Udibene nexesha elide kwaye wanquma ukuba ulungele ukuchitha ikhefu lakho kunye. Kodwa oku phantse ukuba "ujongane"! Ndifuna yonke into ingayibaleki. Kodwa akulula. Ngoko, ikhefu lokuqala lokudibana - yiziphi iingxaki? Kwaye nantsi ezinye ...
Ingcamango enkulu: ezimbini iiveki zonke uya kulala kwaye uvuke kwibhedi enye, udle etafileni enye uze uhlale ecaleni kwicala lokubona! Yintoni endimele ndiyilondoloze kwangaphambili ukuze ungayonakalisi iholide kwaye uhlale ulwalamano olufudumele?
Ingxaki 1. Ngubani na?
Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, emva kokubuya ehambo, isibini sitshatile okanye siyinxalenye. Ukuhlala kwigumbi eliqhelekileyo kunokuthiwa "ngu-sampler" wobomi bentsapho. Le meko iyinkimbinkimbi yinto yokuba abathandi emva kwenkqubo yokukhulula yeentsuku zokuthandana bayangena emkhatsini we-clock-clock bahlala eduze komnye nomnye. Emva koko kuvela ukuba i-Romeo yakho ayayazi indlela yokukhusela amalungelo akhe kwaye ngoko ke wabekwa kwindawo e "chic" ngokujonga kweso sakhiwo sokwakha.
Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezedlulileyo, unokuzulazula ubusuku bonke udolophu, ubambe izandla. Kwaye ngoku intanda yakhe inqwenela ukukhawuleza yonke imini elunxwemeni kwaye ayiphenduli konke kwiimfuno zakho zokuhamba ngeenxa zonke zesixeko.
Ukuphepha ukungaqondani okunjalo nokunciphisa inani lezizathu zokuxabana, xubusha nomfana osekuqaleni oko uza kwenza ngeeholide.
Nangona uchitha iiholide zakho kunye, musa ukukhawuleza kwaye ufune ukususela kwintetho ethandwayo ngomzuzu wenkcubeko, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, landela nganye iminqweno yakhe yokulimaza imfuno yabo. Akukho nto eyoyikwenzekayo xa uchitha iiyure ezimbalwa ngosuku.
Ingxaki 2. Kwiingxelo.
Ukuba ngaphambi kokuba umfana wakho akhokhele kwikhofe, akufanele ubeke zonke iinkxalabo zakho zemali kuye. Hlanganisa iimali kwi-bhajethi yonke ukukhusela iimeko apho ngamnye uya kufuneka akhokhelele ukupasa kwidokethi yokujonga. Vumelana nesixa esiphezulu oceba ukuyisebenzisa ngokutya, ukuzonwabisa kunye nokuthutha.
Nangona i-"cashier" jikelele, ngezizathu zokhuseleko, kungcono ukugcina imali kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo, kunokuba uhlale ekhredeni enye. Kubalulekile ukuba nenkokhelo yemali kwimali. Akufuneki ukuba usebenzise imali kwimibingelelo yezihlobo kunye nabahlobo bomfana. Nangona, le yile shishini.
Ingxaki 3. I-Chur, ndilo eludongeni!
Kukho umbhede ombini olahlwayo: ekugqibeleni uya kuba yedwa! Mhlawumbi, xa ufumene ukufikelela okukhululekileyo emzimbeni wakho, intanda yakho iya kunika ukutshiya ekamelweni de kube sekupheleni kweeholide lakho. Okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ekuqapheliseni ukuba uhlala apho, khetha ubusuku bebhola yothando kwiTV. Kule veki ezimbini uza kufunda iimfuno zakhe zesini.
Ibhedi eqhelekileyo ayikho nje ubuhlobo obusondeleyo, kodwa iphupha. Kubo busuku akazange aphenduke umncintiswano wokukrazula ingubo, akufanele uzibeke umgomo wokuba ulale ngokuvuma. Vumela wonke umntu axhobise isiqingatha sebhedi ngendlela ababehlala ngayo. Ngentsasa, musa ukukhononda ngokukhwabanisa komntu othandekayo. Ndikholelwe, unento enokuyithetha.
UKUBA SINGABANYE ...
• Nazi iindaba: eholidini, umhlobo weqhawe lakho kunye nentombi yakhe yajoyina. Musa ukusilahla: abayi kukuthintela ukuba ube yedwa. Sebenzisa ithuba lokugxotha abahlobo bakhe: vula ikharityhulam! Vumela iqabane libone indlela enkulu ngayo ukuba ngabahlobo kunye neentsapho!
• Ukuba uphikisana ne-sweet, musa ukukhawuleza ukukhalaza kubahlobo bakho malunga nalo. Eyona ndlela, uya kuthathwa njengento yokukhala, ngokubi kakhulu - umxholo wencoko uya kwaziwa ngumntu wakho othandekayo. Funda ukucombulula iingxaki ngokwakho, ngaphandle kokubamba abanye. Le ngcebiso ayifanelekanga kuphela ngexesha leeholide, kodwa nakwimpilo kamva.