Indlela yokulungiselela umtshato - iingcebiso zabaqeqeshi

Ubunye bentliziyo ebini yothando yinto eselindelwe ixesha elide. Enyanisweni, umtshato wonke umntu uyimfuneko ekhethekileyo, eqaqambileyo kunye neholide. Nangona kunjalo, ukubhaliswa okusemthethweni kwiofisi ye-registry kuthatha ixesha elifutshane, kwaye isidlo somtshato asihlali ixesha elide. Kodwa ukulungiselela umtshato kuyinkqubo enzima kwaye ide, equkethe ubuninzi beenkcukacha kunye namatyala. Emva koko, ukuze umtshato uza kukhunjulwa ixesha elide ngabatsha abasandul 'ukuza kunye neendwendwe, kubalulekile ukwenza imizamo eninzi kwaye unikezele kakhulu.

Ukulungiselela umtshato: ukuqala kuphi?

Ngoko, uxelele abazali bakho ngesigqibo sokutshata. Yilapho iqala ukuqhuma, ingakumbi ukuba akukho nto ihamba nayo ekuhleleni umcimbi womtshato. Ngaphambi kokuthatha ishishini, kubalulekile ukugqiba kwiingongoma eziphambili.

Yintoni oyilindele emtshatweni njengeholide?

Abathandi abaninzi banokucinga ngempendulo yalo mbuzo. Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda kakuhle indlela obona ngayo umtshato wakho, oko ku fanele uhluke kumcimbi womtshato womhlobo okanye owaziwayo. Mhlawumbi, xa uthe waphupha ngomtshato ogwini lolwandle okanye kwindlela yokwahlula kunye ne-rock-time-it's time to dream dreams.

Ngoko, kwisigaba sokuqala sokulungiselela umtshato, kufuneka uphendule le mibuzo:

• Yiyiphi indawo ozoyikhethayo kwimibhiyozo yomtshato?
• Zingaphi iindwendwe eziza kubakho kwiqela?
• Ngaba ukhetha ipoliti evelele kwindawo yokutyela (cafe) okanye isidlo esithobekileyo kwisitayela "sasekhaya"?

Misela umhla womtshato

Ukuba unquma ukulungiselela umtshato ngesitayela seqela "lolwandle" okanye "ipikiniki yelizwe", ngoko-ke, akungabazeki ukukhetha ixesha elifudumeleyo-entwasahlobo okanye ehlobo. Ngokombono okhokho bethu, ekwindla bekubhekwa njengesona sihlandlo esihle kakhulu sokugqiba umtshato. Emva koko, ngoSeptemba ukuvuna kwase kuqokelelwe, okwenza ukuba kube lula ukuyenza ithebula lomtshato livule kwaye licebile. Ukongeza, i-autumn and autumn nature iya kuba yimvelaphi epheleleyo yomtshini wesithombe somtshato. Ukucwangcisa umtshato kwindawo yokutyela okanye i-cafe? Kule meko, ixesha lonyaka alibalulekanga kwaye umtshato ungabhiyozelwa ebusika - umzekelo, ukuhambelana noMnyaka omtsha okanye iKrismesi.

Ngokubhekiselele kwimini yeveki, ngokuqhelekileyo ukubhaliswa komtshato kunye nesidlo somtshato sihlehliselwa iveki. Ukuba ukhetha ukubamba isiganeko ngosuku lweveki, iindwendwe ezininzi kufuneka zifuneke okanye zishiye ngaphambili, kuba abaninzi basebenza. Ngoko kungcono ukuvuma kwangaphambili ixesha elinjalo kwaye ukhethe usuku olulungele wonke umntu.

Khetha indawo yokubhalisa umtshato

Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba uphupha umzobo kwiNdlu yeNdlunkulu yeMitshato, ngoko kufuneka unakekele kwangaphambili kwaye ufake isicelo seenyanga ezimbalwa. Emva kwakho konke, njengomthetho, onqwenela "ukudibanisa" nomtshato kwendawo enesidima kunye neyona ndawo ihlala iwanele. Ukuba awuyithandi imithendeleko emnandi, iya kwi-ofisi yakho yokubhalisa yesithili, apho izicelo zithathwa inyanga enye ngaphambi komhla ohleliweyo womtshato. Njengomthetho, umbhalisi ngamnye unika uluhlu lweenkonzo zomtshato:

• ukudweba ngomoya ovulekileyo ngokubongela umbhalisi
• umyalelo womculo
• umfaki-mfanekiso womtshato okanye iinkonzo zomqhubi wevidiyo

Ngendlela, iphuzu lokugqibela kufuneka linike ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo kwaye kungcono ukumema ubuchwepheshe kwangaphambili.

Indlela yokubamba umtshato - khetha ukhetho

Umtshato uyisiganeko osilungiselela ixesha elide, kodwa sibaleka ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza. Ufuna ukwandisa njani le mizuzu engalibalekiyo! Iingubo ezimnandi zomtshakazi, iindwendwe ezihle kakhulu, iimeko ezihlekisayo kunye namahlaya amahle - konke oku kunokuqulunqwa kwaye kuhlaziywa ngezikhathi ngezijikelezo zabahlobo nezihlobo.

Ngako oko, kwiindleko zomtshato kufuneka zibandakanye iinkonzo zomfaki wezithombe okanye umqhubi wevidiyo, kwaye mhlawumbi zombini. Ukuba phambi komzobo unayo ixesha elaneleyo kunye nohlahlo lwabiwo-mali kukuvumela ukuba ulungiselele imfashini ngokusasazekayo-ibhinqa le-Love-story ngaphambili, "ngokukhawuleza" idlula ngosuku lomtshato. Nangona i-photoshoot eqhelekileyo eyenziwe ngokumalunga nemvelaphi yeendawo ezintle kunye nezakhiwo zedolophu, kuya kuba yinto ekhethekileyo. Into eyona nto kukukholosa ubugcisa bokwenene, emva koko, umsebenzi wakhe uya kummangalela emva kweminyaka emininzi.

Indawo yendawo engafanelekanga

Namhlanje, abantu abaninzi banqwenela ukurenta iholo yokutyela okanye i-cafe ecocekileyo kwisidlo somtshato. Isisombululo sikuvumela ukuba ugweme ukupheka nokukhathaza, ukucoca, ukuhambisa ukutya, ukuhlamba izitya kunye nezinye iimeko "zoqoqosho" ezimnandi. Njengomthetho, yonke le misebenzi yomrhumo iya kuba yenziwe ngabasebenzi beziko lokuzonwabisa. Ngoko wena kunye nezihlobo zakho niza kuphumla kwaye nizonwabele, kwaye "ningabambi" ixesha leeholide phakathi kwemisebenzi yekhitshi.

Ukuba unqumle ngomhla wokubhaliswa komtshato, unokuqala ukuxoxisana ngokuqeshisa kwendawo yokutyela, xubusha imenyu yokuzonwabisa kunye nezinye iimeko zentlangano (ezibandakanyiweyo kwisabelo ngamnye ngomntu, ubuninzi bokuthenga utywala).

Ukwenza uluhlu lomtshato

Ngoko, ngamaphuzu aphambili, sanquma. Ngoku ufuna ukucombulula imibuzo eminye ebalulekileyo ngokuphathelele umbutho womtshato. Uya kuthi:

• Ukubala ibhajethi yomtshato
• Ukudweba uluhlu lweendwendwe kunye nokuveliswa nokuhanjiswa kweememo
• Ukukhethwa kwamangqina ngumyeni nomyeni
• Ukukhethwa kweholide ekhokelayo, iimvumi kunye nomculo wokubamba umculo - ezi nkonzo zihlala zibonelelwa kubathengi kwi-cafe okanye kwindawo yokutyela
• Isisombululo sombandela wokuthutha kukuba apha kuyimfuneko ukubala indlela engaphambili (uhambo lomyeni, i-ofisi yobhaliso, uhambahamba malunga nomzi, ikhaya emva kombhiyozo)
• Vumelana nomgcini wezinwele kunye nomgcini we-stylist malunga nekhanda lomkhangeli kunye ne-makeup
• Umyalelo woMtshato weCake
• Qinisekisa umhla we-stag ne-hen
• Cinga kwaye cwangcisa i- honeymoon yakho
  
• Amangqina kunye nabazalwana abasondeleyo njengabancedisi - ngokukhawuleza wena kumjikelezo wexhala kunye nexhala lilahlekelwe ngongoma obalulekileyo eluhlu lomtshato lwamatyala.

Ukongezelela, kuya kufuneka ucinge ngezona zinto zibalulekileyo "ezibalulekileyo", ezinokuthi zinyamekele phambi kokuqala kombhiyozo. Musa ukulibala malunga:

• Ingubo yomtshato kumtshakazi kunye ne-suit for the bride. Ukuthengwa okanye ukuqeshiswa kwezi zibopho akufanele kuhlehliswe kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokugqibela ngaphambi komtshato.
• Iindandatho zomtshato. Njengomthetho, ukuthengwa kwamakhondlo "kugunyaziwe" kumyeni. Enyanisweni, umtshakazi ungcono ukulawula le nkqubo, ukwenzela ukuba ungabambeli ngokukhawuleza ngaphambi kokuhamba ukuya kubhalisi.
• Iipasipoti kunye neerisi zokuhlawula umsebenzi welizwe.
• Iibhanki zamangqina, imihlobiso yomtshato, kunye ne-boutonniere yabasanda kutshata kunye neendwendwe.
• Iibhaloni, iintambo ze-satin, iimfate. Ezi zimpawu zomtshato ziya kufuneka zihlose ukungena kwendlu yomtshakazi.
• Iiswidi, iimali zemali, iphakama iifetal, i-ngqolowa okanye ilayisi. Ngokwesiko, abatshangatshangayo kufuneka bangene "imvula" ebonisa ukuzala, ukuchuma kunye nobomi obuhle.
• I-Champagne, iiglasi, iindawo zokutshata zomtshato kunye neengubo ezenziwe zibophe.
• Izidingo zokuqhuba ukuzizonwabisa.
• Ikiti yokuncedisa yokuqala kunye neqoqo lemichiza ebalulekileyo. Emva kwakho konke, akukho mntu ukhuselekile ngokukhawuleza kwentloko, iingxaki zokugaya okanye ukuhlaselwa kwezilwanyana. Ukongezelela, uluhlu lomtshato oluyimfuneko kufuneka lubandakanye iziyobisi nge-hangover syndrome - ngokukhawuleza lufikeleleke ngosuku lwesibini emva komthendeleko womtshato.

Isicwangciso somtshato

Kuyaziwa ukuba kukho naziphi na izinto kubalulekile ukucwangcisa yonke into ngokuchanekileyo. Kwaye silapha sithetha ngomcimbi womtshato! Iimeko ezininzi, imiyalelo, ukuthenga kufuneka kugcinwe entloko. Akumangalisi ukuba kweso sivunguvungu ungaphuthelwa iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo. Ngoko ke, ucwangciso lomtshato kufuneka luqale, sibe nexesha "elininzi" kwisitokisini - malunga neenyanga ezintandathu.

Ngaphambi komtshato:

Iinyanga ezintandathu

Uninzi luya kuthetha ukuba kude kube ngumhla oxabisekileyo, kwaye ungeke ukwazi ukukhathazeka. Nangona kunjalo, isisombululo semibandela emininzi malunga nokulungiselela umtshato kufuneka iqale kwangoku. Ngokomzekelo, khetha usuku lomtshato, yenza uluhlu lweendwendwe zomtshato, misela ukhetho lweofisi yokubhalisa kunye neenkonzo zomtshato zomyalelo. Umbuzo obaluleke kakhulu ekuhleleni nayiphi na imitshato yomtshato - ingaba iyindleko kangakanani? Ngoko ke, inyathelo elibalulekileyo liya kuba lukulungiselelo lwebhajethi yomtshato.

Iinyanga ezintathu

Unokuya kwisardon yomtshato ukuba ukhethe ingubo - sele usuqumile kwisimo kunye nombala wayo? "Ngokufanayo" unokukhangela umfoto wezakhono, uthumele izimemo kwiindwendwe uze ufunde igumbi lokudla kwivenkile yokudlela okanye i-cafe. Ukuba ugqiba ukumema umphathi wesigcino kunye nokuhambelana nomculo, emva kweenyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kokuba umtshato uvumelane kule miba.

Iinyanga ezimbini

Ngaphambi komtshato kukho bambalwa kakhulu, kodwa unezinto ezininzi zokwenza. Ngendlela, unokuya kumakhonkco okubandakanyeka (ukuba awuthengayithengi okwamanje), kunye nokuqingqa inani leemoto emtshatweni womtshato. Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukwenza indlela yokuhamba komtshato, ingqalelo ekuhambeleni iindawo ezikhethekileyo ukuze udale ukukhwabanisa kwezithombe.

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Esi sicwangciso somtshato siquka: ukuthengwa kweemveliso kwidlo, ukuhlala kwiindwendwe ezingaphandle kweedolophu, ukuyala ikhekhe lomtshato kunye nesonka. Musa ukulibala malunga nekhanda lomtshato - vumelana nomgcini wezinwele okanye ipolisi kufuneka ibe ngaphambili. Ngeli xesha, iinkcukacha eziyimfuneko kufuneka zithengiwe (hlolisisa ngokucokisekileyo uluhlu lomtshato). Ihlala iyalungiselela isiqhamo somtshakazi kwaye sinqume apho uza kuchitha khona ubusuku bomtshato.

Iiveki ezimbini

Kwiiveki ezimbini kuphela! Njengomgaqo, yonke imicimbi ebalulekileyo sele isisombululo kwaye ungathatha umoya omncinci. Yilungise iqela elimnandi lokutshisa . Umtshakazi angenza ukugcina okufanelekileyo kwengubo yomtshato, kwaye uhambe kunye nabahlobo bakhe kwiqela lezinkukhu kwindawo ethile yokuzonwabisa.

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Ukugcoba, ukuhamba nge-pedicure, ukugeza okumnandi ... Ngaloo mini udinga ukuxhoba ngokupheleleyo! Ngobusuku bokubhiyozela, sihlola ukufumaneka kwazo zonke iimpawu zomtshato ezithengiweyo eziyimfuneko yokupenda kunye nokuhamba komtshato.

Budget Wedding

Iindleko zihlala zihlala "phambili" xa uceba umcimbi ngamnye womtshato. Enyanisweni, ukuba awunayo imali eyaneleyo yemali, ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kukwenqaba umtshato kwisitayela saseYurophu esinefestile kunye nesidlo semikhosi kwindawo yokudlela ebiza kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, ngobulumko, kunokwenzeka ukuba uququzelele umthendeleko owufanelekileyo kunye nohlahlo lwabiwo-mali.

Idili

Le nxalenye yomhlahlo wohlahlo lomtshato ibandakanya malunga ne-50% yazo zonke iindleko zomtshato, kuba idili liyinqaku elibiza kakhulu. Ngaba ufuna ukugcina imali? Myalelo umkhosi wesidlo kwi-cafe epholileyo, kwaye kungekhona kwindawo yokudlela yase-chic (apho amaxabiso aphezulu nangomyalelo weziko).

Ifoto kunye nokudutshulwa kwevidiyo

Ukuba ugqiba ukungawusindisi ekugqibeleni umfanekiso wesithunzi kunye nevidiyo yomtshato wakho, ngoko kungcono ukuyalela le nkonzo kwindawo enye. Kule meko, kwanokuba isaphulelo sinokwenzeka. Kwakhona, ungavuma malunga nemithetho - umzekelo, iseshoni yesithombe ihlala kuphela ukuqala komthendeleko womtshato. Kwaye zonke ezinye izibhengezo ezikhethileyo zingabamba nayiphi na iindwendwe.

Ixesha lonyaka nomhla womtshato

Kuyaziwa ukuba kwixesha lasehlotyeni kukho umtshato "obomvu", ochaphazela intengo yokuqeshisa iiholo zokudla. Kodwa ekwindla nasebusika (ngokukodwa) iinyanga ungaqeshisa igumbi elifanelekileyo kwi-cafe okanye kwindawo yokutyela ngexabiso elifanelekileyo. Ukongeza, umtshato ngoMgqibelo uza kukubiza ngaphezu kweyiphi na imini.

Ingubo yomtshato

Ukuthenga ingubo eyenziwe ngokufanelekileyo kuya kunciphisa iindleko zomtshato. Ngaphandle koko, ungathabatha ingubo yomtshato kwirenti-konke okufanayo okwesibini awunakwenzeka ukuba ugqoke.

Ukulungiselela umtshakazi ngomtshato

Wonke umtshakazi ufuna ukubukeka emnandi emtshatweni wakhe. Nangona kunjalo, imizamo engaphambi komtshato iyancipha ukuba ukufika kweeholide kunamathayi, kunokuba kuthokoze. Umtshakazi ufuna umtshato? Ukuphumla okufutshane kwaye wenze iinkqubo ezilula zokuzilungisa.

Okokuqala, kufuneka ubeke isikhumba sakho ngokufanelekileyo - kufuneka wenze oku malunga neenyanga ezimbini phambi komtshato. Ukutyelela i-beautician kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, hlambulula ubuso, kwaye ufumane iingcebiso zobuchwepheshe malunga nokuhlanjululwa kwamaski ebuso. Ingaba unesikhumba esiluhlaza? Yiya kwi-solarium uze ufumane i-tan elula. Ingubo egqobileyo kwesikhumba esinyanyisiweyo ibonakala imnandi!

Izinwele ngumhlobiso womfazi. Izinwele zakho ngosuku lomtshato zazikhanyayo kwaye zilungele kakuhle, kufuneka usebenzise iibhalom zokuhlanjululwa kunye nezondlo zokutya. Faka isicelo sale mali kufuneka ibe yinyanga ngaphambi kokubhiyozelwa.

Ukukhethwa kwengubo yomtshato kuhlale kuseyona "nombolo" yomlobokazi ngamnye. Dlulisa amehlo kwiikhathalogu okanye iimagazini, jonga iifoto, thelekisa izitayela. Ukuba ukhethe ukhetho olukhethiweyo, khetha izinto zokusebenza.

Ukulungiselela umtshato yinkqubo ende kwaye inomdla, efuna indlela efanelekileyo. Umonde omncinci - kwaye umtshato wakho uya kuba ngowona nto!