Umama, into ebalulekileyo kukuba umntwana wakhe abe nempilo. Kodwa abazali behla ngeengcebiso ezininzi, iinkolelo, ukugxeka ukuba kunzima ukuhlala uzolile. Yaye unokuhlala njani uxolo xa ufika kwimpilo yengane yakho. Imibuzo enjalo ingaphendulwa kuphela oogqirha, ngoko ekukhangela inyaniso, ngabo boomama nabaontayo baya.
Ndingakhetha njani ugqirha kumntwana?
Kodwa gcinani engqondweni, oogqirha bahluke, ngoko ke iingcebiso zabo kunye nokuxilongwa kwazo ziyahluka. Ngaphambi kokuba uthenge iyeza kwikhemistri, kufuneka uqonde ukuba ugqirha oya kwii Iingqikithi zikhona iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zabagqirha:
Isifo samabanga aqhelekileyo, isitya
Le ngcali yezingane ayiyi kubhubhisa umntwana wakho. Unako ukuqonda zonke izinto ezintsha, usebenza kunye nezixhobo zakutshanje, kodwa uzama ukuhambelana nezindlela ezindala ezibonisiweyo.
Iinkonzo - oogqirha abanjalo baneziganeko ezimangalisayo, iziyobisi ezicebisayo, zivavanywa zizizukulwana, icebiso lanele.
Ingxaki - ukuba emva kokuwa kweManyano lo gqirha akafundi lutho, ngaphandle kohlobo lokusebenzisana kunye nenkampani ezahlukeneyo zezobisi, ngoko kwimeko enzima, akufanele aphendukele kuye. Ngaba unokucinga ngezinye iindlela?
Iingcali ezingabandakanyeki
Inokubalwa ngokulula, akayikhumbuli imbali yengonyango yomntwana, makungabikho igama lakhe. Emva kwengxoxo emide, unokubuza: "Yintoni ebuhlungu?"
Iinkonzo - ukuba ungumqeqeshi, uya kwangoko emva kwemibuzo embalwa enikezela ukhetho lwezokwelapha, ukunika umfanekiso wesifo kwaye wenze ukuxilongwa. Unokuzolalisa abazali abanentswelo xa kukho into ebalulekileyo eyenzeka kumntwana.
Unogqirha - lo gqirha akakwazi ukufumana inkxaso ye-psychotherapeutic. Oogqirha abanjalo kufuneka baphathwe kuphela xa uyazi ukuba lo ngugqirha olungileyo. Mhlawumbi kubalulekile ukukhuthaza ugqirha ngale mali kwaye emva koko uya kuthobela ngakumbi?
Ogqwesileyo wezilwanyana
Ukuba umongikazi ukubiza ngeyure yesibili, uthembisa ingxaki, ukuba awuyi kuzisa umntwana wakho kwi-inoculation? Unokuvuyiswa, ufike kwi-good doctor.
Iinkonzo. Udokotela wezilwanyana okhulayo uzisa ityala lokugqiba, dekile ukuba unelisekile ukuba umntwana uphilile, akuyi kuba noxolo kubazali. Ikhadi lezokwelapha lizaliswe ngokuchanekileyo, zonke izitofu kunye neemvavanyo zenziwa ngexesha, zonke iingcali zigqityiwe. Loo dokotela wezilwanyana unyanzelekile kubazali abacebileyo.
Umxhasi. Kufuneka uqaphele, ngaphambi kokuba udlule umnqamlezo kwiintlanganiso kunye neelabhoratri okanye uthumele umntwana esibhedlele, cinga, ngaba ufuna le nto? Okanye oogqirha besigqirha besigxina nje.
Ogqwesileyo wezingane
Ugqirha onjalo akafanele afundiswe malunga nokuphuhliswa kwangoko, izilingo zikaSuslov, i-homeopathy, imfundo yemvelo. Uyazi konke oku. Yaye yena unako ukucebisa into ongeke uyenze engqondweni.
Iinkonzo. Ukuvulwa kunye nokuguquguquka kokucinga, okungekho kubi kakhulu. Indlela ngamnye.
Umxhasi. Xabiso layo. Ukuba lo ngumbono ogqwesileyo, akuyi kubakhokhela kakhulu. Xa uxoxisana nomntwana osesikweni esiphambili, kufuneka uqaphele ukuba uneminyaka emininzi awayeyisebenzisayo kunye nokuba uninzi kangakanani kwindlela yokwelashwa kunye nokuxilongwa. Emva kwakho konke, ukuzingela kukubi.
Umntwana wezilwanyana
Uya kukuphulaphula ngokukhawuleza, abuze imibuzo emininzi, ahlolisise umntwana, amnike iimvavanyo, ahlale ezolileyo aze amomotheka kumntwana. Idyll?
Iinkonzo. Ukuba ugqirha onjalo ubona umntwana kwaye ngokunjalo uyakuthatha, ke unelungelo elihle. Ukuthembela kugqirha kubaluleke ngaphezu kweengcebiso ezahlukeneyo. Ukongezelela, ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye nodokotela oya kwiindawo ezinqabileyo.
Umxhasi. Ukuba umntwana unengqondo, nge-snot kunye neqondo lokushisa, ekhala ebhedini, kwaye ugqirha nomama bazama ukumphatha kunye kunye ngexesha elifanayo bathetha "ubomi", ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba into ephuma kuyo.
Mhlawumbi, ngokwemvelo kukho ezinye iintlobo zabantwana bezilwanyana. Kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba nakunoma kunjalo, ngabazali kuphela abajongene nempilo yomntwana. Emva kwakho konke, ngaphandle kwakho, akukho mntu uyamazi kangcono. Yiba nobuhlobo kunye noogqirha abalungileyo, kuba nabo banabantu. Yaye unganqikazi ukubonisa iimfuno zakho okanye ukungathandabuzeki.