Kutheni abafazi besithandana nesondo?
Akusiyo imfihlelo yokuba kukho amabhinqa abalala ngesondo kuphela ukuba banelise indoda, ngelixa bengayithandi. Akusiyo into yokuba i-excuse eyintandokazi "intloko yam yenza ukuba" ibe yinjongo yamanqaku amaninzi kunye namabali ahlekisayo.
Sisiphi isizathu sokungafuni ubuhlobo obusondeleyo nomntu? Imoya yothando, eceleni kwento oyithandayo, kodwa uvakalelwa kukuba into ephosakeleyo ...
Esinye sezizathu kukukhuliswa. Amantombazana amaninzi afundiswa ukuba angabonakali uvelwano kumakhwenkwe. Ngamaxesha anamhlanje oku kukhanye ukwesaba ukuveza umnqweno kunye nokuziphatha ngokwesini, ukwesaba ukungahlali kwaye ukulahlekelwa intlonipho yendoda ngenxa yale nto.
Enyanisweni, inyaniso yokuba amadoda ayithandi ukukhululwa kunye nabafazi abancinci bexesha elide beliyingcali. Ukuba oku kukwayikisayo, libale. Amadoda amaninzi anamhlanje afuna ukubona umfazi osondeleyo ongeyikiyo kwaye engabi neentloni ngeeminqweno nemvakalelo yakhe, uthanda ukulala ngesondo kwaye akafihli.
Cinga ngeziphi ezinye izizathu ongafuni ukulala nazo. Mhlawumbi kukuziphatha okungalunganga komlingane. Khawucinge ngendlela ofuna ukuba ayenze ngayo, kwaye wabelane ngeminqweno oyithandayo.
Esinye isizathu sokungafuni ukutshatyalaliswa sisenokuxinezeleka kunye nokukhathazeka ngokomzwelo. Ukuba ukhulula kwaye ukhubekiso komnye nomnye, umnqweno uyaphela. Sebenzisanani kunye ukuphucula umoya ngaphakathi kwendlu, kwaye unokuphinda ujabulele umhlobo.
Ukuba izizathu, ngenxa yokuba awukwazi ukunandipha ngesondo, zininzi kakhulu kunezi ngasentla, indleko kwi-sexologist. Ingcali iza kukunceda uziqonde ngokwakho, ukuze uzuze ukuvisisana nokuzonwabisa.
Kutheni amanye amabhinqa angabonisi abantu bawo uthando lomntu wesondo kwaye angabonisi kuqala umnqweno wesini? Inyaniso kukuba ubulili ngenye yezinto ezimbalwa zobomi apho umfazi angasebenzisa khona umntu ngomlinganiselo othile. Yingakho sinokulala ngesondo kunye nomlingane ukuze senze uxinzelelo kuye. Oku akunakwenziwa nakweyiphi na imeko, ekubeni ukuziphatha okunjalo, endaweni yokuncedisa ukufezekisa oko kuyifunayo, kuya kubangela ukuba umntu adumale kunye nolaka.
Abafazi abathandani ngesondo, kuba bayazi umzimba wesilisa
Abasetyhini abaninzi bafumana ukwesaba ipeni. Iingxaki ezifanayo zivela ebuntwaneni, kuba amantombazana amaninzi afundiswa ukungathembeli ngesini esahlukileyo. Ngoko ke, bakhula, befumana ukwesaba kokusondelana nabantu.
Abasetyhini abangamazi bazama ukufumana iqabane ukwenza isondo ngokukhawuleza. Cinga, mhlawumbi, akunjalo nokuba awufuni ukuthandana ngesondo, awukwazi ukukholisa umlingane wakho, ngoko unamahloni malunga nokungazi kwaye uzame ukuphepha iingxaki ezingenakuthatheka kunye neentloni.
Cinga ngako, ukuba ingxaki, oku kulula kakhulu ukuyicombulula. Unganqikazi ukufunda umzimba womntu obathandayo, ubuze ukuba uyithanda njani kwaye uyithandayo. Indoda yakho iya kukuxabisa umsebenzi wakho.
Amanye amabhinqa akayithandi isondo, kuba abanako ukufikelela kwi-orgasm
Abasetyhini abaninzi besaba ukubonakala "ngabangcwaba" emehlweni omntu, ngoko ke ungathethi ngeengcinga zabo zesondo kunye nezinto ezikhethwa kuzo, kunokuba zikhethe ukuva ubunzima. Ewe, isondo, esingathandekiyo, asithandi mntu kwaye ekugqibeleni uya kutyhafisa.
Le ngxaki isonjululwe. Yeka ukuhlaziswa yindoda yakho. Mxelele ukuba aziphathe njani. Umlingani onomdla, eqinisweni, ufuna ukunika umfazi wakhe uvuyo, ngoko uya kuziqwalasela ngokuqinisekileyo.
Thetha nomthandane wakho ukuzimisela zakhe neemfuno kunye neemfuno zakho. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba le ncoko ingabonakali embhedeni ngexesha lesondo, kodwa kwezinye iimeko ezifanelekileyo.
Amadoda anamhlanje afana nabasetyhini abanokuzithemba, abanokwazi kwaye banqwenela ukukholisa umlingane wabo kunye nokuzonwabisa ngokulala. Musa ukoyika iminqweno nemiva yakho!