Abaninzi kubo banokuyenza ngaphandle kwe-caress, ukunakekelwa nothando lwabo lonina. Emva koko, basencinci kwaye banokukhuseleka. Khawucinge nje ukuba ezi zintsana zivakalelwa njani, njani zisabanda kwaye zisoyika.
Kwaye masibuyele kwiwethu, kwihlabathi labantu. Kodwa asiyi kulungisa iimvakalelo zomntwana, kodwa masithathe umntu omdala. Kwaye kuya kuthi kungalunganga ukuthetha "indoda," kuba asiyi kuthetha ngomntu wonke, kodwa malunga nalo mfazi.
Masibuyele emva koko xa sicinga ukuba i-cub iyayiva njani. Ngoku ke khawucinge ukuba le mvakalelo inomfazi. Kodwa iimvakalelo ezinjalo azizalisi rhoqo, kodwa ngamaxesha athile. Ngokomzekelo, ungathatha imeko apho ibhinqa liphosa umntu oyithandayo. Lo ngumzuzu xa evakalelwa njengomntwana omncinci. Yintoni esiya kuyo? Kwaye yintoni na. Xa indoda ingayinaki ibhinqa, ngoko ivakalelwa ngokufanayo.
Kwale mzuzu intombazana iyaqonda ukuba yonke into iphela ngoku, kwaye iya kuhlala yodwa. Abasetyhini banesabisa kakhulu. Umbuzo othi "Umfazi angayiva njani indoda? "Ivala kuwo onke amaqonga amabhinqa, kwaye ayimangalisa. Kodwa kuyaqaphela ukuba kuphela i-80% yale miyalezo, enenenjongo.
Abafazi abaqondi ukuba indoda-ayithandi ukuphazamiseka. Makhe sicinge ngale meko ngoku. Wena uhlala esihlalweni kwaye ubukele umboniso wakho ozithandayo weTV. Ngoku umzuzu onomdla kakhulu, olungisa yonke into. Emva koko umyeni wakho uza kuwe kwaye uqala ukuthetha nawe ngesihloko esinzulu. Uthukuthelele kakhulu, khala, kodwa uya kuzicingela ukuba uya kuxubusha oku kamva. Kodwa akusiyo yonke into elula njengoko ibonakala ngokuqala. Ingqondo ingummangaliso omzimba wethu, okhumbula yonke into, nangona sifuna. Kwingqondo, into eyakucaphukisa, kwaye awuzange uyithande lo mbuzo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuhlehliswa. Oko kukuthi, ingqondo ibeka umyalelo ozenzekelayo wokucaphukisa xa ucela lo mbuzo. Uyakwazi ukukhumbuza ifilimu eyaziwayo "Chofoza". Uyakhumbula indlela i-console eyayiqala ngayo ukubuyisela ixesha lokusebenza ngokwaso, isondo, isidlo sakusihlwa kwitheyibhile yentsapho kunye nezinye izihlandlo? Nantsi yonke into ifana nayo, yile mgaqo womsebenzi uhlukile.
Emva kokufunda le mhlathi, kufuneka ube nomfanekiso omncinci entloko yakho, ngokugqithiseleyo umgaqo othe ngqo, ongafanelekanga. Kumfazi ukuba uvezwe yindoda, kufuneka uxoxe naye ngesihloko esifanelekileyo ngelixa umntu ekhululekile, kwaye awuyi kumphazamisa. Indoda ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuqhubeka ethetha nawe ukuba le ngongoma ibalulekile.
Musa ukulibala ukuba elinye igama elingcolileyo lingatshintsha ngokupheleleyo imeko yonke. Masibuyele ekubukeni umboniso weTV, kodwa ngeli xesha awuyi kubukela iTV, kodwa umyeni wakho, kungekhona umboniso weTV, kodwa ibhola yebhola, enengqiqo, nangona kukho amadoda angathandi ibhola. Ngoko, ubheka ibhola, uze ucele kuye: "Mthandeka, susa imfucuza, nceda." Kukho ibinzana eliqhelekileyo, kwaye bathi ngaloo ndlela. Ngoku siza kuqonda into ephosakeleyo apha.
Ngoko, uhlala kuye, kwaye ke umfazi wakhe: "Mthandi, khawucime, nceda, nkunkuma." Uhlobo luni lokuphendula oluya kuvela kumyeni wakhe? Wonke umntu unendlela eyahlukileyo ... umntu uza kumemeza: "Thatha! ", Nabanye:" Uthande! ". Akumangalisi ukuba sinikeza imizekelo enokuqala, ukuba silapha sizisa iingxoxo ezinzulu - akukho nto yayingatshintsha, uya kuba nzima ukuqonda oku. Ngoko, buyela kwisihloko sethu.
Kubonakala ngathi ukuba umyeni uphendula njengento ebonakalayo kwintlobo yesibini, ngoko akukho ziingxaki phakathi kwakho, kodwa kwakungekho. Awuyi kukholelwa ukuba ubuxoki buya kuvela, kodwa ukhetho lokuqala kule meko luya kuba ngcono, ukuba awuqwalasela into yokuba kwimeko yesibini umyeni unokunyaniseka. Kodwa ubunokwenzeka beli 10% kuphela. Ibhinqa eliza kuvezwa yindoda ehlala ethembekile kunye naye kulula kakhulu. Ngoko ke, olu hlobo lwamadoda apha aluchaphazelekayo.
Ngoko, ngokukhawuleza ukuphendula, ingqondo yomntu ayicingi ukuba ayikhumbule le mzuzwana, kwaye umfazi uya kukwazi ukuthetha naye kwesi sihloko nangaliphi na ixesha. Kwaye nantsi ityala lesibini .... Yonke inzima kakhulu kunokuba ibonakala. Uya kukhumbula kancinci konke oku, aqokelele ngaphakathi kuye lo msindo, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngelinye ilanga uya kutshabalalisa. Emva koko umtshato wakho unokutshatyalaliswa.
Zama ukucela umthandi wakho ukuba angabonakali ixesha langoku. Oko kukuthi: "Mthandi, khawucime, nceda, yilahla inkunkuma xa ukhululekile." Kufuneka uqonde ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba ucela ntoni, ngaphandle kokumemeza, indoda ayikwazi ukuthatha inkunkuma. Kodwa ukuba uthe wamxelela ukuba xa ekhululekile, uya kukwenza. Uya kuqala ukugaya isazela sakhe, athe wathembisa kwaye akazange akwenze, uya kuqala ukusibalela. Oku kuyona ndlela inenzuzo kuwe. Kwaye inqaku elithi "xa ukhululekile" lususa ukukhubeka kwaye landisa amathuba awayefuna kuwe, ngoko, thetha ngalo.
Umfazi angayiva njani indoda, ukuba akafuni ukuxoxa ngale sihloko, kungakhathaliseki ntoni? Apha ungathatha naye, njengomntwana. Zama ukudlala umdlalo naye, apho unokuxoxa ngesihloko oyifunayo. Kwakhona, unokuzama ukumvuza ngento ebalulekileyo kwingxoxo, kwaye makungabi siswidi, kungcono ukumbuza into afuna ukuyifumana ngokubuyisela. Ngokukhawuleza ulumkise, ungamcaphukisi, ukuba uthe ufuna isondo, kulungile, kuba uziphatha njengomntwana. Ukuba awufuni ukuzalisekisa umnqweno wakhe, ngoko ungayikhupha, kodwa ungakulibali ukuba inzuzo isekho ecaleni.
Le yimithetho ephambili emele ilandelwe. Yimangalisa njengoko kubonakala ngathi, ingqondo yomntu iyicinga ngalo mgaqo. Zama utshintshe intetho yakho, kwaye ke uya kukuva.