Iimeko ezinzima, xa abantwana bekhulile baphoqelelwa ukuba baphile kunye nabazali babo, kuvelise imeko ezinzima. Kwaye xa "igazi lidlala", ufuna yonke into, ngezinye iinkhathi ungakhange ukhangele ukuba abazali basecaleni elilandelayo ... Akunjalo?
Izinketho zokwenza isondo, ukuba abazali basekhaya, baninzi. Kodwa bonke bazisa ukwethuka kwimeko. Uze undikholelwe, nangona "kuthule kakhulu" kwaye emva kweengcango ezivaliweyo, awukwazi ukufihla "injabulo engavumelekanga" nantoni na.
Ewe, kukho iindlela ezingaphezulu okanye ezingekho phantsi kweendlela zokulungisa ubomi bakho, nangona behlala nabazali babo phantsi kophahla olulodwa. Kodwa awona wonke ummeli wesizukulwana esidala unomdla kwaye uyanyamekela ukusebenzisa uhlobo lwe "inkqubo yesayinini." Ngokomzekelo, "mna nomyeni wam sithatha amathikithi e-movie, NgoLwesithathu" - kunye nabantwana abadala bayaqonda ukuba ngoku kusihlwa ukuba unokucwangcisa into ethile ...
Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kuyimfuneko ukwaneliswa yiyo. Yaye oku, akukho ncinane okanye encinci, ukulala ngesondo phantsi kweengubo, xa abazali behamba phambili-kwigumbi elilandelayo. Yaye ukuba sithintela into yokuba ukwaneliseka komnqweno kubangelwa yingozi, ngoko sinokufumana iindlela ezininzi.
Iindlela eziqhelekileyo:
Ukulala ngokwesondo esinjalo, igumbi elihlukileyo, kunye nebhokisi, kunye nokuhlambela nazo zifanelekile. Indlela elula yokuphumeza i-petting, kwaye kunzima - into engavamile. Qaphela iindlela zokukhusela - umzekelo, i-balconi inokubanda, kwaye kwisitya sokuhlambela - kakhulu. Ukucacisa kwii-ambulance oogqirha indlela yokufumana ingozi ngayo, kunye nendlela yokugqoka amaxhoba, kuya kuba neentloni.
Imbali yobomi:
U-Natalia wayenomntu ohlala naye nonina. Kwaye kubonakala ngathi igumbi elihlukileyo livala ngentloko, kwaye indoda ngokwayo - emacaleni onke incomekayo ... Ngoko, idlulile "ukulala" nge-10 ntambama, isibini senza indlela yaso "ekwakhe", ikhandlela zibhekile kwaye iqala kuqala ...
... Ngokubetha kwe-siren egumbini, ukususa umnyango kwiinqununu zalo, umama uyangena. Le ntombazana ayinaso ixesha lokutsala ingubo yakhe kunye ne-"hello". Kwaye umama onamahlazo athi: "Tolya, imoto yakho yaxotshwa!"
Akayibeka apho eqhelekileyo, kodwa umama wayekhangela ngefasitela kwaye akazange abone imoto endaweni ...
- Ngelo xesha kukholelwa ukuba nayiphi na isondo ilungile kunokuba ngabazali ...
Extreme
Kulo gumbi lesigatya okanye ekhitshini; ehleli e tafile; kwisithuba somgibeli, xa esesigodini, umbono odibeneyo wokubonakalisa - awukwazi ukuba yintoni enye onokuyilungisa ...
Imbali yobomi:
Ngokuqhelekileyo uNastya wahlala kunye noRom, xa abazali bakhe beshiya ilizwe. Kwaye ngeli xesha isibini, esabuyela ekhaya ngasekupheleni, sadibana nabazali babo. Kwaye bachaza ukuba bazisa kunye nomakhulu omdala. I-Roma, njengendoda enyanisekileyo, ayikhiphi umhlobo ebusuku, yashiya egumbini lakhe. Ngoku balala ndawonye - ugogo ugqitha ngefestile kunye nesibini esibhinceni esahlukileyo.
Ugogo wayelele ngokugqithiseleyo, waza waqhwaba. Kwaye, emva kokucinga malunga nendlela yokulala ngesondo xa abazali bekhaya, isi sibini asifumananga nto bhetele ...
Bazama ukuthula. Kodwa kusasa, uNastia, eya esikolweni, wathola impendulo evela kuninakhulu wakhe: "Uqale, sele udlala, ndilala!". Emva kwesityhilelo esinjalo, ndifuna ukuwela emhlabeni. UNastya akazange ahlale nenye ...
- Kwaye ngaphandle koko, ubudlelwane obubi kunye nezihlobo buya kuba nzima ngakumbi xa ugqiba ekubeni "ngumntu ongenakunzima"
Ngokukhawuleza ngesondo
Umbuzo wendlela yokulala ngesondo, ukuba ngaba abazali basekhaya, kulula ukucombulula ukuba ngabazali baya evenkile, bafumane iphephandaba okanye ukuhleba nabamelwane. Kwaye ke isibini sibini sivuyiswe "ukuphefumula" kunikwe. Kodwa lonke ixesha omele uliphulaphule - akuyi kukhangela iqhosha? Ngaba ayifuni ukujika? Ngaba unokuva iinyawo kwi-corridor?
Kwaye, ke, iimeko eziyiziphukuphuku kunye nokubuyela kwabazali baninzi. Kwaye ukuba ukhumbuza kwakhona ukuba emva koko bobabini bafuna ukuhlamba, ke ukufihla "ukuzonwabisa okuhle" akuyi kusebenza.
Imbali yobomi:
Umhlobo wam ezintandathu emva kokuba ehambe nesoka lakhe kwikhaya eliqashisayo, waphulaphula amanyathelo, ucofe, uxoxe kwi-corridor.
- Ukuthi isondo esifanelekileyo kunokuba asikho, sinokukwazi ukugqwetha kakhulu.
Ukuphumla nokuphumula
Ngokuqhelekileyo, isibambiso esifanelekileyo ngokwesini, esiya kuba mnandi ukukhumbula, sisimo sengqondo sokuzola kunye nolwalamano olupheleleyo. Ngaloo ndlela kuphela umntu onokuvula imiphefumlo kwaye aziphephe ngokuvakalelwa, ngengqiqo, ngokulungelelaniswa.
Ngoko ke, umbuzo "indlela yokulala ngesondo, ukuba ngabazali basekhaya", kukho impendulo eyodwa kuphela - musa ukujongana nabo ekhaya.
Akukho busuku obunzulu, okanye ukulungelelaniswa kakuhle kwezandi akukwazi ukunika loo ngqiqo ukhuseleko kunye nokubuyisana ngokugcwele ngokwesini, okwenza umnyango ovalelwe kunye neyakhe indlu. Okanye, ngokugqithiseleyo, imoto yakhe, igumbi lomhla okanye ihlathi elinyeneyo ...