Kuvela, kwiingqondo zethu ngokungalindelekanga ukuba sidideke kwaye, ngokukhangela amaqabunga, ukukhwaza, ukukhangela, ukukhangela impendulo yombuzo - Yintoni onokugqoka?
Ukuze kungabi nemibandela enjalo, kunye neemvakalelo ezingadingekile kwaye ngenxa yesimo sengqondo esonakele, umntu kufuneka abe neengubo zemihla ngemihla yakhe ekhabethe.
Indlela yokukhetha iingubo ezikhululekile zemihla ngemihla? Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uphendule lo mbuzo, makhe sizame ukuphendula omnye umbuzo - oko kufuneka ukuba, iimpahla zansuku zonke. Kwaye kwafika impendulo. Utilitarian. Unolwazi, olusebenzayo, oluphezulu. Kufuneka sigxininise isidima sethu kwaye sifihlele iimpazamo zethu, kuba iingubo esizigqoka zihlobo lwesityebi sokuthonya abantu abasondelene nathi. Ngendlela esembethe ngayo, indlela esibukeka ngayo, ngamanye amaxesha kuncike kakhulu. Hayi, njengoko besithi kumzekeliso: "Badibana neengubo, baziva bengqondweni zabo." Ngoko kunjalo, kunjalo, kuya kuba njalo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba luphi uhlobo lomsebenzi esisebenza kuyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni imeko yentlalo kunye nenkolo kwisigqobo sethu sambatho, kufuneka kube nempahla apho, sinokubonakala kwindawo kawonkewonke kwaye singaziveki ngexesha elifanayo ukungahambi kakubi kwizinto ezingagqokanga.
Indlela yokukhetha iingubo ezikhululekile zemihla ngemihla? Okokuqala, sifanele sivavanye ngokucacileyo umzekelo wethu. Awukwazi ukwenza ngokwakho, mema umngane, uya kukuxelela ngendlela enobubele ukuba ububi kangakanani. Musa ukucaphuka. Abantu abagqibeleleyo kwihlabathi abanakho. Thatha kwi inkonzo. Ungacingela engqondweni yakho ukuba yintoni isitayela, yiphi isitayela, yintoni efanelekileyo imbala efunekayo ibe yimpahla yakho yansuku zonke. Awukwazi ukucinga, ngoko kwiivenkile! Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uwele umnqamlezo wekhaya lakho, ubale inani eliyimfuneko lemali yohambo ukuya kwiindawo zokubuyela ekhaya uze ushiye yonke imali ekhaya.
Zama kwiibhola kunye neengqungquthela, ibhulukwe, izikhwama, iziketi, iimvenge, iebhatyi. Abawuthathi imali ukulungiselela. Zama kwizinto eziphilayo. Cinga zonke izicwangciso zemibala, fakanya ingahlanganisi. Zihlolisise. Injongo yakho iingubo ezilungeleyo zonke iintsuku. Kuyo unokuya emsebenzini, uye kwi-cafe, kwivenkile yokutyela, kwintlobo ethile yentlanganiso kwaye ungaziva ngathi unqabileyo olubi. Izambatho apho ulungele ukumkela nayiphi na umngeni.
Khetha iingubo ezikhululekile zemihla ngemihla, eneneni, kunzima, kwaye kufuneka uchithe ngaphezu kweyure, okanye nangomhla, ukudala umfanekiso wakho - umntu ontle, onempumelelo, onelaneleyo. Kodwa ezi ziyimfuno zobomi bethu banamhlanje.
Ungazami ukukopa umfanekiso kumaphephancwadi amasha-fangled, oku akunakho ukufanelana nawe. Qhubela kwi nyaniso yokuba iya kubonakala ilungile kumfanekiso wakho. Fihla ukuzaliseka kungabikho ibhatyi elixilisiweyo, uqoke phantsi kwinqonga elincinane. Vula isifuba, ufihle iipilisi ezingaphezu kweeyaphinda kunye nesisu, iingubo ezinqeni. Ukunyuka ngokubonakalayo ukukhula kunokusebenzisa izicathulo ezithendeni. Ubungakanani bengubo bembesa isikhephe sololo buya kubonakala lukhulu kumfanekiso opheleleyo. U vavanyo !!!
Izambatho ziyakwazi ukugxininisa isidima sakho, kwaye unokuthi, ngokuchaseneyo, zenzele imilinganiselo yakho, ngoko kuthatha ixesha lokudala umfanekiso wakho, ungathengi izinto kwiminqweno yokuqala yeentliziyo, ngoko zizithuli emagxeni kwindawo yakho.
Izambatho zemihla ngemihla, zihambelaniswe ngentsingiselo kwaye ziqwalasela iimpawu zomfanekiso wakho ziya kukulondoloza kanye kunye nabo bonke kulo mbuzo oyingozi esizibuza rhoqo - Yintoni enxibayo?