Ukunxibelelana, okanye unayo i-ruble 100, kwaye unamahlobo angama-100

Ngethuba lethu ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphandle kwemali eninzi ukuxazulula iimeko zokuphila onalo, kufuneka ube nabahlobo abaninzi kunye nabaqhelana nabo, oko kukuthi, banxulumene noluntu, ubuqu kunye nobudlelwane bobugcisa. Kwamanye amazwe kuseka oonxibelelwano bezoshishino kwaye kungekhona kuphela abantu abanenjongo yokuzuza kwikamva okanye ukunceda umntu ngokwakhe ubizwa ngokuba ngu-Networking. Ingcamango ye-Networking ihlukaniswe zibe zimbini iintlobo - abamnyama nabamhlophe. Umnxeba omnyama xa ubeka inethwekhi yakho yorhwebo ngenjongo yokufumana inzuzo, kwaye umhlophe xa usebenzisa inethiwekhi yakho yokunceda umntu. Ukusebenzisa kuphela i-Intanethi emnyama okanye emhlophe kuphela, akunakwenzeka, emva kokuba bonke abakho abantu abangenakufuna uncedo kunye kunye banokunceda umntu.

Ukunxibelelana ngolo hlobo luhlobo lobuhlobo kunye nenjongo yemali, oko kukuthi, imikhosi oye wayichitha ekuncedeni umntu akufanele adlule ngaphezu kweenzuzo ozifumene kwi-intanethi yoshishino. Kwixesha lamaSoviet kwakukho i-bluff, ngoku kuthiwa yi-Networking.

Wonke umntu ebomini bakhe uya kufumana le ngcamango. Abantu baqhagamshelana nosuku, ukwabelana ngolwazi kunye nokudibanisa. Ngokomzekelo, ucebise umhlobo wakho unwele wezinwele, kwaye wakuthetha ngento enhle yezobuhle, yindlela inethiwekhi yokungaxhamli ngayo (umculi). Ukuba ukwenza oku ngokusemthethweni kwaye unesiseko esikhulu sabangane, ngoko nayiphi na ingxaki yobomi onokusombulula kwiingxelo ezimbini.

Ukwakha inethiwekhi yakho yoshishino, kwanele ukuba ube ngumntu onoxolweni kunye nomntu othetha naye. Abantu abanxulumana nabo banxibelelana ngaphandle komnqopho ocacileyo, kwaye abantu abaqhagamshelana nabo baphankanya injongo ethile ekunxibelelaneni.

Ngoko, yintoni efunekayo ukuze intanethi yoshishino iqine:

1. Yenza abahlobo abatsha. Kwimeko nasiphi na isiganeko, zama ukuqhelana nabancinci abantu ababini, kwaye ungalibali ngabantu obaziyo ngaphambili. Zama ukuphulaphula umnxibelelwano wakho kwaye ungaceli imibuzo emininzi. Ngexesha elifanayo kunqweneleka ukuba unomdla ngokunyanisekileyo kumntu womnxibelelwano. Emva kokuxoxisana nomntu, kufuneka ulungelelanise lonke ulwazi, oko kukuthi, ukuzisa umntu kwi-intanethi yezoshishino, ukuba ungayi kulahlekelwa (uninzi lwabafowunelwa lulahlekile ukuba aluhambelani ngokukodwa kwakha inethiwekhi yakho yorhwebo). Ngexesha le ncoko, yenza iincwadana ezimbalwa kwi-interlocutor yakho. Ukuxubusha kwakhona ukuthetha, oko kukuthi, kufuneka uhlale unxibelelana nabathathi-ntanethi benethiwekhi yakho.
2. Yenza ifowuni encinane kwilungu ngalinye lomnatha wezoshishino (bhala apho udibana nalo okanye loo mntu kunye nokuba unokusebenzisa njani).
3. Ukuba umntu unokuncedisa, ngoko uncede ngokubuyisela. Ukuba ucelwa uncedo, ncedisa.
4. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ingaqondakali kangakanani, ngexesha elibunzima abantu bahlala becela uncedo, apho ungabala khona.

Kukho imimiselo emininzi yemithetho, kodwa ezi ngasentla zizona ziphambili.

Ukunxibelelana ngeso sixhobo soqhagamshelwano olucebisayo olufunekayo ukuze ukwazi ukusebenzisa. Ukuba uyisebenzise ngobuchule, unokwazi ukunqoba zonke "iipuphu" ezifunwayo okanye unokudlala nawe ihlaya elibi.

Kakade, iingcali kwi-Networking zeluleka ukuba zibandakanye kuyo rhoqo, oko kukuthi, ukudibana kunye nokuthetha nabantu, kodwa kungcono ukwenza okusemandleni abo. Ukunxibelelana sisixhobo esikhulu ekuphuhliseni ishishini lakho, bahlala besetyenziselwa ngabaxhasi. Ndiyakuvuma, kukuhle ukuva xa emva komva wakho ukuhlekisayo ukuba unxibelelwano olukhulu. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ezi zixhumanisi zizisa wena nabanye bahle.

Khumbula, ukuze ufumane into oyifunayo ebomini, kufuneka ulungele ukunceda abanye abantu. Ngulo mgaqo osebenza rhoqo ngempumelelo, nangona bonke bengasebenzisi.