Ukulungiselela ukusebenza kwentsasa yabantwana

Amantombazana abantwana ahlala eqaqambile, enelanga, enemibala, ezele abantwana ukuhleka nokuvuya, iiholide. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umzali wokuqala kumntwana usemyezo okanye ekudleni. Kodwa ngoku amaziko ahlukeneyo kunye neeklabhu zokuphuhliswa kwangaphambili zichitha imithi yeKrismesi kunye namabhinqa abantwana ukuya kwiminyaka emibini.


Omnye ucinga ukuba kusekuqaleni, kodwa umkhuba ubonisa ukuba umntwana uthanda imisebenzi enjalo. Abantwana abanomdla bahlala kumama kwiipenki baze babone okwenzekayo. Ngubani okhuphayo, uthatha inxaxheba kwimidlalo ethile okanye ekhokelela kumdaniso womdaniso, kodwa abo banesibindi bazimisele ukulwa, bezama ukumazi uSanta Claus okanye amanye amaqhawe emboniso.

Ukulungiselela ukusebenza kwentsasa

Kuye nawuphi na umama, kunoma yimuphi umdala kubalulekile ukulungiselela kakuhle.

Kwaye kufuneka uqale nabazali. Qinisekisa ukuba ufumene kubafundisi okanye kwiinqununu zesikhungo oqhubayo, nokuba ungaya kwiholide kuwe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kuyimfuneko ukubiza umninimkhulu okanye indawo iya kuvumela ukuhlala kuphela kubomama nabantwana. Cacisa ukuba umama uza kuhlala ixesha elingakanani, kungakanani ngaphambi kokuba umntwana angatshintshwa kwaye alungiselele (ukuze angangeni kwi-pandemonium emnyango nasemagumbini). Ngaba kuya kuba netafile enomdla emva komntwana kunye nokuba kungena kwixabiso leholide okanye kufuneka umntu ahlawule ngaphezulu (njengenketho yokuzisa eyakhe iilekese).

Bonke bafuna ukugcina imemori yabantwana bokuqala bamabantwana babo, kodwa akunakulungeleka xa ngamnye ezama ukumbamba umntwana wakhe, ngaloo ndlela avimbela umzimba kumntwana we-vidostal. Phakamisa ukuba uqeshe umfaki-zithombe onguchwepheshe kwiholide okanye ubuze othile kumhlobo wakho ukuba enze ieholide kwividiyo. Ngoko wonke umntu uya kufumana iidiski kwimemori kwaye ayiyi kuba neemeko ezingqubanayo. Ngeeholide zeNtsha zonyaka, iSanta Claus isoloko isinika izipho abazali abaye bazilungiselele kwangaphambili. Musa ukulibala ukupakisha kwaye uyisayine ekhaya, ukuze umntwana angamangaliswa, kwaye umdlali wecala akuzange acinge ukuba isiphi isipho esashiywe esikhwameni. Ukuba umama ubanjwe kwi-kindergarten, njengomgaqo, kwintlanganiso yabazali konke oku kuxoxwa ngako, kodwa akuyi kunceda ukucacisa.

Ngoku unokuqala ukuzisa umntwana kumsebenzi ozayo.

Tshela umntwana ukuba uya kuhlaselwa kwindatshana yamagama, apho yonke inkwenkwe nentombazana ziza kuba ngamaqhawe emilingo, kuquka naye. Nonke niya kubuthana kwiholo enkulu, niza kubona ukusebenza, ukufunda izibongo, ukucula iingoma, ukudansa kwemidaniso, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimincintiswano kunye nakukhuphiswano. Ukukhuphela kwangaphambili iingoma ezihambelana nomxholo we-matinee ingoma kunye nosana. Ungalibali ukukhankanya isipho, kodwa ungenzi nto ibaluleke kakhulu, mhlawumbi ingane inokukhala yonke intsasa, ilindele ukumangalisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba abantwana bayayesaba indoda endala ye-gray-gray yaseSanta Claus. Bonisa iqhawe emfanekisweni, umqhelane naye, umxelele ububele kubantwana, malunga nomzukulu-mzukulu wakhe.

Funda indima, iingoma kunye neengoma

Kwiimvumba ze-sadikovskih, ukulungiswa kweengqungquthela yinto ehlukile. Ukufunda ngentliziyo ayisebenzi kumntu wonke, kungenakukwazi ukuphefumla okanye ukuthetha. Musa ukutshintshela umntwana. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumlungiselela ngokubaluleka kwesi siganeko, kwinto yokuba kuza kuba nabaphulaphuli abaninzi, kodwa musa ukuya kude. Liyindinyana kwaye xa umntwana elahleka, akafanele abe nomuvo wokuba uvumelekile. Oku akusiyo iminyaka kwaye akusiyo ixesha apho ukufunda okunjalo kwezibongo kubalulekile.

Ingane, xa ifumene umntwana wayo wokuqala, iya kuba nekratshi ngaye. Kwaye ukuba ngokukhawuleza kubonakala kumhle okanye inkani enzima nje engafuni ukudlala ihagu okanye amanzi, umsebenzi wakho kukumnceda ukuba afumane ixesha elifanelekileyo kwendima nganye.

Tshela umntwana ngomntu wakhe, cinga ngamacala akhe amnandi kunye namacandelo. Ungabonisa iimifanekiso zeqhawe, ubone iincwadi. Abantu abaninzi abanobubi badlala abantu abadala, kodwa ukuba indima iya kumntwana, ngoko yithi nje kulula ukuyidlala intliziyo enhle, i-Amu idlulise indima ebalulekileyo. Yenza konke ukwenza umntwana wakho azive ekhethekileyo.

Funda amagama abo bonke intsapho. Yabela indima phakathi komnye kunye nezinto ziya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza. Iingqungquthela zikhunjulwa lula kwaye zikhawuleza ukuba ziyaziwa kwaye ziphindaphindiwe zonke.

Izindleko zokusebenza kwentsasa

Umntwana ngamnye uya kubaluleka kwisimo sakhe - umlingisi oza kudlala kwiholide. Okona kuncinci, into ephambili ayiyikulayisha i-suit neprops. Akufanele ukhiqize into: ingubo, ingubo, isambatho se-bunny, ingonyama, ungenawo amaphiko ajikelezayo emva kwesithsaba sakho nesithsaba ezibukhali. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana akayithandi iingubo, ion ayiyikuyiqwalasela kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, eminyaka yobudala bodwa yikumbulo kubazali.

Abantwana abaneminyaka emibili neyesithathu ubudala sele befuna ukuba nomfanekiso othile kwiholide. Ukuba intsimi emantwini inikwe umxholo othize, ke isangqa sabalinganiswa siyaba mncinci kwaye kufuneka nje usebenze kakuhle. Kule meko, inhlanhla yamantombazana-inaliti. Abantwana babo, njengomthetho, ngabafundi bezesayensi ezichanekileyo kunye nabangaphambili. Zama ukwenza kunye nonyana wakho omncinci okanye intombi. Nika uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi, umzekelo, ukuqoqa iqhwa leqhwa (phantsi kweliso lakho) okanye ukhethe imvula efanele. Unokuthenga isitifiketi esilungile okanye uyiqeshe. Ngaba kukufanelekile ukuchitha iindleko zokufuna iimfuno ezinkulu-umbuzo omkhulu, kuba abahlali behlala bekhululekile kumntwana, kodwa njengento yokhetho, kutheni ungabikho. Iifampani zinikela iingubo kwanoma yimuphi umbala kunye nombala, uya kufumana kuwo wonke umzi.

Ukuba awufumani nendima ethile, vumela umntwana ukuba akhethe iqhawe angathanda ukuba yilo. Mnike imifanekiso yezilwanyana ezahlukahlukeneyo, izilwanyana kunye nabasemakhaya, amaqhawe amakhulu, abalinganiswa beemifanekiso zentandokazi kunye neenganekwane. Yenza kunye kunye nezingane. Mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka ufunde iindlela ezintsha zokupaka iimpapier-mache okanye uboyiweyo, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuzalwa kwabantwana kuya kusibuyisela njengomntwana.

Kubafundi besikolo samakhwenkwe angasayi kuba mnandi kwaye iingubo ziza kufuna i-minimalist. Ubuninzi kwinto onokuyichukumisa umntwana - isitya kunye ne-raincoat. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuba abe ngumlingani oqaqambileyo kumama, nceda ukhethe umfanekiso oya kufana nobudala kunye nomlingiswa.

Amaqela asekuseni abantwana abaluleke kakhulu ebomini kwintsapho yakho. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba, nangona lonke uqeqesho, intsana nje ayinayo imvakalelo, amagama anqatshelwe, intshumayelo iyesaba. Ungakhathazeki kwaye uzame ukunqabisa umntwana, umxhase, ungamhlwayi, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, mkhuthaze. Mhlawumbi, phakathi kwentsasa, inkwenkwe iyavuka ize iphele ngokuvuya. Amalungu amaNyaka amatsha amaninzi kufuneka alahlekwe ebusweni. Ewe, oku kuphazamisa abantu abadala kunye nabantwana, abaye balungiselela iiveki ezimbalwa, kodwa kukho indlela yokuphuma. Ngomhla woNyaka oNtsha, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo emva koko, uchithe amaninzi omama kwiziko lokuzilibazisa, iiklabhu zokuzilibazisa kwintsapho, ukuba unokuhamba nomntwana ukuya kwelinye i-matinee kwaye iinzame zakho ezihlangeneyo aziyi kutshabalaliswa.

Sikunqwenela izicwangciso ezilungileyo, abalinganiswa bebalabala, iinkondlo ezifundayo kunye neemeko ezilungileyo kwizikolo zabantwana kwintsapho yonke.