Indlela yokubala iindleko zexesha elizayo

Bathi asinakusindisa kubantwana. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba iindleko zigqithise umda ongenakwenzeka? Ngenxa yoko, siza kuzincoma.

Inshshurensi yonyango: kulungile ukuthenga?
Umba oyintloko abazali abafanele bajamelane nawo kukuba basebenzise iinkonzo zonyango okanye zikarhulumente, okanye benze isicelo somgaqo-nkqubo we-inshorensi yonyango ngokuzithandela.
Akukho nto
Inkonzo kwiipolyclinics zombuso kunye nezibhedlele zihlala zikhululekile. Ewe, awuyi kuhlawula ukubonisana noogqirha, ukuhanjiswa kohlalutyo. Kodwa iindleko zamachiza eziyimfuneko kubantwana abaninzi ngonyaka, kwaye ishedyuli yoogqirha ayisoloko ikulungele.
Ukongeza kwi-set standard of services, umgaqo-nkqubo we-VHI unokubandakanya: unokwenzeka ukuba unogqirha weentsapho, ukulungiswa kweeyure ezingama-24 kunye neengcali kwifowuni, ukuhamba kwezilwanyana kunye nokuhanjiswa kwezilwanyana, ukunikezelwa kweemvavanyo, ukuxilisa, ukugonywa, okubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana abangaphantsi komnyaka omnye kunye neentsapho ezinamaxesha amaninzi abantwana abagulayo.

Ugqirha!
Ngenxa yezizathu ezicacileyo, iingcali ezininzi, ngokukodwa phakathi kwamagunya ahloniphekileyo kwintsimi yabo, ziyaqhubeka zihamba eziklinikhi zangasese, kwaye ukubonisana ngexesha elilodwa kunye nabo kungabiza kakhulu. Kodwa khumbula ukuba kubaninzi babo kuba ngumsebenzi wexeshana kuphela. Kwizithili, iipolyclinics zesebe okanye izibhedlele, nazo zithatha i-reception-kwisikhululo sabantu abakhulu. Ukufumana kubo ukubonisana kunokuba kunye neendleko ezingaphantsi.

ISikole sokuphuhliswa kwexesha lokuqala: lifikeleleke kakhulu
Kukho amaziko amaninzi aphuhliso lweziko lokuqala, apho afunda yonke into ehlabathini, kunye nemali eninzi. Kodwa uphuhliso alukho iSpanish kunye nesiTaliyane ukususela kwiminyaka emithathu, ukugibela kunye nokucelwa kwiklabhu ehloniphekileyo. Olu lwazi olutsha kunye nezakhono olungele ukunika umntwana. Ngaloo ndlela, i-studio yobugcisa kunye nayiphi na iikhosi zokucula, ukubunjwa kwiplastiki kwiNdlu yeNkcubeko yeNkcubeko akufani kakhulu namaziko "apholileyo" kunye nama-studios. Kuyafana nakwezemidlalo. Amacandelo angabizi, anikezelwa kwimidlalo nakwiiklabhu zempilo, anika ithuba lokuzama iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezemidlalo ngaphandle kweendleko ezinkulu kwaye ukhethe okuthabatha umdla.

Waldorf, Montessori?
Ngaba ufuna inkqubo yoqeqesho "eyodwa" kunye nesimo sengqondo esikhethekileyo kumntwana? Khetha iindlela zokuphuhlisa iindlela - i-Waldorf, i-Montessori okanye okufana nayo. Njengomgaqo, iiklasi kumaziko anjalo afikeleleki. Kodwa bafanele!
Izambatho kunye nezicathulo: siya kuvuya ukuwamkela njengesipho ...
Ukukhula okuqhubekayo komntwana kunomdla, kodwa xa usondela kwikamva elilandelayo uyazibona: ijacket ithenge iinyanga ezithandathu ezedlulileyo ayikho ithemba elincinci, kwaye izibhotshi, ezifunyenwe entwasahlobo, azizange zikwazi "ukuhlala" kuze kube yonyaka - ungena kwi-stupor. Awuthandi iimpahla eziphantsi kweemarike? Khangela ezinye iindlela ezifumanekayo zokuhlaziya ikhabethe labantwana.
UkuThengiswa kweMpahla
Musa ukuzibala kakhulu kubo: ebusika bathengisa ihlobo, kwaye ehlobo-ebusika. Ukufikelela kunjani ubungakanani bomlenze womntwana oza kukhula ngaphezu kwehlobo, kunzima ukuqikelela kwangaphambili, ngoko kulula ukuphosakela ngokuthenga "ukukhula".

Ukuba unabo bahlobo abanabantwana abadala kunani, bacinga ukuba unethamsanqa. Kwaye kulula ukuba ngabahlobo-akudingeki ukuba uhlaziye ngaphezu kwento enokwenza ngayo izinto ezintle, apho umntwana akhula khona. Kwaye uyamangalisa: ngezihlandlo umntwana wakho "uyawa" iimpahla ezintle.

Funda amaqonga "Mama" kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo zabazali. Kulapho, oomama bayaqhagamshelana, batshintshe iimpahla, izicathulo, amathoyizi. Ukuba akukho nkundla injalo kwisixeko sakho, kutheni ungayilungiseleli? Ingxaki ngeengubo zihlala ngonaphakade, kwaye isinyathelo sakho asiyi kuhlala singacingi.
Ukulandela iingcebiso zethu, unako ukugcina ixesha elikhulu.