Kumntu othile, isilwanyana ilungu lentsapho, kumntu into ephakamileyo, kwaye umntu uthatha indawo yomntwana okanye idonsa. Kubuhlungu xa ubomi bujika kuba yinto phakathi kwezinto zangaphakathi kunye nomdlalo wokudlala. Kwaye sisoloko siphendula izilwanyana zethu kwi-IT, singazi. Unokubonisa njani ububele kwizilwanyana zezilwanyana kwaye angabenzekanga unonwabo?
Kubantu abaninzi, ukugcinwa kwezilwanyana zasekhaya kuyimfuneko. Ngokukodwa ebuntwaneni bam. "Xa ndandimncinci, andizange ndiphuphe inja - ngoko ndayifuna," uAndrei Makarevich wabhala. Isizathu esibalulekileyo salo mnqweno, mhlawumbi, kukuba simele simthande kwaye simthande, kwaye zethu iimfuyo zingakwazi ukuhlangabezana nale mfuno. Njengomthetho, izilwanyana zidlala indima yeqabane, ilungu lentsapho, umhlobo, umntwana. Kodwa namhlanje, ngelanga, baziswa njengento yokuziwayo, i-accessory fashion, inxalenye yengaphakathi. Amakati kunye neenja aziqondwanga ngaba bantu njengezinto eziphilayo.
Iidayimane zaseYork
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwisilwanyana esincinci esiphila ngaphaya komnye, umntu ujwayele kwaye uboshwe. Enyanisweni, indima abantu abaphoqelelwa ukuba badlale ngayo izilwanyana ayisoloko ihamba nayo.
Ngoku, umzekelo, izinja ezincinane ezifashisayo. Baphathwa njengopopi abaphilayo: badibene, bembethe iingubo ezahlukeneyo, bahlala bephethe nabo. Akunangqiqo ukuba iYorkies iye yaziwa kakhulu - izidalwa ezincinci, ukuzola, okwakhiwa kwayo kweeboya kukufutshane neenwele zabantu. Ngandlela-thile ndazibona: intombazana esitokisini sasilungiselela ingubo yakhe kwintombazana yakhe yaseYorkshire, iipjama zakhe ezenziwayo, izicathulo zakhe zokuhamba kunye neefologi kwiindlu zayo, kwaye ekugqibeleni wathenga i-pearl necklace kunye neempuphu zeenwele ngeenwele.
Abantu, abaphilileyo abahlala kwiimidlalo okanye isifundo sobukhosi, bathanda ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimincintiswano ekhethekileyo, apho izilwanyana ngokwazo kunye nokuziphatha kwazo azigwetywa, kodwa njani kunye noko zimbetheyo, zithini iingubo zabo zokugqoka. Ingakumbi "i-tsatsek" ithola isilwanyana, iphakamileyo isimo somnikazi emehlweni abo. Kwaye asikhulumi ngesimo esihle sengqondo kwizilwanyana zasekhaya apha, njengoko uyazi.
Kutheni kulungile ukuba isilwanyana? Umonde weYorkies uyathobela ukunyamezela iinqwelo zabantu ukukholisa umncedisi. Kodwa ukonwaba kwesi simo sengqondo akufumani. Inja yilwanyana, kwaye nayiphi na impahla yokugqoka i-armor evumela inkululeko.
Kuyafana oku malunga nemiboniso. Kuyinkosikazi yenja, esi sizathu sokuphuma siye ekukhanyeni, kunye nezilwanyana ezininzi-isiganeko esingathandekiyo, kwaye zihluphekile ngenxa yokungento yamatitshala abo. Ingakumbi oku kusebenza kwiikati ezingayithandiyo xa kuninzi abantu abajikelezayo, kwaye abayinyamezeli ukuwela.
Kutheni kulungile kuwe? Inja yayingumhlobo ofanelekileyo kunye nomhlobo, kufuneka ujongane nayo, ukuphuhlisa ingqondo. Ukuba uyayigcina ibe yinto yokudlala, i-baubles kunye ne-brjuliki, ehlala uyihudula phantsi kwengalo yakho, ihlaziye kwaye ibe yindenge.
Ngaphandle kwemida
Ngokuqhelekileyo zethu izilwanyana kufuneka zidlale indima yomntwana kwintsapho. Bakhawuleza, balula, bamanga empumlweni. Bavunyelwe ukuba balele ebhedini lomtshato. Baphathwa ngobubele obungenamkhawulo, ukuxoxwa kwabo kukhululekile. Ngokomzekelo, phantse zonke iibhokhwe zomntu, ngezinye izinto ezimbalwa, zihamba ngexesha lokuba. Kubazali ngeli xesha-amava anzima, nangona kunjalo, kunye nezinto zezemfundo, nazo, azibuthathaka. Xa isilwanyana esineemilenze ezine sebiwe, akahlawulwanga kakhulu, ngamanye amaxesha ahlekisiwe nje.
Kutheni kulungile ukuba isilwanyana? Iilwanyana eziphangiweyo, abo abanikazi babo banokukhawuleza ukuba bancede benze nayiphi na intloko yabo yokunene efuna, akunakuvuyisa njengoko bacinga. Ikati okanye inja kufuneka ikwazi ngokucacileyo isikhokelo sokuziphatha: Yintoni enokuyenza kwaye ayikwazi ukuyenza. Yaye ukuba namhlanje uhleka into yokuba isilwanyana senyukela kwisiqwenga kunye ne-paw yakho, kwaye kusasa uyayishaya (nangona iphephandaba elisempumlo), liya kukwala ukuqonda nto nantoni na. Kwaye endaweni yesitrato esilula, ufumana i-neurasthenic, ephazamisa kwisithuba esincinane okanye ephazamise yonke indawo naphi na. Ukongezelela, izilwanyana eziphangiweyo zidla ngokugqithiseleyo, kwaye zineengxaki zempilo ngenxa yokukhuluphala.
Kutheni kulungile kuwe? Ukuba awukhawulezi ngokukhawuleza imida yokuziphatha yakho yezilwanyana, awuyi kuthwala rhoqo ukuziphatha, kodwa kunye nokulahleka kwezinto. Iphepha lodonga, ifenitshala efudumeleyo, imilenze ecutyiweyo yeetafile kunye neentonga - le nto yincinci into eyenziwa yinkomo enokuphangwa. Ukungahlawulelwa, ukuxolelwa, ukunyaniseka kuyonakalisa isilwanyana. Ungamvumeli ukuba angabonakali, musa ukuxolela amancinci amancinci, ngaphandle koko isilwanyana sakho siya kuhlala phezu kwentloko yakho (mhlawumbi nangonaqobo).
Umhlobo womntu?
Kubonakala ngathi inxaxheba efanelekileyo kakhulu kwisilwanyana kufuneka ibe ngumhlobo, ilungu lentsapho. Mhlawumbi uya kumangaliswa, kodwa kulungile. Bobabini umhlobo kunye nelungu lentsapho linelungelo elilinganayo. Ngezilwanyana unxulumano olunjalo alukwazi ukwakhiwa. Ukuba awuwathobeli, baya kukuthobela. Ingakumbi ixhala ngeenja. Bayiqonda intsapho njengomhlambi, apho kukho ulawulo oluphezulu: intloko, okwesibini kwi-seniority, abaphantsi (ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana). Indawo yezilwanyana kwisakhiwo esinjalo kufuneka ibe ngowokugqibela. Banyanzelekile ukuthobela abanikazi bipedal - bonke ngaphandle ngaphandle, kwaye landela imigaqo yokuziphatha: musa ukuluma nabani na, musa ukuphazamisa endlwini, musa ukuphulaphula nantoni na ukusabalalisa. Oku, kunjalo, kulungile, kodwa kulungele ukuzama. Ukuba inja "ithatha amandla" endlwini, oku kuza kudala iingxaki ezininzi. Kwama-99% amacala eengxabano ezinkulu kunye nezilwanyana - kunye nokulimala kunye nokubethwa - abanini abangazange bawaphakamise, abazange bakwazi ukukhusela isikhundla sabo esiphambili. Okubi nakwiimeko kuloo ntsapho apho kukho ukungqubana phakathi kwabantu; Izilwanyana zivalo kwaye zihlala zithatha enye yamacala, ihlambalaza ngomnye umntu-igaye ilahlekile, imbethe ebhedini.
Kutheni kulungile ukuba isilwanyana? Ubunkokheli budinga umzamo omkhulu wengqondo, kwaye kunzima izinja ngokubhekiselele kobunzima bokukhuphisana nabantu. Ngoko ke, ezo zilwanyana eziye zanqoba isikhundla esiphambili kwintsapho, zikhona iintsholongwane kunye nokuphelelwa yintlungu.
Kutheni kulungile kuwe? Imfuno ebalulekileyo yepilini kukuba iyamnandi kwaye ifanelekile. Yaye uyathuthuzela njani ukuba wena kunye nabathandekayo bakho bayamhlonela? Kuphela kwimeko apho izilwanyana zethu ziyazi ukuba zithatha indawo yazo, uvuyo lwenxibelelwano luya kubambisana.
Ikati, ikati ...
Kungakhathaliseki isizathu sokuba uqale isilwanyana, zama ukunyanga nje ngesilwanyana. Izinja kunye neekati zicebisa ubomi bethu, zivelise imibala eqaqambileyo, iimvakalelo ezintle. Kodwa ubapha intliziyo yakho, ungavumeli ukuba izilwanyana zithathe ikhoneni lomphefumlo omele ube ngowentsapho kunye nabahlobo. Kwaye kuya kuba kuhle kuwe nakwezilwanyana zakho ezifuywayo.