Kodwa kholwa mna, akunzima kakhulu. Esi sizathu nje sokuba uvila kunye nokuntula kokholo ngamandla akho.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, izizathu ezithintela umfazi ekulahlekeleni ubunzima, sibiza ukungabi nako, ukungabi nako kwemizwa, ukuxinezeleka, ukungabikho kwemali ukuqhuba iklabhu yezempilo okanye ukungabikho kokukhuthazwa ebomini. Kodwa ezi zizathu ezingekho ngqo okanye izizathu ezikhuselekileyo ezikhusela umfazi ukuba alahlekelwe bunzima kwaye abe nolonwabo. Zibukele kwisibuko, ubona ntoni na? - i-creases kwisisu, ubuso obukhathele, awuzibuhlungu. Ukufezekisa ezinye iziphumo, kubalulekile ukuba uzonqobe ngokwakho isizathu esisodwa kuphela - sibuvi bakho. Zigxininise ubuncinane imizuzu embalwa ngemini ukuba unikezele intanda yakho kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, kwiiveki ezingama-2-3 uya kuqaphela ukuba unako ukulahlekelwa isisindo kwaye uqine umlinganiselo wakho.
Nayiphi na ibhinqa enomhlobo othile wokuvuselela ebomini bakhe, njengoluhambo lwasehlobo elwandle okanye ukuphucula impilo yakhe, iyakwazi ukufezekisa iziphumo ezithile. Inzululwazi yanamhlanje inika iindlela ezininzi zokunciphisa umzimba kunye nokugcina isimo. Ezi zidlo ezihlukeneyo, iiseti zokuzilolonga ukulungisa eso sibalo, nokuba uqeqesho lwengqondo, olugalela ekunciphiseni ukutya. Ukulandelela kaninzi kangakanani ngosuku odlayo kunye nendlela odla ngayo iikhalori eziphezulu. Yenza imithintelo emincinci ekudleni, ngoko akufanele ukhathazeke ngokukhulula ngokutya izitya zakho ezizithandayo. Uluhlu oluninzi lwezonyango zokunakekelwa kwesikhumba kunye neengcebiso ezivela kubaqeqeshi abanolwazi luya kunceda umfazi alahlekelwe isisindo kwaye aguqulwe ukubonakala kwakho ukuba ngcono. Ukuba awunayo ithuba lokujongana nabaqeqeshi, unokwenza ekhaya, ngaphandle kokuchitha ixesha elixabisekileyo ukufuna into engaphezulu. Emva koko, yonke into entsha indala ekhohliweyo. Udinga kuphela ukunyamezela, umonde kunye namandla. Ngenxa yokuba kufuneka uqeqeshe phantse yonke imihla. Yilungiselele ukuba ngexesha elithile ufuna ukuyeka kwaye wenze enye into. Apha uya kuncedwa kuphela ngolwazi lokuba i-elastic tucked up belly ibonakalisa isimo esifanelekileyo somzimba, sinciphise ukutya kwaye sinceda ukuphepha izifo ezininzi. Sonke siyazi ukuba imfundo yenyama yindlela efanelekileyo yokukhusela i-catarrhal kunye nezifo zentsholongwane. Nazi izizathu ezichaza imfuno yokunciphisa umzimba.
Umfazi namhlanje ulayishwa ezininzi iingxaki zasekhaya. Ungazami ukukrazula yonke into kuwe, ngamanye amaxesha ushiye umfazi obuthathaka, utshintshe ezinye iingxaki kwamanye amalungu entsapho. Emva kwakho konke, akukho mntu uya kukubonga ngombono wakho ophazamisayo, zizithathele imizuzu emihlanu ngosuku kwaye uya kuziva ungcono. Ukubukeka kwesibalo esincinci kuya kukunika ukuzithemba ngakumbi kwaye kuya kuthintela ubuhlobo bakho nabanye. Akukho sizathu sokunciphisa umzimba, asiyi kuba sizathu sokungabi nhle kwaye sivuya.
Xa sele ufezekisile umphumo oyifunayo, akuyimfuneko ukuyeka izifundo, ngoku umsebenzi wakho kukugcina umphumo kwaye uqhubeke usebenza ekuphuculeni umzimba wakho. Emva koko, ukufumana isisindo sangaphambili kulula kakhulu kwaye ngokukhawuleza, ekubeni iiselfo ezinamafutha zibuyiselwa ngokukhawuleza. Indlela efanelekileyo yokuhlala ihlala ngokusemgangathweni kukutya okunomlinganiselo kunye nokuzilolonga rhoqo. Zithathele umthwalo ophezulu, kwaye akuyi kuba nzima kuwe ubomi bakho.
Ukwandisa i-horizons yakho kwintsimi yokufaneleka okanye ukutya okunomsoco, uya kuhlala unomdla ekufezekiseni zonke iinjongo ezintsha ekuphuculeni umzimba wakho kwaye uya kufumana kubo ukuzonwabisa kwangempela.