Ngaba ndifuna ukukhanda umntwana?

Kuze kube kutshanje, bonke abangabonanga abantwana abangaboniswayo ukususela ekuzalweni. Kodwa ngoku ezinye iingcali zikholelwa ukuba iintsana kufuneka zenziwe ngokukhawuleza kwiingubo kunye ne-sliders kwaye akufanele zidibaniswe. Ngoko, ngaba kuyimfuneko ukutshintshisa umntwana?

Ukufumana impendulo yalo mbuzo, kufuneka sijike kwixesha apho umntwana esesiswini somama. Sonke siyazi ukuba ngaphakathi umntwana usuva, uvakalelwa kwaye ubona, ngoko nangaphambi kokuba azalwe udala isimo sakhe sengqondo kwihlabathi elikujikelezile. Impembelelo yokuqala kunye neyokuqala yentsana iyakuthintela. Ngexesha elimalunga namaveki angama-16 ukuya kwe-20, isiqhamo "sihamba" kwi-amniotic fluid kwaye phantse asithinteli iindonga zesisu. Emva kwexesha, umntwana uyakhula, kwaye isibeleko sele sincinci kuye. Xa inkwenkwe ihlala phezu kweendonga zayo, inolwazi lokuqala malunga nomzimba wakhe kunye nefomu. Kancinci intsana ikhula kwaye ivela kwiiveki ezingama-34 isebenzisa yonke indawo ye-intrauterine. Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana uhlakulela ukuchukumisa nokuthinteka, apho udala uluvo lomhlobo wakhe. Ekugqibeleni kokukhulelwa umntwana sele sele ekwazi ukuzibona kunye neengcamango ngaye, njengombhaloni okanye, ngokuchanekileyo, u-ovoid (ifom ye-ovoid).

Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntwana akave ekhululekile ekuhambeni okuncinci kunye nefom yomzimba. Ngokuphambene noko, kumanqanaba okugqibela okuphuhliswa komntwana, umkhwa wendawo encinci kunye nesimo esithile senzeke. Waqhekeza kwi-kalachik, wawela izibonda sakhe esifubeni waza waqhawula imilenze yakhe, umntwana uyaziva ekhululekile kwaye ekhuselekile.

Ekugqibeleni, kubakho ukubeletha, umntwana uzalelwe kwaye ubona ntoni? Ukusingqongileyo kwangoko kwatshintsha: endaweni yokuxinwa, isikhala esikhulu, kwaye ubumnyama buyatshintshwa ngokukhanya okukhanyayo. Konke oku kubangela ukungena kwintsana. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba ucinga ukuba uchithe iinyanga ezincinci ebhokisini elincinci phantsi komhlaba, kwaye emva koko waxoshwa ngaphandle kwelanga elikhanyayo ukuze uhambe ngesitalato, uya kuziva ntoni? Inokwenzeka ukuba, iimvakalelo aziyi kuba mnandi: akunakwenzeka ukulungiswa, ukukhanya okuphazamisayo-konke oku kunokuvelisa intlungu kunye nokutshitshiswa. Umntwana osanda kuzalwa uvakalelwa ngokufanayo, ngoko kufuneka ahlolisise utshintsho.

Ukuqinisekisa ukuba uvakalelo lwentuthuzelo alushiyi umntwana, ngokokuba iimvakalelo ezintle zihlala zibhekiselele kwihlabathi, kubalulekile ukumnika ingqondo yomzimba wakhe. I-diaper iya kunceda kulo mbandela, njengento enye. Xa umntwana ekhutshiwe, uya kuba neqondo elilahlekileyo lokukhuseleka nokuthula. Emva koko, bekukuloo ndawo awayehlala ngayo kwiinyanga ezimbalwa zokugqibela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oogogo babesazi malunga nawo onke amava ezinsana ezisanda kuzalwa, kwaye i-diaper yaqulunqwa njengendlela yokutshintsha kancinane kwintsana evela kwelinye ilizwe ukuya kwelinye.

Ukususela ngelo xesha, izinto ezininzi zitshintshile, kodwa abantwana bazalwa nabo, kwaye ngoko i-diapers ilandele ukusetyenziswa. Oku akunciphisi ukuphuhliswa kwengane nangayiphi na indlela, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo kuya kunceda ukuba uphile ngokuzinzileyo utshintsho kwimeko. Okokuqala, ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana ephoswe, iyancipha kwaye ivakale isimo esifanayo. Emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa, abantwana bazama ukukhupha baze banamise ipenki. Umntwana uzama ukubuyisela umfanekiso opheleleyo wobomi e-utero, okuthi ukususela kwiveki le-16 uyamfumana intonga okanye umunwe. Ngako oko, umntu akufanele athathe le nqweno njengomnqweno wokubuya emva kwe-diaper. Emva kweveki ezingama-2-3, inkunzi iqala ukuba nomdla kwihlabathi elijikelezile: ukuhlola indawo ejikelezileyo, abantu kunye nezinye izinto eziye zavela emehlweni. Ngeli thuba, umntwana makangasayi kubamba izibambo kwi-diapers.

Kwiimeko zokubeletha okunzima, abantwana abaninzi banamava kakhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo bahlala ixesha elide abanako ukusetyenziswa kwihlabathi elibajikelezile. Iintsana ezinjalo zinokuba nomnqweno wokulala kwiidrafers kunye neenyanga ezimbini. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuvumela umntwana ukuba amkele ihlabathi elitsha ngokuzithoba aze aziqhelane nalo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo kungcono ukuba ungadlulanga izinto, kuya kuzisa inzuzo eninzi.

Ngoko ungesabi ukukhwina umntwana aze yena ngokwakhe afune ukuphuma kwi-diaper. Ngoko ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye ngokuzinzileyo inkunzi iya kusetshenziselwa indlela entsha yobomi.