Indlela yokutshata ngokukhawuleza? Iingcebiso

Ngesizathu esithile, kwenzeka njalo kumaxesha onke ukuba ukuba ibhinqa into ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini kukutshata, kodwa amadoda asemtshatweni akangxamanga. Ngenxa yoko, isondo esifanelekileyo kufuneka silinde, xa kwenzeka isiganeko esilinde ixesha elide, kuba akunakwenzeka ukwenza nantoni na. Nangona ...


Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba kutheni ngesizathu esithile isizathu sokuba amadoda akhuphanga nesiphakamiso? Esinye sezizathu ezibalulekileyo kukuba ukwesaba uxanduva. Emva koko, ngokukhawuleza xa umtshato usuphelile, umyeni omtsha unenani elingenakulinganiswa lomsebenzi, elithandwa yintanda yakhe emagxeni akhe. Kwaye le ndoda iyaqonda ukuba oku kuphakade kunye nexesha lemibopheleleko iya kuba ngakumbi. Yaye ukuba kukho into engayisebenzeli yona, ngoko uhlaselo aluyi kukulinda ixesha elide. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunjalo ngoku.

Makhe sithethe ngendlela yokwenza umthandayo enze isiluleko somtshato. Sincoma ukuba sisebenzise ngamabhunga ethu omsebenzi ukuba sinqobe amadoda ukuze babalekele ngokukhawuleza kwiZAGS.

Iingcebiso zokuqala. Kubalulekile ukubonisa zonke iintlobo zabantu kubantu abakhethiweyo ukuba awunomdla emtshatweni. Akusiyo imfihlo abantu abathanda ukuyenza yonke into ngokuchasene nayo. Makuvumelekile ukuba umxholo womtshato ungathinteli kuye, ungamthinteli ngaye. . Kumele aqonde ukuba lo msebenzi wawuthembele kuye kuphela.

Ibhunga lesibini. Bonisa umntu ongeyithandayo kuphela, kuba ejikeleze apho baninzi abanomdla kunye nabanononophelo besondo esinamandla abanokukuthatha kalula. Ukuba oku kungenzeki, umntu wakho unyanzelekile ukuvakalisa amalungelo akhe ngendlela yokumisela ubuhlobo.

Ibhunga lesithathu. Kuwo wonke umntu oqhelekileyo, ukubonakala konyulwa wakhe kuthatha indima enkulu. Ngoko, zihlala uzibukele. Bonke abantu bathanda ukuziqhayisa malunga nabaziwayo kwaye bayaqonda ukuba unomnye wabasetyhini abahamba phambili.

Isine lesine. Amadoda afana nama-seks. Ngoko ke, kufuneka abathanda nabasetyhini. Kubalulekile ukuba ngumntu othandayo unkosikazi omhle, ukuze akwazi ukucinga ngento yokuziphatha. Ufanele ukhululeke nawe. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba umntu uthanda into entsha ngexesha lonke, uthanda ukuzama.

IQumrhu lesihlanu. Ukwamkela ukutya kokutya kuyamangalisa, kodwa kubalulekile ukondla umthandayo kunye nokutya okwenziwe ekhaya, kunye nokutya okulungiselelwe nguwe. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba kubantwini kubalulekile ukuba badle i-hearty and deliasty. Ewe, kunye nobomi bentsapho luncedo ukulungiselela.

IBhunga lesithandathu. Zama ukuqonda ukuthanda kwakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha inzala yabantu ibonakala ingenanto, kodwa kufuneka nje ukhangele, kwaye wena uya kutsalwa.

Unokuhamba kunye nenyulo yentliziyo yakho kumdlalo webhola okanye ukulungiswa kwemoto. Okokuqala, unokwenza oku kuthanda kwakho, kwaye okwesibini, umdla oqhelekileyo uza kulungiselela wena umthandi. Kodwa into ephambili akuyikuyidlula.

I sixhenxe iBhunga. Okumangalisayo kukuba, amadoda, njengabesifazane, bathanda ukuncoma! Xelela umntu wakho rhoqo ukuba nguye kuphela, onobubele, ongenakuphikiswa. Wonke umntu uthanda udumo! Ngaphezu koko, kubalulekile kumntu ukuba intombi yentliziyo yakhe ibaxabisa njani.

Icebiso yesine. Musa ukumkhalimela ngenxa yeempazamo zakhe kunye nokungaphumeleli. Ayikho imfihlo yokuba akukho mntu uya kuthanda xa ixesha lakhe lihlaselwa. Ukuba awukwaneliseki ngento ethile, akufanele uthi ngalo, kungcono ukwenza oko ukuze umntu ofuna ukuba afune ukuziphatha ngokungafaniyo. Kodwa ngelo xesha akayi kushiya ukuzithemba ukuba le nto yenyathelo lakhe kuphela.

IBhunga lesithoba. Kubalulekile lonke ixesha ukubonisana nomthandi wakho. Ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yobutyebi bentombi, unokuziva unesibindi kwaye unamandla. Ukuba uthethile into engalunganga, yenza i-mulch ngendlela yakhe. Akacingi ukuba acinge ukuba uye walaphula amabhunga akhe. Into ephambili kukuba bacebisiwe.

Iingcebiso ezilishumi. Musa ukulibala ukuba amadoda anenkululeko. Abayi kuba ngabafazi abalawula ubomi babo. Ngoko ke ushiye umntu othandekayo indawo, ungagxininisi emphefumlweni kwaye ungabi nomona ngako konke.

Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - khumbula ezi ngcebiso kunye emva kwesivumelwano somtshato!