Umntwana kunye nolwandle
Ukuthabatha umntwana olwandle - ngoko abazali baqulunqa umsebenzi wabo weeholide. Kutheni? Ilanga lanikela i-tan enhle ne-vitamin D; Umoya wolwandle ugcwele ion i-iodine; indawo engaziwayo - imbonakalo emitsha. Ngaba kuyimfuneko kumntwana?
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantwana banokulula ukuthobela imiphefumlo kunabantu abadala. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kufuneka uncinci kakhulu: ubisi lomama, ukulala ubuthongo kunye nokuthokoza kwabantu abadala. Kodwa ngelo liholide inokuba yingxaki.
Odokotela abacebisi ukuba bathathe abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu ukuba bahlale kwenye indawo yemozulu. Emanzini abakwaziyo: amanzi anetyukisayo angabangela ukucaphuka kwesikhumba esibucayi, kunye namagagasi asenokubakhokisayo.
Ukutsala ilanga umntwana, ngakumbi umntwana, akunakwenzeka ngexesha lohlobo lwentsapho elwandle nolomntwana. Kuye kunye nakwiindawo zethu zokufunda zingenziwa kwimigqalwa embalwa ukuya kwilanga elivulekileyo, kwaye emva kokusa nje kusasa, ngaphambi kwexesha lokuhlwa. Sekude kusekwa ukuba izifo zesikhumba ezinobungakanani ekudala zihambelana ngqo nokushiswa kwelanga ezifunyenwe ebuntwaneni.
Kukho idama elinamanzi achlority of cleanness, amabala okudlala abantwana, athatha iminyaka engama-2-3 kuphela, kunye nokuvakasha kwiindawo ezikhangayo.
Ubume bendalo
Ehlotyeni, abantwana, ngokukhawuleza bashukunyiswa yintando yabazali babo kwimimandla efudumeleyo kwintsapho ekhefu elwandle kunye nomntwana, ubunzima be-acclimatization abuyibi kakhulu njengobusika xa bewa kwiqhwa. Nangona kunjalo ukushisa okungaqhelekanga kunye nomswakama, kunye nobunzima beendlela ezisezantsi, zenza bazive. Okumangalisayo kukuba, yiintsana ezinokulungelelanisa kwiimeko ezintsha, ingakumbi ukuba iimeko zabo zentsuku kunye nokutya akutshintshi. Kwaye ukuba umama akavumeli ukuba athathwe yi-raznosolami yendawo, ukunambitheka kobisi bakhe ngemivumba kuya kuhlala kunjalo, kwaye ngenxa yoko, kuya kuba nzima ukuba neengxaki zesisu somntwana. Yaye kunye nenyaniso yokuba ikhefu iya kugqiba njengomda kumama wakhe, kuya kufuneka ukuba yamkele.
Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-3-4 ubudala bavumelana neenguqu ezincinci, nangona ukuba le minyaka ibonwa njengeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo ukuya kolwandle kuqala. Kwaye ukufuduka / ukubalekela kwimozulu ebanda ebushushu kuyadlula ngokugqithiseleyo, kodwa xa ubuya kwiindawo ezikude "zeentaka ezifudukayo" kubanda. Ukuze ugweme oku, kufuneka uhambisane nenani leemeko. Cwangcisa iholide lakho ukuze abantwana abancinci basebenzise elwandle kungekhona ngaphantsi kweesithathu, kwaye mhlawumbi iiveki ezimbini okanye ezintathu. Ukuba umntwana unobungozi, ungabubuyisi ukusuka elwandle zingaphantsi kweenyanga ezimbini.
Uphando lubonisa ukuba "abantwana abasenyakatho" ngexesha labo bekhefu baya kugula ubuncinane kabini - xa befika elwandle kunye nokubuya kwabo. Ukutshintsha kwemozulu ngumthwalo omkhulu emzimbeni womntwana, kwaye ezi zimbini zixinzelelo kufuneka zihlanjululwe kangako ngexesha.
Umntwana oneminyaka emi-5 ukuya ku-6 ubudala sele sele ehlangene nohlobo oluhlukileyo lokuzula, njengoluhambo olude. Ewe, kwimeko enjalo kungenangqiqo ukuyithatha kwenye indawo ekupheleni kwehlabathi, kodwa iindawo zokungcebeleka zolwandle ezisondeleyo ziya kuzuza kuphela. Akayi kubuhlungu nje kwaye afunde indlela yokudada - ngeli nqanaba uyakwazi ukwazi ihlabathi elikujikelezayo kwizinga elihluke ngokupheleleyo: zonke i-horizons zivulekile kuye. Ngoko ke, isicwangciso seminyaka emihlanu, ngokungafani nomntakwabo omncinci, uya kufumana ingonwaba kuphela kwintlabathi, kodwa nakubonxibelelwano nabantu, kwiilwimi ezingaqhelekanga, ukusuka kumdlalo omtsha. Kulo nyaka unomntwana unako ukwenza inkampani kubazali kwiihambo kwaye ngelo xesha aziyi kuba ngumthwalo.
Abanye abazali bahamba ngobuqhetseba: endaweni yokubhabha elwandle kwiiveki ezimbalwa, baqeshisa indawo yokuhlala kummandla ixesha elide, bebambisana namanye amama nootata, bahlala elwandle kunye nabantwana ngoku, oko kuphunyezwe ngabo bonke: oogogo, ama-nannies, abasondeleyo kunye Izihlobo ezikude kunye nabantwana babo. Iholide enjalo - kwi-fold and wholesale-ifumaneka uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali.
Kukho enye indlela yokuphazamisa imvelo: ukunciphisa uhambo. Ukuba ukuphuma okumazantsi kuthatha iintsuku ezintathu, umzimba awunaso ixesha lokuhamba umjikelezo wonke wokungena, kwaye ukubuyela ekhaya kuya kuba buhlungu. Kodwa, enyanisweni, kweliveki elwandle, kwaye kunye nomntwana omncinci ezandleni zakhe, kwaye akayi kuphumla. Ukongezelela, umntwana usoloko unethuba lokuthabatha naluphi na intsholongwane okanye ukusuleleka kwisikhumulo sezindiza, ihotele, indiza, oko kukuthi, kwiindawo ezininzi zabantu, Utshintsho lwezihlalo - kungakhathaliseki ukuba ixesha elide elifutshane - lithintela ngokukhawuleza ukutya. Le nto yinto yokwamahlobo ehlobo, i-hot-around, iqinile umzimba wethu udinga ukupholisa, kwaye kubantwana iinkqubo zokushushumbisa i-thermoregulation zisebuthathaka, kwaye ezo ntsholongwane ezisoloko zingahambi ngokutya, ngoku zijoliswe ukulwa nokushisa. Kodwa ehlotyeni, abantwana badla ngaphantsi, kodwa baphuza ngaphezulu. Le ngxaki ingaba yintlanzi: phakathi kokutya okungaqhelekanga, kungcono ukunqaba ukuhlaziya kwakhona. Kodwa abazali, besoyika ngenxa yokungabi naso kwesondlo sokutya komntwana, zama ukufaka into kwiimvuthu, kwaye akusoloko ikhona into encedo kwaye ifike ngexesha.
Eli lizwe, entlango ...
I-dacha okanye indlu yasezidolophini kwindawo ephakathi, xa kuthelekiswa ne-resort resort, ineenzuzo ezininzi.
Akukho zithintelo zeminyaka. Ukuba indlu ubuncinci ikhululekile, umntwana angasuswa ngaphandle kwesixeko esivela kwinyanga. Lindela iminyaka embalwa akuyi ku funeka.
Isimo sezulu
Kubantu abadala beedolophini kwiintsuku zokuqala kwintsholongwane yentsholongwane ehlotyeni inokuguqulwa, kwaye kwiindawo ezincinane zasehlobo zitshintsha iimeko azichaphazeli naluphi na indlela. Kuqinisekiswe ukuba akukho kuphumelela kwe-biorhythm ukusuka ekutshintsheni kwimizuzu yexesha, okanye ubunzima bokungqinelana.
Ukutya okuqhelekileyo
Enyanisweni, kwintsana, kunokufunyanwa ukuba iinqwelo kunye nekhukhamba zikhula ebhedini, kungekhona kwireferensi kwivenkile, kodwa ngelo xesha alikho inguqu enkulu ekudleni - ngaphandle kokuba, ukutya "ukusuka embhedeni," umntwana ufumana amavithamini angaphezulu.
Kuphumla ixesha elide
Kwi-dacha unako ukuza ubuncinci kwihlobo lonke, nokuba ngeveki - akuyi kuba neengxaki kwiimeko ezithile.
Ngokubanzi, ngocwangciso olufanelekileyo lokuzilibazisa kweli lizwe, ihlobo liza kunika umntwana inkokhelo yokonwaba, ukuqinisa amandla akhe nempilo, uncede uhlambulule umzimba kwaye ulondoloze amavithamini kunyaka ozayo, kwaye unika amava amanandi amanandi. Kodwa ngeendlela ezingalunganga, i-dacha iyakwazi ukujika esuka kwikona yasezulwini ibe yindawo yokuthunjwa.
Ubuncinane bokuhlala
Kwindlu yelizwe, kufuneka uzinakekele wena nabantwana, ubuncinci benduduzo-emzimbeni nangokwengqondo-ukuze ikhefu ingabi mzabalazo wokuhlala.
Ukufudumala
Ubusuku bubuhle kakhulu, ngakumbi ekuqaleni kwehlobo. Ukuba indlu ingashushu, gcina umbane wombane kunye nophethi lokufudumeza - uyifake ebhedeni lomntwana wakho. Qinisekisa ukuba indlu ibophe iingubo kunye neempahla ezifudumeleyo.
Ukubonelela ngezonxibelelwano "nomhlaba omkhulu"
Ukuba uhlala kwindawo eyimfihlo, qwalasela indlela umntwana omazileyo eya kunyangwa ngayo.
Fumana inkxaso
Uhambo oluya kwi-dacha nabantwana luvavanyo olunzima kumfazi onyanzelekile ukuba adibanise yena kunye nendlu yakhe nabantwana bakhe. Ngako oko, umama kufuneka acwangcise ukuphuphuma! Kufuneka uxoxisane kunye nezihlobo zokumthabatha "emsebenzini" ubuncinci ngeveki kwaye umnike ithuba lokuba "aziqhekeze" kwaye uvumeleke ukuqhuma umkhumbi: hamba ehlathini, uye kwisitoreji, kwaye ekugqibeleni uhlale ulala.
Fumana a bahlobo bakho
I-brat ye-tomboy ye-2-5 ubudala kufuneka iphose ngaphandle kwamandla kwindawo ethile. Ekhaya, wadlala egcekeni okanye kwi-kindergarten kunye neontanga zakhe, kwaye ngoku yonke iqhenqa lakhe libhekiswe kunina. Inkampani kwidolophana kunzima ukuyifumana kunokuba idolophu, kodwa kuyimfuneko yokwenza - ubuncinane uxolo lwakho lwengqondo. Ngethamsanqa, kwiimeko zasehlotyeni, ubuhlobo buvele lula phakathi kwabantwana bamaxesha ahlukeneyo.
Okuhle - Okubi
Ziziphi iingxaki ezihlala zilinde kweli lizwe? Ewe, uya kuyidla umntwana wamajikijolo angatshwanga, awele emhadini, aphumele umlenze wakhe, umntu uya kumluma. Zonke ezi ngxaki abazali bahlala bazi indlela yokuthintela: bafaka ucingo kwaye baquba izimbobo apho umphandi omncinci angakhuphuka, aqoke izipikili, atshabalalise iifesi njengeklasini, kwaye agcine iimpembelelo.
Kodwa akukho mntu ulindele ukuba i-eco-friendly, iluncedo, evuthiweyo kwaye. Okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuhlamba izipho zendalo kungabangela ubuthi obuyinyani. Ngokomzekelo, ama-berries, awona amama kunye nabakhulukazi bazama ukumondla umntwana ekugcinwe kuyo, bengacingi ukuba iivithamini (ngaphandle kwe-vitamin C) aziqokeleli umzimba. Okwangoku, phantse ukungapheleli kweso lomzali, amathambo amancinci ama-strawberries angabangela ukucaphukisa ngamandla emathunjini kwaye ngenxa yoko-ingxaki enkulu. Umthetho ulula: ngexesha umntwana angadla amajikijolo amaninzi ngokufanelekileyo (kungekhona umama!).
Kwakhona, ngendlela, ixhala ngokutsha. Ukuba ifafaza ngokukhululekileyo ngeparsley kunye nelayilithi ewusizo "isobho elihlaza", imiphumo yomntwana oneminyaka engaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu ingaba yinto engathandekiyo. Kungcono ukubilisa imifino kunye nezinye iifuno.