Kuphi ukuphumla umfazi onesizungu

Nangona abafazi banamhlanje sele bekude kunye nabangaphambili babo, kwiminyaka emininzi becala ngokuxhomekeke kumadoda, kusekho uluvo kuluntu ukuba uluntu lunqunyelwe kwabasetyhini.

Ubuncinane ekukhetheni indawo yokuhamba. Kwaye kukho ingqolowa ethile yenyaniso kule nkolelo: ngokuqinisekileyo, xa ukhetha indawo yokuphumla umfazi kwizinto ezingento zanamhlanje, elinye iqela limele linyamekele. Indawo yeholide efunekayo yokukhetha ukhuselekileyo kubakhenkethi ababuthathaka, apho ukulondeka kwakhe kungayi kubangela imibuzo engeyomfuneko kwaye abayi kukhangela ingqalelo engafanelekanga. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba uhambo olunjalo lukhawulelwe ekukhethweni kwakhe. Namhlanje, iinkampani zokuhamba zinika uluhlu olutyeleleko lweetyelele ngqo kubasetyhini abaya kwiholide abangahambelani.

Ukuzixhalabisa kwintando yakho.

Le ntokazi ayisoloko ikhulelwe ngenxa yeemeko ezingenakunqandeka: akafunyanwanga yinduna yakhe, umhlolokazi okanye umtshato. Ngamanye amaxesha ukhetho lwakhe, luchazwe ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Abafazi abanjalo, njengomthetho, hamba uhambo kunye nenjongo yokuzonwabisa, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwintando yesithenu ngaphandle kwexesha elingadingekile, ukujoyina ubuncwane bemvelo okanye enye inkcubeko okanye ukufumana i-adrenaline.

Ukukhetha indawo efanelekileyo yokuphucula umfazi onesizungu, olambile inkululeko yesikhashana ebubudlelwaneni, kubalulekile ukukhumbula iindawo ezininzi zokuhlala kwiYurophu. Ikhefu lokuhamba ngelokuya kuthi lifanelekileyo kuphela ukuba injongo yodwa yohambo kukucinga ngento ebalulekileyo okanye yenza uxhumano olusondeleyo kunye nomfokazi othakazelisayo. Kodwa ukuhamba ngesitimela okanye ukuhamba ngeenqwelo zokuhamba nge-aircraft kuyinzuzo enkulu kungekuphela nje ukubona oko bekungazange kwenzeke ngoku, kodwa nokuba nokuba nolwazi oluninzi olunomdla.

EMexico, eFransi, eCyprus nakulo lonke elaseGrisi, eJapan, eUnited States okanye eNorway - kuba elinye ibhinqa linokuba isisombululo esifanelekileyo malunga naliphi na igunya laseYurophu okanye indawo ezikhethiweyo zokutyelela iindawo zaseMelika. Kwaye kuya kuba yinto ekhoyo yokufumana iHolland - ilizwe eliye ladalwa kwezohambo. Egcwele imibala kunye nokuthandana, ukukwazi ukuhlonela inkululeko yokukhetha indoda, engenakho konke ukubonakaliswa kwe-chauvinism yindoda - uya kuguqula ngokoqobo umveleli malunga nomgangatho weholide eyedwa.

Kwaye iFransi - ilizwe lothando, iwayini elimnandi, imihlaba enomdla kunye nabasemagqatshini abangaqhelekanga - indawo enhle yesaveli esandayo okanye elula. Akukho mfazi apha oza kuziva ewodwa. IFransi yihlabathi apho intukuthelo ivela kuwo wonke umntu, kodwa ngoko-unobtrusively ukuba izalise i-acuteness yolonwabo olufunyenwe ekutyelelweni kwayo. Ikhefu elidlulileyo kwiqabane elinye elifanayo alikho ngaphandle kokhenketho. Iyakwazi ukuya kwiindawo eziphakamileyo zase-Swiss Alps okanye nakweyiphi na indawo ye-ski resorts.

Ukukhangela uthando.

Kakade ke, ngamanye amaxesha umfazi uba yintlanzi yedwa, engekho yintando yakhe yokuzikhethela. Uphoqelelwe ukunyamezela kwakhe kuphela ngenxa yokuba isikhulu sakhe sithile siye sahlala kwindlela eya kwintliziyo yakhe okanye esazange sithandane naye, samshiya, saholwa ngabathandana bakhe. Abahlolokazi, abafazi abaqhawule umtshato okanye abo abangazange bahlangabezane nothando lwabo, banqwenela ukuhamba. Kuphela iinjongo ezizixhamlayo zizodwa: zifuna ukungahambi ngexesha elifutshane kwiingalo zendoda engaqhelekanga okanye ubudlelwane obusondeleyo nabahambi bevela kwamanye amazwe. Nangona, ngendleleni, kwezo zihlandlo, abafazi bahlala befumana uthando lokwenene kwaye ekugqibeleni banqumla ubunyulu, kodwa kungabikho kwamanye amazwe, njengoko bekulindele ngaphambili, kodwa kunye nabanye abahambi abaye bawela ngengozi, isitima, ibhasi. Ngokudlulileyo, abangaphezu kwama-40% abantu abahambahambayo abaye bafuna uthando lwabo ngeminyaka bayifumana emehlweni omfokazi, njengoko kuvela, bahlala kwindlu esondeleyo.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwakunjani, kwaye ukhulule umfazi onesizungu, unqwenela uluntu lwabantu, naye, apho. Ewe, ukhetho lwakhe luzaliswe zizikhumbuzo zenkcubeko. Ngokukodwa kumazwe ahlanganiswe kwimbali, i-halo yothando. EFransi, eBelgium, eBulgaria, eSlovenia, kwiRiphabhliki yaseCzech naseCroatia - ezi ziindawo ezifanelekileyo kwiintliziyo ezikhangele ukuthanda. Kodwa ukuba ufuna, umfazi onjalo uhambo oluya eLos Angeles, eMiami, eFlorida okanye naseNew York. Kodwa i-Italy ukufuna uthando-ukufumana ngokwenene. I-Venice, i-Naples okanye i-Florence edibanisa ngokugqithiseleyo igxotha abantu abaphambukayo kwaye ixhaphaze iindwendwe ezinxanelwe uthando, ukunyamekela, ukulungelelana kunye nokunyamekela.

Ukuba unqwenela, elinye ibhinqa lingaya emazweni aseAsia, kodwa kuphela eThailand, eChina, eJapan okanye eVietnam, akunakwenzeka ukuba afumane amaqela amaninzi afuna ukumnceda. Ukongezelela, la mazwe aya kufuneka alumke kakhulu: awukwazi ukulibala ukuba ibhinqa lihlala kuma-Arabhu umntu onamalungelo athile. Ukongezelela, apha awuyi kukwazi ukukhwankqisa ngokubonakalayo: ukuthozama kwindlela yokwahlukileyo yabasetyhini apha kuya kufuneka kudibanise nobunzima bonke.

Ukuxhalaba kuphela ngumhlobo owamkelekileyo.

Ewe, umfazi uhlala efuna umntu. Yaye-unxanelwe. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ngamnye ufuna ukuphumla komnye nomnye. Ekubeni umfazi unemvakalelo, ngoko ke ukuphuka kwezobudlelwane namadoda kuyimfuneko ngakumbi kuye kunesondo esomeleleyo. Ngenxa yeemeko ezinjalo, akuyiyo yonke into ebhinqileyo kwindwendwelo efuna ukunakaliswa kwabalandeli, ubudlelwane bexesha elide okanye, ngokusemgangathweni, abaqhelana nabo. Abanye abahamba ngokuqhelekileyo baphephe uluntu ekuhambeni kwabo, bakhetha ukuhlola indawo ethile, ubunye kunye nemvelo, umnqweno wokuthulisa ukuva umculo oyingqayizivele kwimbali yeedolophu zamandulo, ezikhokelela ekuhambeni kwakhe.

Kuba abatyeleli abanokuthi iindawo eziluhlaza zehlabathi ziphelele - uhlobo lwe-Great Britain, Ireland, New Zealand. Baya kuVietnam okanye kwiChina ngokuphepha. Kula mazwe amangalisa, umntu onokuhamba naye unokuzinikela ngokupheleleyo ekufundweni kwezinto, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka iintetho ezingafunekiyo, ukuthandana okanye ukuthandana. ISlovenia, iSlovakia, iFinland, iMorocco, iJamani - ngamazwe amangalisayo ekuhloliseni ieholide zodwa. Inkqubo yokukhusela abahambi abangabikho kwizinto ezisongela kula mazwe zakhiwe kwinqanaba eliphezulu lomgangatho. Akukho nto inokwesaba. Kodwa kusadingeka ukuba ukhumbule inkqubo yezilumkiso ezifunekayo.