Abantu abakhulu bathi inyaniso yento indoda ibonakala xa engenanto yokwenza. Ngoko yintoni eyona nto ibalulekileyo yinto yethu?
Ukuchitha ixesha kwi-cafe, ibhar, ivenkile yokudlela yindlela eqhelekileyo yokuphumla, ngoko kuthetha ukuphumla kwe-gastronomic. Abantu bazama ukudala umoya ococekileyo ngoncedo lwezinto ezidliwayo kunye notywala. Le ndlela isele ibe yinto efanelekileyo, kwaye oku, okoqobo, akubi.
Kodwa yintoni enokuba yinto eyahlukileyo yokuzonwabisa?
Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zaqinisekisa ukuba "inambatho yobomi" inokuchazwa kumzamo wokuqonda okutsha, okusebenzayo kumsebenzisi.
Ixesha elikhululekile lingaba kwaye akudingekanga kuphela inzuzo yesisu, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke ukuphucula ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuchitha ixesha lakho lokukhulula, umzekelo, imfundo. Ingasetyenziselwa ukufunda iilwimi, xa ufumene ulwazi olutsha luhlobo olumnandi kakhulu, apho ufumana ulonwabo lokwenene ukuba uchithe ixesha lakho lokuzikhethela.
Unokwenza iprogram yenkcubeko eyintandokazi, ukuvakasha imiboniso, iminyuziyamu, iidema, iikonsathi. Olu hlobo lokuzilibazisa luya kukuvuyisa kakhulu kwaye lucebise ngolwazi olutsha.
Unokufumana umdlalo othakazelisayo ngomphefumlo wakho, nokuba yinto: ukudansa, imibongo yokubhala, umculo, konke okukukholisa ngokwenene.
Phumla kwimvelo, yedwa kunye neemvakalelo zakho, zincinci kwaye zizisa iingcamango. Ukuphumula okunjalo kugcwalisa amandla ixesha elide elizayo.
Ukuthetha kunye nabazalwana bethu abancinci, le nto enye yeentlobo zokuzonwabisa, ngenxa yokuba izilwanyana zethu ezithandayo ziyakunciphisa uxinzelelo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, unokuchitha ixesha lokuhamba wodwa, imali iya kuchitha ngaphantsi, kwaye ukuzonwabisa okuhambayo akuyi kuba ngaphantsi.
Kukho into enye kodwa ekuphumuleni okuzimeleyo, nantsi into ephambili ayiyikukhathazeka, kuba kukho ingozi yokukhulelwa ekhaya kunye noxilongo, ukuzonwabisa, utywala. Nangona isiphumo esinjalo esingathandekiyo singaba kunye nabahlobo abahle - amaqabane, kubalulekile ukuba nekhanda kumahlombe akho kwaye uzilawule.
Abantu abaninzi abanakho ukucinga ngeeholide zabo ngaphandle kwemimoya. Ngeeholide sivame ukuhlobisa umthendeleko ngeentlobo zotywala, kwaye sibona kule ndlela kuphela efanelekileyo yokuphumla. Enyanisweni, utywala akaphumi, kodwa ukhululeka, ushiye umva wokukhathala nokukhungatheka.
Ngoku, kwingcamango "yenkcubeko" yokuphumula, utywala uhlala kwindawo eqinile. Uninzi lwethu alubonakalisi intlanganiso kunye nabahlobo okanye ukuya kwibhola lebhola (ikhonkethi) ngaphandle kokusela utywala.
Nangona isiseko esineenkcukacha ngokubanzi malunga nokulimala kotywala, ukusela, njengendlela yokuphumla, iyaqhubeka isenziwa. Kule meko, ukusetyenziswa kotywala okunobungcipheko kuthukuthelisa umzimba, kwaye awuniki nasiphi na isiphumo somzimba okanye sengqondo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ukusetyenziswa kotywala rhoqo kunokukhokelela kwisifo esifana notywala. Umzimba usetyenziswa kulo hlobo lokuphumla kwaye umntu unqabile ukuba nomdla kuyo nayiphi na injabulo, ezinye izinto ezinjengezo zesini, ezingaba mnandi kuye. Ukunyanga kotywala kunzima kakhulu, njengoko kuxhomekeke ekuxhomekeke kwengxube kwengxube. Ngaphezu koko, emva kwekhefu elinokubakhomba, kunzima kakhulu ukudibana kunye neengcamango namandla okuqala ukusebenza ngeveki. Kufuneka uzinyanzele ukuba uye emsebenzini.
Ngokuphambene noko, ixesha lokukhulula linikwa umntu ukuba abuyisele amandla ekuphuculeni ngokomoya nangokwenyama. Iingcali zengqondo zinika le ngcamango inkcazo-ukuzonwabisa, eli lixesha umntu adinga ukuthetha ngokuthandana, imfundo, ukusebenza kwemisebenzi yoluntu, ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo, umdlalo wamahhala weengqondo kunye nomzimba.
Kakade ke, nguwe kuphela onokugqiba indlela yokuchitha ixesha lokuphumla ngenzuzo, yedwa okanye kunye nabantu abalungileyo. Kuninzi kuxhomekeka kwinjani uhlobo lomsebenzi onalo, nokuba ludibaniswe noqhagamshelwano oluqhubekayo okanye lugqithisekile kwaye luthandekayo. Ngendlela ochitha ngayo iiyure zokusebenza zokusebenza, phakathi kwabantu okanye ukuhlala kwindawo enye kunye nokuthetha kuphela ngamaphepha kunye nekhompyutha, kuxhomekeke kwiminqweno yokuchitha ikhefu (ikhefu) yedwa okanye omnye umntu.
Umzekelo, ungumntu omncinci kwaye onenjongo, kwaye uyazi kakuhle into oyifunayo ebomini, usuku lwakho lusasazwa ngokwemizuzu, ixesha elincinci likhululekile. Kodwa umnqweno wokuphuhlisa nokufunda into entsha ukhona na? Emva kwakho konke, unokuzihlakulela ngexesha lokuphumla. Unokumema abahlobo bakho ukuba badlale ibhola, ibhola lepalini okanye omnye umdlalo osebenzayo, nokuba utsha kulo, ixesha aliyi kutshabalala kwaye ulwandle olubonakalayo olubonakalayo luqinisekiswa kuwe. Ukuphumla okusebenzayo kukukhetha okugqibeleleyo kunoma yiphi ubudala.
Mhlawumbi ibhola yebhola ayikho kuwe, ngoko unako ukujoyina ubugcisa bomculo. Umculo yinto eninzi yoluntu kubo bonke ubugcisa, ukuba ubukade uphupha ukufunda ukudlala igitare, upiyano okanye i-double bass, ngoko kutheni? Iphupha lizaliseka, ngumzamo omncinane nje. Unokufumana izifundo ezininzi ezivela kumhlobo onokudlala igitare okanye okanye nge-Intanethi. Ngethamsanqa, kukho iindawo ezizodwa ezikufundisa ukuba uhlele izixhobo. Ukufunda ukudlala igitare, unokukwazi ukuba ngumphefumlo kwanoma iyiphi nayiphi na inkampani kwipikiniki. Kupholile ukuhlala ngomlilo uze ucule ingoma epheleleyo.
Saphinda sibuyele kwi nyaniso yokuba kwinkampani ichitha ixesha lokuzonwabisa. Kodwa masingakulibali ukuba wonke umntu kufuneka azinikezele ekuphumleni komntu ngamnye ukuze athole amandla. Ukuba ukhetha ukuhlala wedwa kwinkampani ezinomsindo, yenza into yokudala, umzekelo, ukudweba. Ukudweba kuyithuba lokubonisa oko ubonayo. Akunandaba nokuba sikubonisa phi, ngohlobo, inhloko okanye ubomi. Kwaye akudingekile ukuba ube nolwazi olunjengePicasso, into ephambili ukuvula intliziyo entsha, ukuphosa iimvakalelo
Into eyona nto ayikukuba ukwesaba ukuqala kwintsha, kwaye kufuneka uphumle nomphefumlo wakho! Yiba nokuphumla kunye nenzuzo kunye nemihlali!