Kuyinto enhle xa igumbi lakho lisemntwaneni - eli lizwe lakhe elincinci, apho kwenzeka khona ixesha lakhe. Igumbi labantwana liyindawo efanelekileyo kakhulu kwindawo yokuhlala. Ikwasebenza njengendawo yokudlala, igumbi lokuhlala, igumbi lokulala kunye nehholo lezemidlalo. Kule gumbi, abahlobo banokuhlanganiselwa kwimisebenzi kunye nemidlalo. Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngendlela yokwenza ukulungiswa kwigumbi labantwana.
Umbuzo wokuqala ovela kubazali: wenzeni ukwenza umntwana azive ekhuselekile egumbini lakhe? Umntwana akayi kuqonda oku, kwaye nabazali ngokwabo kufuneka babone kwaye baqonde oku. Ewe, sinqwenela ukuba umntwana abe neemeko kunye neempawu ezivela kwihlabathi lezinto ezizungezile. Kwaye kuphela ngokutshintsha i-worldview yayo yokuqala, okwangoku - leli gumbi lezingane zethu, ezingayi kubangela ukuphazamiseka, kodwa kuya kuzisa uvuyo ekuqondeni ihlabathi, kamva liza kuhlala linye yezinto ezintle kakhulu ezinkumbulo ukusuka ebuntwaneni.
Imfuno ekhethekileyo xa uqala ukulungiswa, kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula ukuba ukhuseleko kwigumbi labantwana, ngaphezu kwakho konke! Zonke izixhobo ezisetyenziselwa ukulungisa igumbi labantwana kufuneka zibe nezatifikethi ezifanelekileyo kunye nobungqina bendalo. Izinto zokwakha eziza kusetshenziselwa ukulungiswa kwegumbi, zitshintshe ngezinye iindlela zokukhetha ezenzalo zendalo, umzekelo, ipboard kwiplywood. Umgangatho wegumbi lezingane kufuneka ufudumale. Emva koko, umntwana uza kuye xa evuka, edlala kuyo ngexesha lokuphumla. Ngokuqhelekileyo igumbi elisegumbini labantwana lihlanganiswe nekhaphethi. Inokuba yinto eninzi okanye imfumba encinane. Kodwa ingakanani oku kuchanekileyo? Iingcali zithi ziyasebenza kwaye zikhuselekile xa umgangatho kwisigumbi sabantwana uhlanganiswe ngobunzima obunzima, njengobunqabileyo okanye ipakethi. Oku kukuvumela ukuba wenze ngokukhawuleza ukucoca kwamanzi kwigumbi, kwaye uthuli kweli gumbi lincinci. Umtshini ococekileyo kufuneka ubekwe kufuphi nombhede, ngoko kwakumnandi ukuvuka naye ekuseni kwaye ulala embusi.
Kulo gumbi lombane lombane kufuneka lifihliwe kwamehlo abantwana. Iziseko zilungele ukukhetha nokufaka, ezenziwe ngokukodwa kumagumbi abantwana kunye neentonga ezizodwa. Ukutshintshwa kokukhanya ekamelweni kufanele kufakwe kwindawo ephakamileyo yokuba umntwana angayisebenzisa.
Wonke umntu uyayithanda xa igumbi lumnandi kwaye lingenakudla, kwaye igumbi labantwana alikho. Thatha le ngqalelo ngokucophelela ngaphezu kokuqhelekileyo. Khetha amalungiselelo aphezulu kunye neendwangu zegumbi labantwana. Umthunzi ophezulu wokukhanyisa igumbi umhlophe, kwaye unokwenziwa okuluhlaza kunye nolululwazi olongezelelweyo, kuba le mibala inefuthe elihle kwi-psyche yomntu omdala kunye nomntwana.
Ukukhetha iifestile kunye neengcango zegumbi labantwana, khumbula ukuba kufuneka kufudumele, kwaye ungabandakanyi ithuba lokushicilela. Kwaye enye yeengongoma eziphambili kukuba umntwana ngokwakhe akakwazanga ukuvula iifestile, kwaye iingcango zivaliwe zingekho ngaphakathi kwegumbi.
Kwizombululo zemibala yesilingi kunye neendonga kungcono ukugqiba isigqibo ukususela ekuqaleni kokulungiswa. Kwimarike yaseRussia kukho inani elikhulu lemibala kunye nephepha lodonga lamagumbi abantwana. Xa ukhetha imibala, zama ukuphulaphula imbono yengane, kwaye ufanise uhlobo lomntwana.
Yaye umnqweno wokugqibela ngumfenitshala. Nangona igumbi elincinci, elenziwe ngobugcisa kunye nothando, liya kukuvumela ukuba ubeke yonke into oyifunayo ubomi bomntwana. Impahla yefenitshala eyona nto, ngokuqinisekileyo, i-closet, itafile, umbhede, isihlalo, amashalofu kunye namashalofu, kodwa unokususa okanye utshintshe into ethile. Ngoko, umzekelo, i-shelf enkulu, eyenziwe kwinqanaba letafile, lingathatha indawo yetafile ngokwayo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo libe yirefri. Akukho mfuneko yokuzalisa i-nursery ngefenitshala eyongeziweyo. Yonke into ifanele ibe ngokumodareyitha.
Kukho umlinganiselo omkhulu wolwazi othunyelwe kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo. Khangela ubuncinci inxalenye encinane yamaphephancwadi ekulungiseni kwigumbi labantwana, khangela ulwazi kwi-Intanethi. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu oku kuyindlela yokudala, kwaye ke uya kufumana oko kukulungele wena nomntwana wakho.