Indlela yokwenza umthandi wakho umyeni

Udibene nomnyaka ongaphezu komnye umntu osemfana owaba ngumthandi wakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, yonke into ayinokuba yinto, kodwa "indiza e-oyile kwi-barrel yobusi" kule nxulumano, - intanda ayithandi ukunikela ngesandla kunye nentliziyo. Kodwa wena, ungalali ebusuku, unqwenela ukudibanisa i-destiny yakho nale ndoda, ukuba ube ngumfazi osemthethweni, ukuba nezingane kwaye ube kunye kunye nobomi bakho bonke. Abasetyhini abaninzi abakwazi ukuphumeza isisombululo esifanelekileyo somtshato, kuba abazi ukuba benze njani umyeni wabo. Kule nto, sagqiba ekubeni sikunike iingcebiso ezisebenzayo, oya kuthi, mhlawumbi, uya ku-altare ngengubo emhlophe.

Si cebisa

Ngoko, ubona ngokusemfanekisweni womntu weqabane elizayo, kwaye akayi kuthatha nawaphi na amanyathelo okuhlangana kunye nawe ngomtshato, ngoko kufuneka umxelele ukuba ixesha lifikile ngokuphakamisa umbuzo ngaphantsi. Kule meko, kukho iindlela ezininzi. Ngokomzekelo, unokufuna ukuba umntu abeke umhla womtshato, kwaye unokwenza konke okufihliweyo kwaye uvume kuye kwiimvakalelo zakho uze uxele ngomnqweno wokuhlala ndawonye ubomi obude, obonwabileyo. Ngelo xesha, kuyafaneleka ukucacisa ukuba izicwangciso zakho zekamva zihambelana nezicwangciso zomthandi wakho.

Siya phambili

Ngokutsho kweengcamango zemibuzo engama-2 500 abadliwano-ndlebe, amadoda amaninzi athi analobudlelwane obude kunye nomfazi kwaye akayi kuba yindoda ngenxa yokuba le ngxaki ayivuki kwinqanaba labesifazane, kodwa ukuba likhuphuka, lihle kakhulu. Ngamanye amaxesha amadoda akayiqondi amacebo kuzo zonke, ngoko unokuzama ukuqhubeka. Thetha ukuba uthanda ikhekhe lomtshato okanye uyakuvuyela kakhulu ukuba umtshato ubanjwe ngoJuni, njl.

Sibeka i-ultimatum

Ukuba ulwalamano lwakho lufikelele kumda, ungatshintsha umthandi ube ngumlingane osemthethweni, ufune ukuba kuye. Njengokuba isigxina, unokumisela iimeko: mhlawumbi wenza isiphakamiso sesandla nentliziyo, okanye uyingxenye. Kodwa ke kuyimfuneko ukukhumbula ukuba olo hlobo lokugqibela kufuneka lugcinwe kuze kube sekupheleni. Akukho nto ingasongela apha nantoni na: ukuba awuzange uphumelele ukufezekisa nantoni na, kufuneka ugcine igama lakho nenxalenye.

Njalo uthi "Ewe"

Ufuna umthandi ukuba enze indoda yakhe, mxelele ukuba kwisicombululo sokutshata naye, uya kuzwakalisa "Ewe!". Oku kungacetyiswa ngexesha lokuthetha. Le ndoda iyanqoba uloyiko lokuba uya kunqaba kwaye "uvuke".

Ukusekwa ngokuchanekileyo

Ufuna ukubona umthandi kwimeko yendoda yakhe, myehla phantsi kweentsuku zokuqala ukuya kulo. Indlela echanekileyo ngakumbi isebenza apha. Ukuqala ngeengxoxo zokuqala ezingenangqiqo kunye nendoda, cacisa ukuba ubona njani ikusasa lakho elikude naye. Apha uya kuqonda ngokuqinisekileyo - nokuba umthandi wakho ulingane kunye nawe. Kunokwenzeka ukuba ukuba loo mntu uhlala ecinga ngomtshato, uya kukunika umnikelo, kwaye ukuba ungekho kwizinto ezintle njengentsapho, uyazixolela!

Siza kuhlola umhlaba

Kule meko, akubakho bonke ababini babamba isandla ngesandla kwi-altare, kodwa ubuncinci babo babenakho ukuzisa umcimbi osondeleyo. Iingcali zeengqondo ezifunda ngokusondeleyo iingqondo zengqondo zabantu, abanakuqonda ukuba kutheni isondo esifanelekileyo sithandabuza ukubuza imibuzo engacacanga kwesi sicwangciso: "Yintoni oyenzayo kwikamva, ubudlelwane bethu?". Nangona yonke imimiselo kwiimeko ezinjalo iphoqelekile ukuba ibe neenkcukacha ezikhuthaza umntu ukuba enze ngokukhawuleza: "Yintoni onokuyenza ukuze ulwalamano lwethu lube nekamva?" Ekugqibeleni, ukuba iqabane lakho lise "luhlaza" kwinqanaba lesibini elibizwa ngokuthi "umtshato", ungasebenzisa ubungqina obuninzi, umzekelo, umntu otshatileyo uhlala ekhangelekile, uhlale egcwele, enempilo, njl. Kutheni ungazisebenzisi kakuhle ezi zinto zilula, kodwa zizinto ezinzima zemihla ngemihla umthandi wakho angenakuphikisa!