya, ndaphumelela kwiinkalo-zobhala-zifundo, zifunde iikhompyutheni, kwaye ndiqinise isiNgesi. Andikwazi ukuthetha ukuba ndandonwabile ngako konke oku. Ndandiqiniseke ukuba izakhono ezifunyenwe naluphi na imeko ziya kuba luncedo kum ngokuzayo. Kungekudala ndaqashwa yinkampani encinci eyayingaqondi nto, kodwa yayibizwa ngokuba yomelele, ibonakala ibonakala, kwaye umphathi wakhe waphephelwa intlonipho.
Lo ube ngumsebenzi wam wokuqala kumashishini, kwaye ndandivuyiswa gqitha kukuba bathabatha apho. Ewe, ndatshwenyeka kakhulu, kwaye ndandixhalaba ukuba ndikwazi ukulawula imisebenzi yam. Bhekane, kwaye kulula. Ngokukhawuleza ndaqonda ukuba andinomdla wokusebenza apha kwaye ngokwenene ndinokwenza okungakumbi ngezimpawu zam nkokeli.
Kanye nje ngeli xesha, abahlobo bam baqalise iprojekthi entsha yezoshishino kwaye bafuna umququzeleli omhle kwisithuba somlawuli wezorhwebo. Xa ndinikezelwa lo msebenzi, kwakungenamngcipheko kum uvuyo kunye nokuzingca ngam. Oku kukukhula kwamathuba emisebenzi, le yithuba, ngokuqinisekileyo andiyi kuphelelwa! Ndiza kuzibonakalisa, kusasa impumlo yam iya kudlula kwaye ndiya kuba nakho ukubonelela ubomi kunye nam unyana wam! Kuyathakazelisa ukuba ndamenywa ngenyangeko ukuba ndisebenze kwinkampani eyodwa yokuqeqesha, eyayihambelana neprofayili yam kwaye yamchaphazela ngezinto eziphilayo, kodwa iimbono zazibonakala zide kakhulu, kwaye umvuzo wangempela wawunzima kakhulu.
Ngoko ndaba ngumfazi weshishini. Ekuqaleni umsebenzi wangithatha ngokupheleleyo. Ndazimela ngokuzimeleyo izinto ezisisiseko zokuthengisa, ukusetyenziswa kwempahla kunye nokuphendula. Ndagqiba isigqibo, ndilungelelanise, ndavumelanisiwe-kwinqanaba lokuqala loshishino kwavela imibuzo enxamisekileyo. Ngexesha eliqhelekayo kubahlobo bam, ndandihamba ukuya kwimiboniso eMilan, eRoma, naseVenice, esetyenziselwa oonxibelelwano, iimpahla ezikhethiweyo, izivumelwano ezigqityiweyo. Konke oku kuphele iminyaka emininzi, de kube yinto eyaziwayo. Emva koko ndaqala ukucinga ngezinto endinayo namhlanje kwaye kuya kwenzeka ntoni kum ngokuzayo. Ndamkela ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba kulo msebenzi ndibanjwe ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nokukwazi ukuzimela. Emva kokuphumelela ukulungelelanisa nokutshintshwa kwenkqubo yoshishino, ngexesha elifanelekileyo ndaqalisa ukuziva ndidimazekile-kum kufuneka kube njalo ukuba ndibe nemicimbi engathandekiyo. Ewe, kwaye imivalo esemsebenzini yaqala ukubonakala ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwakukho ukungavumelani nabanikazi. Amathemba ayengacacile. Umvuzo wam wawunganditshisanga, njengangaphambili, kwafuneka ndigqibe isigqibo.
Kwaye kunokuba ndifune omnye umsebenzi ofanayo, kodwa ngemali eninzi, ndagqiba ekubeni ndifumene indlela yokufumana nokufumana kwindlela esithandayo - imisebenzi yokufundisa. Kwaye ke umvuzo wam wangoku wehla ngexesha. Ndakwazi ukuhlawula imali emitsha, imfundo ehloniphekileyo, ukufunda nokufumana umsebenzi kwinkampani ehluke ngokupheleleyo, apho amava am nezoshishino, kunye nolwazi olutsha, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, i-talent yokufundisa, yangena ngokufanelekileyo.
Kwaye nangona ngoku ndingengomlawuli wezorhwebo, ndivakale kakhulu kwindawo yomqeqeshi wenkampani yoqeqesho, umvuzo wam undilandela ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye intliziyo yam iyavuya yonke imihla yokusebenza, nangona akusiyo ifu engenayo :) "
Khumbula, nangaliphi na iminyaka ongayifunda, phuhlisa kwaye uziqinise. Funda ukulungelelanisa kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, kholelwa ngamandla akho namakhono akho! Kufuneka nje ngamnye kuni, kuba ubomi bunokutshintsha kwaye bungaqiniseki.