Kodwa ukuba asizange senze ukuba kude nokuguga kungenakwenzeka. Ngoko mhlawumbi siza kuzama ukunyanzela kuye, nokumjonga ngokuhluke ngokupheleleyo? Sonke sifuna ukuba abathandekayo bethu baphile ngokuvuya emva koko. Siphila kwiminyaka ekhulileyo, kwaye umntu unokuphila ngakumbi kwaye ujabule kwimini nganye ephila.
Unyaka wethu unokwahlukana ngamaqela amathathu:
Iqela lokuqala libizwa ngokuba ngumdala we-biological, inokumiselwa yimeko yezinto eziphilayo.
Iqela lesibini libizwa ngokuba lixesha lexesha, sinokulibala ngosuku lokuzalwa kwethu.
Iqela lesithathu libizwa ngokuba ngumdala weengqondo, lithetha ukuba thina sizive njani ngokweminyaka yethu, sinokuvakalelwa kangakanani kuncinci kunokuba kunjalo.
Ewe, i-age ebizwa ngokuba yimiqathango yokulungiswa kwemimiselo ayinakwenzeka ngokomgaqo. Nangona ngokukhawuleza udibanisa usuku lwakho lokuzalwa kwi-passport yakho, kwaye unciphise ubudala bakho ngenani elithile leminyaka, oku kulungile. Kodwa phi isiqinisekiso sokuba le mpazamo kwikamva ayiyi kukunika iingxaki ezininzi. Ngaba udinga amava angamaqhinga angokwengqondo kunye nemibhozo engabonakaliyo ebusweni bakho?
Uhlobo lwesibili lweminyaka, olubizwa ngokuba yi-biological, sinokumisela ngolu hlobo lwempilo yethu.
Ewe, uhlobo lwesithathu lweengqondo. Ndicinga ukuba ngabani na oye wahlangana nendoda eyayibheke ngaphandle kakhulu kuneminyaka yobudala. Abantu abanjalo bahluke kumntu wonke. Ziyahamba zihamba phambili, zinamandla ngakumbi kunye nobomi obubukeka buhluke. Ngaba sinokuyeka ukuguga nokuhambisa izandla iwashi?
Ubudala bezinto eziphilayo kunye nengqondo buhlanganiswe ngokuthe ngqo. Sifanele sifunde ukuqonda ukuba xa sikhula, siba ngcono kakhulu. Ekubeni bethu ubomi, buninzi kwaye bunomdla, kwaye akubi kakhulu. Kufuneka ujabule kuyo yonke imini ebomini bethu. Emva koko, ubomi buhle kakhulu. Kwaye ukuba sifunde ukwamukelwa, siya kuqina, ngokomoya nangaphakathi. Ngoko, siya kujonga omncinane kunye nomphefumlo kunye nentliziyo.
Ukuphumla okungakumbi, yidla kakuhle, yenze imfesane, utshintshe ixesha lakho. Yaye ukuba ufunda konke oku, unokunciphisa ubudala beengqondo.
Funda ukufaka nje into entsha kunye nenhle ebomini bakho. Ubomi buhle kangaka!