Ukuziphatha
Nangona besifazane kunye ne-Soviet edlulileyo, apho abafazi basebenze ngokulinganayo namadoda, kodwa abazange baxolelwe kwiimbopheleleko zokuba ngabafazi nabamama abafanelekileyo, indima yabasetyhini kwishishini laseRussia lixutywe kakhulu. Amadoda ayengakulungele ukwabelana ngeshishini ngesini sobuthathaka, ngoko ngoku aqhelekanga athathe abafazi ngokugqithiseleyo. Abo bafazi abagqibe ekubeni baqalise ishishini labo, bajongene nelokuba amadoda abaphatha kakubi kwaye angakholelwa. Ukuba bafumana ithuba lokubona ubuchule kunye nobuchule obuphezulu bentombazana, bambiza ngokuba ngumntu kwipketi, khawuqwalasele i-bitch uze udideke.
Abasetyhini bahluke ngakumbi kwiimvavanyo zabo. Abo babameli besini esilungileyo esicinga ukuba ngumsebenzi wabo wokuphucula ekhitshini kwaye bavelise inani elikhulu lenzala, baqinisekise ukuba akukho mfazi oqhelekileyo onoyolo ebomini bentsapho akayi kuza engqondweni ukuphazanyiswa kwintsapho. Abanye bachasene nabasetyhini abaphumelelayo, ukuba bona ngokwabo abazange bazuze nantoni na. Ukungathandwa kwabasetyhini kumfazi weshishini unokuchazwa ngumbono wesibini kwaye ukwesaba ukuba uphumelele ngakumbi, ukhuselekile kunye nokuzithemba kuya kuba ngumncintiswano omkhulu kumlo woluntu.
Njani ukusinda?
Kunzima kakhulu kumntu oshishino ukuba aphile kwihlabathi lomntu, ukugcina uxolo lwakhe lwengqondo aze ahlale esifazana. Kodwa kukho iindlela eziliqela zokugqithisa iingcamango ezibukhali.
Okokuqala , musa ukufana nabantu, bedlala yimithetho yindoda. Ukuba ungumfazi ophethe ishishini, ngoko, mhlawumbi, unamaqhinga amaninzi phakathi kwamadoda. Benza ngendlela yabo, ngokugqithiseleyo nangokuvulekileyo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ibhinqa liyakwazi ukwenza iminqweno yesintu kwaye iziva ikhululekile ngexesha elifanayo. Kodwa nangona ulawula ukuqonda indlela yolawulo lomntu, umngcipheko wokufumana ilebula yendoda ekhanda iphezulu. Ngoko zihlale wena-zinyameko, zinyameko, zihle. Abasetyhini banokuguquguquka, bazivumelanisa ngokulula kwiimeko ezintsha kwaye bafumane iindlela zokusombulula iingxaki ezahlukeneyo ngokukhawuleza. Sebenzisa le mandla - amadoda akayi kubachasa, ngoko zonke izenzo zabo ziya kuqikelela.
Okwesibini , maqondana nentsebenziswano, kungekhona ekujonganeni. Awukwazi ukwenza ishishini yedwa, uya kuba nabasebenzi, abathengi, amaqabane, kunye nabaphiswano. Bonke baya kuba ngabahlukeneyo ngokwesini, kwaye kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba abafazi abaphumeleleyo abaqhelangayo abavumi ukunyanzela kwabanye. Musa ukucaphukisa nabani na ukuba babe nomona, musa ukuzithethelela iimpazamo zakho kunye neepazamo ngenxa yokuba ungumfazi. Funda ukuxoxisana kwaye ufumane ukulungelelanisa, oku kuya kuba ngenye yamandla akho amakhulu.
Okwesithathu , musa ukulibala ukuba umsebenzi awuhlawulelanga ukungabikho kobomi bomntu. abo bafazi abangenazo intsapho okanye ubudlelwane obunaphakade, bahlala behla kwaye baziphathe ngendlela engafanelekanga, ngenxa yokuba ukunganeliseki kwabo kubavimbela ukuba benze ishishini ngentloko ebanda. Ungazikhangeli ubumnandi bokuhamba ngemihla, kwaye ukuba usenayo intsapho, yenza umgudu wokuwugcina. Abo basomashishini baseRussia abanovuyo emtshatweni banamandla kunabo basebenzelana nabo, ngokuba banenkxaso enzulu kunye nefuthe lokuphumelela ezintsha.
Abafazi baseRashiya kwi-ishishini yaseRashiya bahluke kakhulu kubasetyhini boshishino eMelika naseYurophu. Abahlali bethu abangekho njengabesifazane njengabasetyhini bezinye iintlanga, bahlala kwiimeko ezilukhuni kwaye baphoqeleka ukuba baxhathise iimvakalelo ezimbi. Kubalulekile ukuba ungesabi ukuba uphumelele, kungekhona ukunikela ngamathuba akho ngenxa yombono wabanye. Ukuba ulawula ukugcina uvelwano lwakho, uya kuba neengcinga ezilungileyo, kunokuba iintshaba kunye nobunzima ekwenzeni ishishini kuya kuba ngaphantsi kunabesifazane abathintekayo.