Indlela yokugcina ubudlelwane phakathi kobudlelwano

Sonke siyazi ukuba abafazi bathanda isimo sengqondo. Sinovuyo kakhulu ukufumana nayiphi na impawu yokuxabisa nokuxabisa, ukuncoma, izipho. Ibhinqa liyakunceda umntu ukuba amxelele oko akufunayo. Ubuchule obumangalisayo buyingqungquthela yemvelo, ngoko ke konke kwenzeka kwizinga elingaphantsi. Ixesha elide elisekwe ngabafazi bathanda iindlebe ziyaziwa ngabantu bonke, kodwa bakholelwa ukuba indlela eya entliziyweni yamadoda ifanele isithulule kuphela kwisisu. Ngaba abantu abanalo umnqweno wokufumana indumiso evela kukhethiweyo okanye ilizwi elihle?

Akunjalo. Amadoda nje abelwa indima yowesifazane ogcinwe kwiimvakalelo zomkhuseli. Kodwa uyaxhalabisa, kunye ne-caresses, kwaye ingqalelo kuye ngokwakhe, akukho ngaphantsi kweyowesifazane. Ngoko ke, ukuze ulondoloze ubudlelwane phakathi kweentsebenziswano, umntu makangayikhohlwa malunga neemvakalelo zeqabane, kungekhona ukunyamekela zonke izenzo zakhe. Kwaye ngezenzo zakhe ukufumana oko akufunayo okwangoku kuwe, ukuba wenze lo msebenzi.

Inzala enomdla
Ukunxibelelana nomntu, kufuneka uhlale uthembekile, ungesabi ukuthetha entliziyweni. Kwimibono akumele kubekho amanqaku amanga. Isondo esinamandla sivakalelwa kakuhle. Ukunyamekela kwakho kwantoni kuya kuxabiswa. Kodwa ungazami ukudibanisa inkululeko yakhe. Kuya kugqitywa kakubi. Akufanele ukhulume naye ngetoni ehlelekile okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, umbonise njengomntwana wakho uze uzame ukusombulula iingxaki zakhe ngonina. Seyindoda ebanjwe, makenze isigqibo sokuba yintoni eyamkelekileyo kuye. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha akayi kunika amazwi amnandi kunye nomusa kuwe. Into ephambili kukuba amazwi akho ayenene, kwaye uya kuvakalelwa.

Isimo sengqondo
Wonke umntu uneemeko xa kukho into efuneka yatshintshwe, iguqulelwe. Amadoda kwiingxaki ezinjalo zizolile, azixhalabisi. Baza kufumana zombini inkcazo kunye nesisombululo. Kodwa abafazi kwiimeko ezinjalo abakwazi ukuphelisa iimvakalelo zabo ezimbi, baqala ukukhubeka, bamemeza, bafunge. Abakwazi ukuchaza ukuba kutheni oku kwenzekayo kunye nendlela yokulungisa lo mcimbi. Kwaye ukuba umntu uhlehliselwe umhla, ngoko kukho izizathu ezininzi. Kwaye abafazi baqikeleleke baya kubukeka banobudenge emehlweni endoda. Emva koko, wachitha nje umatshini okanye kwinkonzo evalelwe intloko.

Ndingathini kuye ngale nto? Simele sizame ukuqonda izizathu, sifumane oko kwenzekayo emsebenzini, yintoni ukuphazamiseka kwemoto kwaye kuya kulungiswa ixesha elingakanani? Akukaze kudingekile ukuba kuqhutywe ama-hysterics, ukukhangela nokuzisa izizathu ezingenanto. Oku kuya kumcasula, kuya kuba neengxabano, ezinokubeka umtshato wakho engozini.

Ulwalamano olusondeleyo
Kwaye ungacingi nje ukuba isondo esingathandabuzekiyo sithanda iindlebe. Nawuphi na umntu uthanda ukuva ngaye ngokwakhe ngamazwi amnandi kunye nobungqina. Oku kuyinyani ngokukhethekileyo kwinqanaba elisondeleyo. Njengomzingeli, uya kuba novuyo kakhulu ukuva amazwi anomdla, ukuncoma kwimbongolo ebanjwe. Oku kuphakamisa kakhulu ukuzithemba kwakhe. Uqala ukuziva ngathi ungumphathi wegumbi lokulala kwaye uya kuzama nzima ukukukholisa ngazo zonke iindlela.

Imicimbi Yasekhaya
Abasetyhini bathanda xa umthandayo emdumisa ngesidlo sakusihlwa okanye isidlo sakusihlwa, uvavanya ihembe elimhlophe kuye kwinqanaba eliphezulu. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha abafazi bayakulibala ukuba le yinto efanayo abantu abayithandayo. I-shelled-shelf for the work, fix the shotcase - kwakhona uthi ngiyabulela. Umbono wakho kumntu uhlala uxabisekileyo. Khumbula oku. Kwaye umgangatho womsebenzi wakhe awufanele uhlolwe. Into ephambili ubona kwaye uyamkela umsebenzi wakhe. Musa ukumxelela malunga neshefu ekhohliweyo, kodwa zama ukubuyisela umsebenzi kunye naye. Uya kukuxabisa isimo sakho sengqondo kuye kwaye ngexesha elizayo uya kukukholisa nomgangatho womsebenzi owenziwe, owamyalela wona.

Izimpawu zengqalelo
Nangona uhlala ubomi obude kakhulu emtshatweni, sele usetyenzisile kwaye ubeke ixesha elide kumnye nomnye, ngoko-ke simxelele ngokuthandwa kwakhe kunye nokuziphatha ngokwesini. Ukuba umntu uqala ukutshintsha, ngoko akavumi ukuba uyamkelekile kunye nesondo kwintsapho, kukho ukungabi nalutho, okuza kuzaliswe emva koko. Musa ukuncedisa ukuncoma, mthande umthandayo. Uya kuthi ngoko uyazi ukuba uyayidinga kwaye akayi kuphula umtshato wakho osisiseko.

Kubaluleka kweengcebiso
Indoda yokwenene kufuneka iqonde ukuba uyikhokele, kungekhona umfazi wayo. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kumadoda! Mnike ukuba abe yinhloko yentsapho, ncokola naye kwimibandela ebalulekileyo, cinga ngoluvo lwakhe. Oku kwandisa kakhulu ukubaluleka kwamadoda. Ukuba ibhinqa licela uncedo lwakhe, ke uyamthemba ekuxazululeni ingxaki. Emva koko, awukwazi ukusebenzisa le ngcebiso, kodwa kufuneka ucele uluvo lwakho. Uvuyo kuwe emtshatweni!