Imithetho yentleko kubantwana

Ulonwabo kunye nempilo yomntwana kukuxhalabisa kakhulu nawuphi na umzali. Kubantwana baluphi na ubudala, ukutya okuchanekileyo, ukuphucula imidlalo, kunye nokuphathwa ngonyango rhoqo kubaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba umntwana ufana nesiponji. Ubamba kuye yonke into ayibonayo kwaye uyayiva. Ngoko ke, ngokumalunga nawuphi na umntwana, wonke umntu omdala kufuneka aziphathe kakuhle! Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali baxhatshaza indlela yokuziphatha komntwana, ngoko kufuneka ucinge ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi imigaqo yentleko yabantwana.

Ithenda imithetho - inhlonipho

Abantwana ziintyatyambo zobomi kwaye zifana nje zinyameko kwaye ziyamnandi, ziziphatha ngokufanelekileyo. Kwiminyaka yokuqala yokuphila, abazali baphela emhlabeni wonke womntwana. Musa ukucinga ukuba akayiva into engayiqondiyo. Uziva! Ngako oko, kungabikho abantwana abasifunge. Inye indlela eqinisekileyo yokunikezela intlonipho kumntu othandekayo kukunxibelelana nomntu omdala omdala.

Amagama entle

Okokuqala, sebenzisa rhoqo "uyakubonga", "nceda", "ekuseni ekuseni", "ukutya okuthandayo", "hello" kunye "nenzuzo". Ulwimi lwaseRashiya lucebile. Unganqikazi ukubheka kwisichazamazwi kwaye usebenzise ubuncwane bawo buninzi ngezikhathi ezithile. Unokuthi "amaphupha amnandi", kodwa "unobusuku obuhle", "amaphupha amnandi", "ubusuku obuhle". Cinga nomntwana wakho malunga nosapho lwakho uhambe kakuhle okanye unqwenela.
Izichazi kunye nezibizo ezinobungakanani ziza kuphuhlisa isigama somntwana kunye nokucinga: "ilanga lam", "othandekayo", "hare". Incwadi yabantwana abanomdla okanye incwadi yombala kunye nemithetho yokuziphatha iya kwenza umsebenzi obini: kuthatha umntwana kwaye ufundisa ngobumnene. Imixholo, umzekelo, uKorney Chukovsky obhaliweyo kwaye unomdla, kwaye uncedo.

Yimiphi imigaqo yabantwana yokuphumeza abazali?

  1. Jonga ngokubonakala komntwana. Mnike umzekelo, umfundisa ukuba adibanise iinwele zakhe, ahlambulule amazinyo akhe, aziphathe kakuhle kwitafile. Unonwabo olukhulu luya kubangela ukunqambela ubaba okanye ukunceda umama ukuba agqoke isongo.
  2. Ukuziqhelanisa nomyalelo. Umntwana kufuneka abe nesithuba sakhe somntu. Mbonise ukuba ahlambulule amathoyizi kunye nendlela yokubamba iingubo kakuhle. Abantwana bathanda ukuzizwa bekhulile kwaye banomthwalo. Ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya, kuquka abantwana bakho emsebenzini. Ukuba uhlamba izitya, umntwana wakho osecaleni wakho unokukwazi ukudlala ngokuphephile ngamacwecwe akho eplastiki.
  3. Ukuhlawula ngokukhethekileyo ukuziphatha etafileni. Le mithetho ibaluleke kakhulu kunokuba i-label, njengoko ibalulekile ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga ukhuseleko:
  1. Musa ukugcina ixesha kwiinkcazo. Qaphela kwaye uqonde ngemiphumo yokungathobeli. Ndixelele, uvakalelwa njani "ngelanga lakho".
  2. Ungaze uthethe kumathoni aphakamileyo. Umntwana uya kukhwankqiswa kwaye uyothuka. Indalo enempilo kwintsapho ayiyi kuthatyathwa yinto nayiphi na imithetho yokuziphatha.
  3. Idilesi ehloniphekileyo kubadala kunye negama kunye negama lenkcazelo ngabantwana lithathwa kalula. Ku luncedo kubantwana ukuba bathethelele kuphela nje oontanga, ootatomkhulu nootatomkhulu abanokuthi bathathe indawo xa befika kwimfundo.
  4. Ukuze unomdla kumntwana, ulungise imidlalo yokudlala indima okanye imidlalo kunye nemidlalo yakhe, apho udibanisa iimeko ezihlukeneyo "ngokubi kakhulu."
  5. Musa ukuxoka. Yaye ukuba ubona umntwana emanga, okokuqala, buza isizathu sokuba wenza. Kwaye, okwesibini, cacisa ukuba ubuxoki buhlala btyhila, xelela ngemiphumo emibi yokuxoka. Kule ngxelo kukho ezininzi zeengoma kunye neethathu. Kodwa unako ukuhlala ubhala ibali lakho elifundisayo. Abantwana bathanda amacale. Ekupheleni kwengxoxo, xelela indlela odidekileyo ngayo. Kwaye kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba (wakhe umntwana) uthembele.
  6. Ungasebenzisi amagama angamazwi. Ukulungisa umntwana kwaye ungakulibali ukudumisa xa wenza konke okulungileyo. Ukuba kukho imeko engafanelekanga kwindawo kawonkewonke, unganqikazi ukucacisa kumntwana ukuba yonke into iyahlelwa, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha abantu abadala bayalibala "okulungileyo nokubi." Kodwa musa ukugxeka abanye. Zama nje ukutshintsha ingqalelo kwenye into.

Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ukumamotheka kaninzi. Ukumamatheka okunyanisekileyo - ummelwane obalulekileyo ekulwa nokungabi nantoni kunye nokunyaniseka.