Impilo yomntwana iyona candelo eliphambili lokukhula ngokupheleleyo, ukuphuhliswa nokubunjwa kobuntu besikhathi esizayo. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu kokugcina kunye nokuqinisa impilo yabantu, ukuqala kwasebuncinaneni. Abazali abaninzi, ngokukodwa oomama, baqonde oku kwaye bathathe ngokungathí sina impilo yomntwana wabo. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukugcina ingqiqo kuyo yonke into, kuba ininzi kakhulu, ayinengqiqo. Kuthetha ntoni apha?
Oomama abaninzi banzulu kakhulu ngempilo yomntwana wabo, ukuba i-little-scratch, i-pitny bangela i-panic enkulu. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba inxalenye ebalulekileyo yempilo yimiqondo yengqondo exhomekeke ngqo kwingqondo yengqondo yomama kunye noko umama ayenayo "kubhere" yakhe iboniswa ngqo kumntwana wakhe. Nantsi kuthiwa kuthiwa "negama legolide" ngokubhekiselele kwimpilo yomntwana, ebaluleke kakhulu ukubambelela. Cinga imigaqo ephambili yempilo yomntwana, into oyifunayo ukuba uyayazi kunye noko kubalulekile ukukhumbula.
Impilo yomntwana inokuhlulwa ngamaqela amane aphezulu ngokubhekiselele kwiimpawu ezi-6 ezisekelwe.
Umqathango wokuqala uthatha ingqalelo kwi-heredity, oko kukuthi, i-genetic predisposition kuya kwesinye esinye isifo. Ukongezelela, ngokwelo mqathango, indlela yokukhulelwa ngokwawo, uhlobo lokuzala, kunye nenyanga yokuqala yobomi bentsana iyaqikelelwa. Njengomthetho, umfanekiso wezofuzo wezempilo uqikelelwa ngumfuzo.
Isigxina sesibini kukuphuhliswa komntwana wonyaka wokuqala wokuphila, apho izibonakaliso eziphambili zophuhliso zihlaziywa, ezifana nobukhulu, ukuphakama, intloko kunye nesifuba, nabanye.
Icandelo lesithathu liqwalasela impilo yengqondo yomntwana.
Ngokomqathango wesine, ukuphuhliswa kwamakhono omntwana, intetho kunye nolonxibelelwano luvavanywa. Njengomgaqo, ukuphuhliswa kwezi zakhono kuhlolwa ngokubhekiselele kwitheyibhile ethile. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba akukho mida ecacileyo kunye nemigqaliselo. Oko kukuthi, ngamnye umntwana ngumntu ohlukeneyo okhula ngokweprogram yakhe yophuhliso, ngoko ukuphambuka kwelinye icala okanye kwelinye akuyi pathologies. Nanku zonke izakhono kunye nobuchule bomntwana buhlalutyo.
Isiqingatha sesihlanu siqwalasela ukuziphatha komntwana, ukuthetha kwakhe nabanye, imvakalelo, njengoko edlayo, imikhwa emibi.
Isisombululo sesithandathu sihlalutyo lwezifo ezingapheliyo kumntwana, kunye neziphene kunye nokungaphumeleli kokuphuhliswa kuthathwa ingqalelo.
Iqela lempilo libonisa ukuba litshintshe ubomi, ngelishwa, njengommiselo, ngakumbi.
Njengoko ubona, impilo yomntwana ixhomekeke kwizinto zokuzalwa, uhlobo lokuzala, ukuveliswa okuchanekileyo komntwana wokuqala kunyaka, kunye neemeko zokunyamekela okufanelekileyo, ukondla, oko kukuthi, ukusingqongileyo.
Ngaba ngabazali abathandanayo kufuneka banakekele ingqalelo yonke imiba ephathelele ukucwangcisa ukukhulelwa, ukutya okunomsoco kunye nokunyamekela umntwana ngokwakhe.
Ngelishwa, inkqubo yokucwangcisa ukukhulelwa ayizange ingene kwi "mkhuba" jikelele, nangona kunjalo, ivela kwizikhokelo zezempilo zabazali bexesha elizayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa ukuba impilo yengane engakazalwa ixhomekeke ngqo. Ucwangciso olufanelekileyo luquka:
- ukuxilongwa kwimeko yempilo yabazali bexesha elizayo; ukuba kuyimfuneko, izifo ezithile kufuneka zisuswe;
- tyelela udokotela wamazinyo,
- ukuphumla ngokupheleleyo phambi kokukhulelwa kwendalo,
- Ukungabikho kwimikhwa emibi (iziphuzo ezishisayo, ukutshaya, ukubukela iTV, ukuthintela ekunxibelelaneni nomnxeba)
- isithintelo esiphezulu ekusetyenzisweni kwee-pharmacological agents kunye neekhemikhali zasemakhaya,
- isithintelo sokwabelana ngesondo.
Ukuvela kwelungu elitsha lentsapho ibaluleke kakhulu ebomini yabazali abatsha. Ngako oko, kubalulekile ukulungiselela ngokufanelekileyo ukuzalwa komntwana, ulwazi lwemiqathango yokunyamekela, ukondla, ukuqina, isiseko sempilo yomntwana. Kungatsholwa ukuba le yenzululwazi yonke, ekufuneka iqondwe ngabazali abanengqiqo. Kubalulekile ukudibanisa iingcamango ezimbini ezifana nempilo kunye nokuqonda. Umntwana kufuneka abe nokuzibandakanya kwimpilo ngokulungiselela abazali, apho indima ebalulekileyo idlala ngumbono wengqondo obeka ngqo ngqo kwiimeko ezithile zempilo zomntwana.