Okokuqala, siya kuchaza.
Okokuqala, isizathu esona sizathu sokuba ungeyithandanga yindoda yakho. Ekubeni nayiphi na ibhinqa ingasayi kuba yinto enomdla kwintlondi yesibini, nakwintetho yesondlo. Amadoda rhoqo azama ukufumana ixesha, kungeyona nto ingcono, ubuncinane loo ntokazi, enomdla ukuthetha naye, ngokungathandabuzeki, ebhedeni. Okokuthi, ukuba umntu uyingqondi, ngoko-ke ufuna ukuba intombazana eyaneleyo.
Ukongezelela, kuyafaneleka ukuba sikhumbule ukuba umfazi akanalo ilungelo lokubonisa ukuba unengqiqo kunendoda yakhe, kodwa kunjalo, akufanele abe sisidenge. Kufuneka abe ngumdlali we-actress, kwaye wenze into ethile kumntu, kwaye ukuze umkhange ngendlela afuna ukuba ube ngayo.
Ukongezelela, ngesondo akufanele unqunywe, ngokuqinisekileyo uyamkhathaza, kwaye uya kuhamba ukuhamba ngakwesokhohlo, nangona kunjalo, ungayithandi, kuba unokucinga ukuba unamadoda amaninzi. Kwaye, njengomthetho, abanako ukuba nomfazi obenamadoda amaninzi ngaphambili.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho into enjalo njengokungahambelani kwabalinganiswa.
Enyanisweni, ukuba ukhangeleka ngaphandle, ulungisa umntu wakho kuyo yonke into, kodwa ukuba uhlala unamahloni, kwaye awukwazi ukunyanzelisa nayiphi indlela, oko kukuthi, ungahambi kumntu ukuba uvumeleke, ngoko ekugqibeleni zonke ziphephe ukuba uya kubeka inxenye. Basetyhini, qondani ukuba indoda yindalo inkokheli, kwaye uya kuhlala efuna ukuba yintoni na, kwaye ukuba uyayithanda ngokwenene - inika yona kuye, kodwa ukuba akunjalo, akuyi kuba khona impendulo.
Yiza entliziyweni yakho, kulula kakhulu ukuba umntu akufumene indawo kwaye ungalindelanga ukuba umntu ulungele nantoni na kuwe, kwiimeko ezingama-95% oku akunjalo.
Ukongeza, ngamnye umfazi kufuneka akwazi ukuzilawula. Kuba akukho mntu uya kufuna ukuhlala nomfazi ongenakulinganiseki, okwangoku namhlanje, ngomso omnye kwaye unokukwenza ezininzi izinto eziyintsipho. Kufuneka uzihlole kwaye uziphathe ngokufanelekileyo kwiindawo zoluntu.
Kwaye kwathiwa ngaphambili, abantu abanakuhlala nabo. Ngubani owayengaphambi kwamadoda amaninzi, nokuba kwakunobutsha bakhe. Nangona kunjalo, indlela yokuphila engcolileyo ayiyi kukhokelela kuyo nayiphi na into enhle, kuba umntu ekugqibeleni unokufumanisa ngaye ngeyona nto idlulileyo, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo, yeyiphi yamadoda ayifuni ukuba ebomini bakhe i-39. Kwaye nangona kunjalo, ukuba wayedibana nabahlobo bakhe, nangaphambi kokuba uqhelane.
Kwakhona, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba akufanele usebenzise umntu njengendawo yokuphuma. Hayi, ayikho. Unokuthetha ngeengxaki, kodwa ungagqithisi. Ufanele uzivele oko kukufanele ukumxelela. Kwaye akunjalo. Kulungile oku kusebenzisa intombi yakho, kuba uyayiphulaphula ngokuzeleyo ukubonisa imvakalelo kunye nokuzonwabisa. Amadoda nje afuna umfazi ozolileyo, ozolile, onomusa kwaye abayithandanga nantoni na into oyithengileyo, ubuninzi kangakanani njalo. Akuyena intombi yakho!
Kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba abafazi bahlala bezinyamekela, bekholelwa ukuba kwinqanaba elithile kule ndawo akukho ndawo. Oku kungenangqondo! Amadoda rhoqo ahlola amantombazana ngendlela entsha. Izolo ubungumhle, namhlanje awuzilungele kakuhle, kuwe kunye nesimo sengqondo siya kuhambelana. Yonke into ishintsha rhoqo. Kufuneka uhlale utshintshela ukukholisa kwaye uyamangaliswa yintliziyo yakho nendoda. Jonga! Oku kuyintloko! Kwaye emva kokukhulelwa, njengomthetho, abafazi babonakala bengenangqondo, kunye nokukhuliswa komntwana kwaye benze izinto ezintle kwimpahla yabo, kwaye kakhulu kumbuzo wokuba kutheni amadoda aphonse abafazi abakhulelweyo? "Iqulethwe ngokuchanekileyo kule mhlathi.
Ukongeza, musa ukulibala ukuba indoda ayikho isikhwama. Ewe, bonke abantu bayakuvuyela ukunakekela umfazi, bayaqiniseka ngokuya kunye nawe kwindawo yokutyela, bathenge iintyatyambo, banike izinto ezibiza, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo, bafuna ukulala ngesondo kunye nothando, uthando, kuba kufuneka bave, ukuze ukuba isondo singathengwa njani ngemali.
Ngokuqhelekileyo amabhinqa athabatha imali kumadoda ngokubuyisela ukulala ngesondo kuphela. Kwiimeko ezinje, bayeka ukuva uthando lwakho. Ngoko ekugqibeleni, ulahlekelwa yinto yonke.
Isiphetho sibonisa. Ngomsindo wakho, ufuna ukuphazamisa, uyayithanda kwaye ukuba ufuna nayiphi na into, yenza ngeengcebiso.
Enye iphutha kukuba loo mntu uvakalelwa xa efuna ukutshata naye, kodwa xa ephoqeleka ukwenza oku, akayivuyo ngoku, kwaye uyamthusa.
Kwakhona, ngamnye umfazi kufuneka azi ukuba abantu bayakuxolela yonke into ngaphandle kobuthixo. Ukuba into ayikukholisayo. Yitsho ngokuthe ngqo, kwaye ungakhokeli kwi-scandals.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho enye ingongoma, inomdla kakhulu, kwaye ukuba icacile, nantoni na.
Kwenzeka ukuba umfazi uqala ukufumana okungaphezulu kwendoda yakhe, kwaye ukususela kwimihla yokuqala indoda ibonwa njengomninimzi, akunakwenzeka ukufumana indoda eya kuvuya ngayo. Kwaye ukuba siqala ukuhlambalaza amadoda ethu ukuba sikulungele ukufumana nokunye okunjalo, ngoko asikwazi ukuqaphela malunga nokuphuka, kuya kuba yi-100%.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni uya kuba yedwa, into edabukisayo kwaye akukho namnye kuthi.
Ngako oko, abafazi abathandekayo akufanele batyhoxe amadoda akho ukuba abe ngcono, ukuze bangahlakuli ubunzima obuphantsi kwabo.
Kwimeko apho usakhulelwe, kwaye imigaqo yokuziphatha ichazwe ngasentla ayizange idibene, loo mntu uqala ukuzibuza imibuzo: "Ngaba ndiyayifuna le nto? Ndiyakwenza oko? Kodwa ukuba akayitholi kakuhle ngoku, yonke into iya kuba yimbi ngakumbi. " Kwaye njalo. Ngaloo ndlela, ekugqibeleni, omnye ulungelelaniswa kwelinye ngoluhlu olukhulu, kwaye zonke iinyanga eziyi-9 zokukhulelwa, kuthatha ukungaqiniseki kunye nokunganeliseki, kwaye ngenxa yoko, kushiya nje ukusukela kwindoda engumntu onyamekayo ongayifuniyo, kwaye ukuba ukungaqiniseki ngoloyiko lokuba nguyise oyingozi kumntwana wakho, ngamanye amaxesha ude ushiye isixeko nakwilizwe, ngenjongo yokungaze uhlangane nawe kwaye ubone umntwana wakho, uqale kwakhona, kwaye ufumane umfazi omtsha onokuzithemba naye. Ndiyathemba ukuba eli nqaku liyakunceda uphendule umbuzo othi kutheni umntu angaphonsa owesifazane okhulelwe? "U