Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukukholelwa, kodwa iimpawu zokunakwa kunye nokuthandana akulona amagama angenanto yezesondo ezinamandla. Wonke umntu uthanda rhoqo xa intanda yakhe ethandana nayo yonke inxaxheba kunye nokusebenzisa izinto ezahlukeneyo zesithandane. Ukuzikhukhumeza komntu kuthuthuzela umcamango wokuthi wakhethayo ngexesha xa engekho, ucinga ngaye! Nangona kunjalo, iimpawu zomntu ezinikezelwa ngumbhinqa ngexesha elingafanelekanga oku akunakuchukumisa umntu ukuba abe noyiko, kodwa abuye aphule i-idyll yothando kwaye amphoqele ukuba apheleke ebomini bakho. Ukuze uphephe oku kulwalamano lwakho, kufuneka ufumane ukuba yiziphi iimpawu zokunyamekela ongakwaziyo, kwaye ezingenakuboniswa kwindoda ngexesha lamaxesha ahlukeneyo olwalamano.
Isigaba sokuqala: ukuzalwa kolwalamano lothando
Kule nqanaba, kungekhona nje wena, kodwa yonke into eqondayo uyaqonda ukuba uyaphambuka ngokukhethiweyo wakho. Kodwa akufanele "uqhube amahhashi amaninzi!". Into eyingozi kakhulu kwisigaba sokuqala sobudlelwane kuthathwa njengengqalelo yodwa kumfazi kumntu. Iimfowuni ezihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala njalo, imilayezo ye-SMS kunye nemiyalezo kwiintanethi zentlalo, izipho ezixabisekileyo kunye neziqhamo ezilungileyo, ukutya kwentsapho ekuhloniphekeni kwayo, apho iindawo eziphambili zezocwangciso zikhombise ngayo, zingabangela ukusola kumntu. Emva koko, ngeli nqanaba ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, indoda, njengomthetho, ayikulindelanga kakhulu kwindodakazi. Ngokwemvelo yabo, bahlelwe kuphela ngesondo kwaye abanakuphupha malunga nantoni na into. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka nimnike ukuba aqonde ukuba uyakuthanda, kodwa oku kulungelelwe ngokugqithiseleyo ngempawu ezibonakalayo zengqalelo. Ngokomzekelo, unokuthatha isandla ngexesha lokuhamba kwakho epakini, ummemele ebantwini malunga nendlela engabonakaliyo ejongene nalezi jeans ezintsha kunye nekhati le-stylish, njl njl. Ngendlela, xa ukhetha isipho sokuba uthembeke ngeeholide, kufuneka ukhumbule ngomgaqo omnye othi: "Ngaphantsi, bhetele." Inketho efanelekileyo kakhulu ithathwa njengokuba ingasetyenziswa kwakhona. Ngokomzekelo, uyazi ukuba inkwenkwe yakho ithanda ibhiya ethile, ngoko kutheni ungamniki iibhotile ezimbalwa zesiselo. Kodwa nje unganiki naziphi izinto ezintle ezinjengamathoyizi atyhidiweyo okanye amacandelwana angundoqo kwiiqhosha. Abameli bezesondo ezinamandla abanako ukuqonda izipho ezinjalo. Oku kubangelwa ukungabi ncamango kwindoda, kodwa ukuba bengaziqondi kakuhle.
Isigaba sesibini: sele usuqwalasele ngokusemthethweni isibini
Kwimeko ebizwa ngokuba yimbini yesibini, ubuhlobo bakho bothando lunokunika ixesha elithile. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uhlala kakuhle, kodwa kwikamva uya kuba nekamva elilodwa, mhlawumbi elingenalo. Ngeli xesha, iimpawu zakho zothando kufuneka zijolise ekuqinisekiseni ukuba uyazi kakuhle wena oyinyaniso kwaye unokuthembela kuwe nayiphi na imeko. Ngokomzekelo, wabuya ekhaya ephuma emsebenzini edinwe kakhulu ngenxa yokuba wayenomsebenzi okhuni kwaye ogcweleyo, kutheni ungamniki ukuphunga okuphumayo, ukupheka isidlo sakusihlwa okanye ukupheka indebe ye cappuccino nobisi. Ukuba awunalo ixesha lokufika ekhaya uze ufikelele kwaye uyazi malunga naso, shiya ileta yothandekayo wakho endaweni evelele, apho ubhala ngamazwi afudumele yonke into ocinga ngayo kunye nendlela ulahlekelwa ngayo. Le miqondiso yenkxalabo iya kukwazi ukumbonisa ukuba uyindlela.
Yintoni engenakuyenza? Yonke into enokubangela ukuba uyangqinela ukuba uzama ukuhlasela indawo yakhe. Umzekelo, ubiza umnina wakhe ukuba afune iresiphi yeepancake zakhe ezizithandayo, ofuna ukupheka iholide ezayo (mhlawumbi akafuni ukuba uthethe nomama wakhe konke). Ngendlela, zonke izipho zakho akufanele zibophelelwe indoda. I-Nboraudiodiskov kunye nebhendi yakhe ethandekayo inhle, kodwa imoto yomsakazo ayibi. I-Dearparfum - kakuhle, isethi yemveliso yonyango ebiza kakhulu-embi. Kwakhona, zama ukuphepha zonke izipho ezibiza ngokuthe ngqo ukubonisa kwakho kwisiboniso sikarhulumente. Ngokomzekelo, incwadi yothando imnandi, kunye neyombhalo wothando eprintiwe kwindebe ayibi. Kufuneka unike okukufunayo ngoku, kungekhona i-tepodarkas, ehambelana nekamva.
Isigaba sesithathu: uthando oluye lwahlolwa ngexesha
Unye kunye nayo yonke into ithi oku kuphakade. Ubuncinane, uphupha kwikamva elihambelanayo. Usuvele uqhelana nabazali, izalamane kunye nabahlobo abasondelene kunye kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uyabahalalisela ngazo zonke iiholide baze banike nezipho. Ewe, kunokwenzeka ukuba kule ngongoma ungumyeni nomfazi. Ngokuchanekileyo kweli nqanaba lobudlelwane obathandayo ukuba ufuna ukuba ungabonakali ukuba ungumthandi wakho kuphela. Ngoko kufuneka ubonise wonke umntu wakho ukuba umbonise ukuba iimvakalelo zakho azizange zikhuphe kwaye zomelele njengentsuku yobudlelwane bokuqala. Ukuhlambalaza uthando lwakhe lwemiyalezo ye-SMS, cwangcisa uhambo oludibeneyo lweveki okanye iiholide kwindawo ethile kwindawo esecaleni kunye yothando, apho ngaphandle kwakho kunye naye akuyi kubakho mntu. Kuya kuba mnandi ukuhlaziya ubudlelwane ukulungiselela ubusuku bokuzaliseka kweminqweno (xelela wakho umthandayo ukuba namhlanje ngokuqinisekileyo uyazi zonke izinto ezintathu. Seyona ndlela efanelekileyo yokubiza imizamo yakho yokwenza konke ngendlela ekhumbuza ngayo imihla yakho yokuqala. Kwakhona kuya kuba kuhle ukuhlala kwenye yeentsuku kunye nentombazana yakho kunye nebhotile yewayini, ukhumbule intlanganiso yakho yokuqala: wambethe ntoni, wenzeni ntoni, wathini na, njl. unike i disk yakho ekhethiweyo kunye nokukhethwa kwamathandekayo kunye nithandekayo kuzo zombini iingoma. Yenza i-albhamu kunye neefoto zexesha elonwabileyo kwimbali yakho yothando. Kodwa ngokuphathelele isipho, ngeli nqanaba lobudlelwane, kufuneka ukuba lube lukhulu kunjengexesha elide. Mnike into ayeliphupha ngayo ixesha elide, kodwa nangona iluphi na isizathu ayinakukufumana. Khumbula ukuba iimpawu ezibonisa uthando kakhulu ngabo ziza kukhumbuza ngokukhethiweyo wakho ovashi uthando kunye nokuba ungowona mbini elihle kakhulu kwihlabathi lonke kunye naye, kwaye akukho nto, i-inikto ayikwazi ukuhlukana nawe!