Ngomntu osebenzayo wamhla, ikhaya lakhe yindawo ephambili yokuphunyuka kwixinzelelo. Ngoko ke, ingaphakathi ekhethiweyo ngokufanelekileyo isiqinisekiso sokuxolo kwengqondo. Kuthetha ntoni "okulungileyo" kwimeko yethu?
Ngokucacileyo, sithetha ngokudala i-style yethu yokuhlala, eyaneleyo kwilizwe langaphakathi lomntu.
Kuqala kuphi? Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuchonga ukhetho lwe "ulawulo oluthile" lwangaphakathi. Njengomthetho, iimfuno zomthengi wanamhlanje zidibanisa ubukho beendawo "zokusebenza" - oko kukuthi, i-ofisi, indawo yokuzonwabisa - igumbi lokuphumla kunye "neendawo zokuphumla" - ukukhupha. Kwaye konke oku "inqaba yethu" kufuneka ihlale kuyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni na indawo yethu yomtshato. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphambi kokuba uhlule indawo yokuhlala kwiindawo, kuyimfuneko ukugqiba kwiminqweno yakho.
Yintoni esiyifunayo ekhaya? Ngoko, khetha isitayela. Kuzo zonke iindidi ezibonakalayo ngokwenene kuvela ukuba izikhokelo ezisetyenzisiweyo zineendlela ezine kuphela: i-classic, i-modern, i-ethno kunye ne-tech-tech. Bonke abanye sele bevele befake iinkcukacha.
Ungakhetha njani ukwakhiwa kwangaphakathi? Abanye abaqulunqi baqala inkqubo yokudala kunye ... ngesidlo esingavumelekanga kwivenkile yokutya nabathengi. Ekuboneni kokuqala, kunzima ukuqwalasela umsebenzi oyingqiqo wengqondo emva kokungcebeleka, intetho enomdla. Lobu buchule bakhe. Ingxoxo engaqhelekanga, ingxoxweni yenzelwa ingxoxiswano. Umyili we-unobtrusively uqhuba i-scouting yakhe: iitoni ezibandayo okanye ezifudumeleyo? Minimalism okanye i-floridity? Isikhumba okanye i-velvet? Ekupheleni kwesidlo sakusihlwa, uchwepheshe, njengomthetho, sele sele ekhula "ukuxilongwa". Ukukhohlisa - ukuba akusiyo injongo yethu yokucela uncedo kumyili wezobugcisa, unokuqhuba "intliwano-ndlebe" kuhlobo lwe "auto-ethnography" ngokwakho, uziphendule ngemibuzo elula. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ngexesha elifanayo ukuba umnqopho wethu ungabonakali nantoni na, kodwa ukudala izimo ezintle kakhulu.
Ndixelele ukuba ungubani
Ngokwahlulo oluqhelekileyo, bonke abantu bahlula ngobushushu kwiintlobo ezine: i-choleric, i-sanguine, i-phlegmatic kunye ne-melancholic. Ekubeni ngamnye wabo unombono okhethekileyo wehlabathi kunye nokubona kwayo into enhle, indlela ekhethekileyo yokuziphatha kunye nendlela yokusebenzisana nabanye, abantu abahluke kakhulu omnye nomnye badinga indawo ehlukileyo ngokupheleleyo ukuba bazive bekhululekile.
Abantu abakhethileyo bangabantu "beefiligethi" ngokwenene, ngokuthe ngqo, ngokungahambiyo kwaye banamandla. I-Phlegmatic, ngokuchaseneyo, igxininiswe kwaye ilinganise. Kunzima ukukhupha okanye ukumangaliswa. IiSanguinics zidibanisa iimvakalelo kunye nokukwazi ukuthathwa ngabantu base-choleric ngokucamngca nangobunzulu babantu be-phlegmatic. Ekugqibeleni, abantu abancibiliki banokungakhathaleli kunye ne-hypochondriac, kodwa bayabakhathalela, bayasabela kwaye bayamkela.
Yaye nangona iimeko zabo ezimsulwa ziqabile kakhulu, sinokuthetha ngokuziphatha okubaluleke kakhulu.
Olunye icebiso elincinane. Musa ukukhawuleza ukuphosa ngaphandle "konke okungekho nto". Izikhumbuzo, iintsapho zokuhlala, izithandani ezintle ziza kufumana indawo kwindawo yangaphakathi. Ikhaya elingenazo iingcamango kwimbali yobomi kufana nesundu ngaphandle kwemigca.
Khumbula umbala. Mhlawumbi, enye yeengcebiso eziphambili ekuyiyileni iya kuba yinkombululo yombala. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyaqonda, yimibala ephi na ofuna ukuhlala ngokuvuya ngonaphakade - umbala ngokwawo "uza kukhetha" imigca yoyilo kunye nokuqulunqwa komxholo wesakhiwo. "Ngetoni" kulula kakhulu ukhetha izinto zokugqiba, izixhobo kunye nezinye izinto zokusebenza. Kuya kuba kuhle ukukhokelwa, ngaphezu kweendlela zokubonisa izinto zobugcisa, ngokusebenza kwazo zonke iinkcukacha.
Isisombululo sokwakha. Ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umnini wendawo yokuhlala ayimfihlo ukuba akuyimfuneko ukudiliza izindonga. Ngoncedo lwazo zonke iindidi zezixhobo zokukhanyisa zanamhlanje, elinye igumbi linokutshintsha ngaphaya kokuqaphela. Nangona kunjalo, asiyikulibala ngokuhambelana. Asiyikusilahla izibuko ezindala, izibane kunye namanzi amaninzi kunye nokugqithisa okungenangqondo. Kodwa asizami ukuba "squee" izinto ezisetyenziswayo kwixesha elidlulileyo langaphakathi ukuya apho zichaze ngokucacileyo.
Ekugqibeleni
Ukulungiswa, okwenene, yintlekele yendalo. Kodwa yiphatha yonke into yefilosofi kwaye ukhumbule ubulumko bendoda: "Khawuleza - abantu bayahlekisa." Khawuleza ukulungiswa - yinto enqwenelekayo. Emva kwakho konke, injongo yethu yokugqibela kukudala iindawo ezizungezile zendalo yonke, ngaphaya kwayo nayiphi na i-cataclysms ayiyibi.
UVANYO LWEMVUMO nokungavumelani kunye neengxelo zihlolwa kwizinga eli-10: 1. Ngaphambi kokuba nayiphi na isiganeko esibalulekileyo kum, ndiqala ukuba neentloni. 2. Ndisebenza ngokungafaniyo, ngokubambisa. 3. Ndikhawuleza nditshintshe ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye. 4. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, ndingakwazi ukulinda ngokukhuselekileyo. 5. Ndifuna imfesane kunye nenkxaso, ngakumbi xa kukho ukungaphumeleli kunye nobunzima. 6. Ngokulinganayo, ndithintela kwaye ndiphuthuma. 7. Akunzima kum ukwenza ukhetho. 8. Andiyidingi ukukhusela iimvakalelo zam, zivela ngokwazo.
Bala ubunzima beentlobo zentlobo yesimo sengqondo esifana nawe ngokwemiqathango: i-melancholic = 1 + 5; i-choleric = 2 + 6; sanguine = 3 + 7; phlegmatic = 4 + 8 Iimpawu ezihambelanayo - X, C, F, M - bhala phantsi ixabiso labo ngokuhla. Ngoko uza kufumana i-formula esemgangathweni ye-temperament, uyakwazi ukucacisa i-psychotype ekhoyo kuwe kwaye isebenzise ulwazi olufunyenweyo ekwakheni ikhaya elihle kunye neyangaphakathi.
Ungubani na?
I-Choleric - ingesabi ukwanda kunye nokuthatha izigqibo ezinesibindi, ngoko i-eclectic, i-motley kunye ne-ornate mix mix iya kulungile;
- Igumbi kufuneka libe likhulu, ukwenzela ukuba ifenitshala kunye neengxowa zingayithinteli ukuba ihambe ngokukhawuleza kwaye igxininise entliziyweni;
- ukwenzela ukukhululeka ngokomzwelo, ingaphakathi le-choleric idinga iifom ezilula kunye eziqinileyo: i-minimalism okanye i-hi-tech ilungile, ngakumbi ekubeni ifenitshala ye-modular ehambayo iya kukwanelisa umnqweno wenguqu kwaye ibenze ubomi bube namandla, kunikezela utshintsho olufunekayo lwezinto ezibonakalayo;
- umsindo oguqukayo womntu okhulayo uya kukwanelisa iinkqubo zokukhanyisa zolu hlobo, ezinokuhluka ngokuxhomekeke kwimiba yeemeko kunye neemeko zengqondo zesikhokelo okwangoku;
- umbala wombala wezinto zangaphakathi kufanele "upholise" intloko yakhe eshushu, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuba i-choleric ichatshazelwe yi-shades eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, inokuhlanjululwa ngokuluhlaza, kungekhona i-orange okanye ibomvu, njengoko ethanda;
- ngenxa yokuba yingqondo enamandla, kubalulekile ukucinga ngokucophelela malunga neendawo zokuzonwabisa: kufuneka kube neengqungquthela zengqondo endlwini egcinwe kwindawo epholileyo, ilungile kakuhle kwaye ingekho;
I-Melancholic
- ngaphakathi kwayo akukho nto engafanelekanga;
- into ephambili ye-melancholic kukugwema uxinzelelo, ngoko kubalulekile ukudala ummandla wokuthuthuzela, ukufudumala, induduzo noxolo;
- ukhetho lwakhe luhluke kakhulu: ukusuka kwiiklasi ukuya kutsho namhlanje, ukusuka kwisitayela saseScandinavia ukuya kwi-ethno; Into eyona nto kukuba endlwini yezinto ezincibilikisayo ezo zinto azifunayo, phakathi kokuthi unokuziva uxolo kunye nentuthuzelo yengqondo, ziqokelelwa;
- indawo kunye nokungabikho kokucinezela ukuxhatshazwa, kodwa imiqolomba, efihlakeleyo kwamehlo aqhekekileyo, ukutyhoboza indawo yendlu, kubonakala ngathi yinto yokududuza;
- igumbi lilungele ukuba litshintshwe ngokusebenzisa ama-racks, izikrini okanye iimfama ezibonakalayo;
- ukhetha ukukhanya okukhawulezayo, ukusabalalisa, ukuthanda ukugqamisa imifanekiso kunye neenkcukacha; ukukhanya kufanele kuqhube kakuhle ngokusa emthunzini;
- kubalulekile ukugubungela phantsi ngamaphephethi okanye ukugubungela ngepolisi, ukuchukumisa amanyathelo nokufudumala kweenyawo;
- ifenitshala ayifanele ibe neengalo ezibukhali, kuba izifo ezixhatshazwayo zixhomekeke kwi-ovals kunye nezijikelezo;
- isisombululo sombala wezinto zangaphakathi - soloko kukhanya, kukhanya kwaye kungacasuli, kugcwele imibala ephuzi - ukusuka kumbala wesihlabathi somlambo ukuya kwi-amber kunye ne-terracotta;
- ukuthandana kunye nokuvakalelwa kwe-melancholic ukubonakalisa ngokwabo ngokuqhotyoshelweyo kwiimemorabilia, ngoko ukugcina imfumba yezithombe, imidwebo yabantwana, imembuzelo, amathoyizi kunye neentyantyambo ezomileyo, uya kufuna i-closet, i-niche, isifuba okanye i-closet encinane.
Sanguine
- uhlala ngokukhawuleza, efumana ukuzaliswa kweemvakalelo, ngoko ingaphakathi lakhe kufuneka libe nepeyinti kwimbala emitsha neqhakazileyo: ophuzi, i-orange, i-cream, ibomvu, i-amber, i-terracotta;
- Indlu yesondlo igcwale uvuyo kunye namandla, kukho umoya omningi kunye nokukhanya kuwo, ngoko i-sanguine iya kuvuyisa iindonga ezimbini ngaphandle kokufihla ikona epholileyo;
- Akayithandi ifenitshala enkulu kwaye ulawula isethi encinane yezinto;
- ukhetho lwakhe olukhethiweyo kunzima ukuqagela, kodwa into eyona nto kukuba kukho umoya omningi, ukukhanya kunye nombala, iglasi kunye nezibuko, ezibonisa ngokucacileyo isikhala;
- ngokubanzi, kubalulekile ukudala umoya oqaqambileyo nococekileyo wendlu, ukuze iindwendwe zifike kumphathi onjalo ngenjabulo.
Phlegmatic
ukuzinza noxolo - iimbini ezibalulekileyo zengaphakathi leplggmatic;
- Uthanda izinto ezinokwethenjelwa ezingekho phantsi kwendlela yokufashisa, ngoko-ke ihafu efanelekileyo yefenitshala endlwini iya kuzuza ilifa;
- isiqingatha sesibini, esilungileyo nesithembekileyo, uya kuzithenga kwaye uya kuzinyamekela ukuzithumela yakhe kwinzala yakhe emgangathweni;
- i-phlegmatic ikhetha isitayela seklasi;
- ifenitshala kuye, kungekhona ubuhle kunye nokulungeleka kuphela kubalulekile, kodwa kunye nezixhobo zokuyila, ukulungelelaniswa kwemvelo kwento, ukuzinza kunye namandla ezindlela ezisetyenzisiweyo;
- ingaphakathi endlwini yakhe iya kubonakala iqinile kwaye ihlonipheke, ingatshintshi iminyaka emininzi;
- Induduzo yezinto zangaphakathi, ngokudala idala umbala omninzi othungileyo, kunye nezinto ezininzi zemvelo - i-ceramics, ukhuni, ilitye lemvelo;
- ukuhlobisa ingaphakathi, njengomgaqo, kuya kufuna iimifanekiso, iincwadi, i-porcelain kunye neziqingqiweyo;
Izibane zimele zihluke ngokwemveli, zangezinye iifom zangaphambili kwaye zinike ukukhanya okulula;
- Umgangatho uphelelwe ngeparele kwaye uhlotshiswe ngamaphephethi enziwe ngoboya bendalo;
- kuba umyalelo womntu obaluleke kakhulu, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba ungalibali ngamagumbi okugcoba, iikhabhinethi kunye neekhabhinethi, iintambo kunye neengubo zokugqoka ezikunceda ukulawula ubomi.
Kodwa nokuba ungubani, khumbula ukuba akukho nanye indlu eya kubonakala ngathi iyenu! Emva koko, uhlukile!