Umlingo wangempela: ukufumana amandla

Ubuqili bukhona iminyaka eyiwaka leminyaka, ngenxa yokusebenzisa izilumko oku akuyona nje ubugcisa bokwenene kwaye busebenza kakuhle, kodwa indlela yobomi. Abantu abaninzi bazama ukuzibandakanya kwimilingo, kodwa umphumo kaninzi awuphumelelanga kakhulu. Kwaye ingxaki ebalulekileyo kukuba indlela yomlingo igxininisa kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokwenza umlingo, qala uzame ukuqonda ukuba kutheni ufuna. Enye yeengxowa eziphambili kwindlela yomlingo ngumnqweno wokufumana amandla nemali. Umlingo unokunika konke oku, kodwa ngenxa yezibonelelo ezifunyenwe ngale ndlela, uya kufuneka uhlawule. Izinto zendalo zenzelwe ngendlela enje ukuba umntu, efumene into kwenye yemigangatho yobomi, uya kulahleka kwenye. Yonke into ilinganisekile, ngoko ukuzama ukutshintsha imeko ngohlobo oluthile lokunyanzelisa ubugqirha kunokunika umphumo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kubakhokelela "kwi-backback" - oko kukuthi, inxalenye yezinto ezimbi kule ndawo okanye kuloo ndawo yobomi.

Ukuzama ukufumana iziphumo ngokusetyenziswa komlingo, elinye iphuzu elibalulekileyo kufuneka liqwalaselwe. Ihlabathi liyakunika okukufunayo, kodwa lizalisekisa umyalelo wakho ngendlela elula. Umzekelo, ufuna ukufumana iiruble ezigidi. Isiphumo: ufumana phantsi kwemoto, kwaye uyahlawulwa njengembuyekezo yokulimala kwisixa esicacisiwe. Kucacile ukuba olu khetho aluhambisani nawe, ngoko xa wenza isithethe, akudingeki nje ukuba ubonise injongo, kodwa ukucacisa iindlela zokufezekisa injongo. Kule meko, akufanele ubhale phantsi iinkcukacha, kufuneka ubeke indlela eyona nto yokufumana oko ufuna. Izinto ezincinci ziza kuzigqiba ngokwazo, iinkcukacha zazo ziyakuthintela kuphela.

Uninzi lwabazali bazama ukujoyina oku okanye ukunyanzela, benethemba lokufumana ubuso babo umkhuseli kunye nomphathi. Olu khetho luyasebenza kakhulu, kodwa lunalo luthintelo olukhulu: amandla aya kukunceda ngendlela yakho, kodwa iya kufuna ngokubuyisela inkonzo kunye nokuthobela. Awukwazi ukusebenzisa amandla ngaphandle kokunika nantoni na ngokubuyisela. Ikhoboka linokuphathwa ngandlela-thile yintloko yakhe, kodwa isele ikhoboka. Oku akuthethi ukuba le ndlela imbi - kufuneka uqwalasele ngokunyanisekileyo ukukhethwa kwamandla kwaye uqonde oko kufuneka uhlawule.

Ukufumana iziphumo eziyimfuneko, ukuphepha ukuxhomekeka kwimibutho ethile, kubalulekile ukuphakamisa izinga lamandla. Ukuba unamandla akho, ngakumbi unethamsanqa, kulula ukuba uzuze iziphumo eziyimfuneko - ihlabathi liqala ukudibana nawe. Ukuqokelela kwamandla omntu kuhamba ngeendlela ezimbini ezibalulekileyo. Okokuqala kukuzivocavoca umzimba kunye nemisebenzi yamandla. Okwesibini kukuhlanjululwa kwengqondo.

Ukuba yonke into icacile ngokwaneleyo kwindlela yokuqala, ngoko ke yesibini kufuneka ixoxwe ngokuhlukileyo. Akwanele ukuba bakwazi ukufumana amandla, kubalulekile ukuyisebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo. Le ndoda isebenzisa amandla akhe amaninzi, iphosa ngaphandle. Yingakho i-magician isithintelo, ukuzola, ukulingana, ukukwazi ukushiya yonke into engenanto kunye neyonto. Akagcini nje ukuzithiba, kodwa uhlala elandelela iimvakalelo zakhe, ukhangele izizathu zokuvela kwazo. Akazivumeli ukucatshungulwa kwengqondo ehlukeneyo, ukuwayeka emdiliyeni. Umzekelo: uphikisana nomntu, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo uproqa engqondweni yakho ingxoxo engathandekiyo. Amava anjalo anokunyanzelisa iintsuku, ukukhupha onke amandla akhe kumntu. Ukuqaphela oku, umlingo ulandelela ixesha elinjalo kwaye unqande ngokukhawuleza.

Ngenxa yoko, uyakwazi ukuqokelela iqela elikhulu lamandla, elichaphazela ngokukhawuleza imeko yangoku. Kubalulekile kungekuphela nje ukufikelela kumgangatho omtsha wamandla, kodwa nokuhlala kuwo, enzima kakhulu. Ngexesha lokuqala uza kudibana neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zobuqu, uya kuba uzama ngandlela-thile yokuzikhupha. Kwaye emva kokuba uqiniseke ukuba ungehlulwa, uya kushiywa wedwa, indalo iya kuvuma nezinga lakho lamandla omtsha. Ukukwazi ukuphakamisa umgangatho wakho wamandla oyisisiseko yinyathelo lokuqala ukuya kumlingo wangempela.