Olutsha
Kwiiyure zokuqala emva kokuzalwa, phakathi koomama nomntwana uqala ingxoxo yakhe ekhethekileyo, edla ngokuqondwa ngababili kuphela. Unxibelelwano lwengqondo phakathi koomama nosana olwakhula ngexesha lokukhulelwa lugcinwe kwaye luqiniswe.
Ndiyakuva!
Izazinzulu zafika kwisigqibo sokuba ngelizwi lomama umntwana uthoba ngokukhawuleza, ukuphefumla kwakhe kuhamba kakuhle, kwisigqi. Abantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa bava kakuhle. Ngoko ke, umntwana usenokubeka umculo ozolileyo, onokuthula, uthethe nantoni na. Ekupheleni kwenyanga yokuqala yobomi, umntwana ufunda ubuchule bomlinganiselo wesandi kunye nomthombo wayo-ukuqala kokuqala kokuzibandakanya kubonakala. Ngoku ungadlala ne-rattle. Okokuqala, ukutshisa ngokukhawuleza phambi komntwana, uze uhambe kwaye ulungile. Oku kuya kuphuhlisa ingqalelo yengane.
Ndiyabona!
Ukunxibelelana ngokubonakalayo kubaluleke kakhulu. Yimbonakaliso enika inkcazelo yengundoqo malunga nehlabathi elikujikelezile.
Umntwana ekuzalweni uyakwazi ukubona izinto ezinzulu kunye nomfanekiso wesicwangciso (imizobo). Kodwa ungabonisi umntwana wenyanga zonke ezininzi izinto ezahlukeneyo kunye nemifanekiso. Ekuqaleni, kuye, ngoko kubonakala ngokwaneleyo. Okokuqala, kufuneka aqwalasele indawo yakhe yokuhlala. Kwaye ibukeka ihlukile. Xa uyigqoke ezandleni zakho, izinto zibonakala ngenye indlela, xa ubeka umntwana embhedeni, ingcamango yenguquko yenguqu.
I-crumb yenyanga iyakunikezelwa ngokujonga umfanekiso omnyama nomhlophe ngomfanekiso wesimo somntu. Ngeenyanga eziyi-3-4 umntwana usenokuba neenkcukacha zombala wovuyo, ulusizi, ubuso obushushu. Yaye qiniseka ukuba ubeke izimvo malunga noko ubonisa.
Ndiziva!
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuphuhliswa kwabantwana kukuthintana nomnxeba. Unomnxeba umntwana, uhlaselwa, uthabathe, ngokukhawuleza, wakhala ngoko, kwaye ngaleyo ndlela ube negalelo ekubunjweni kwengqondo engundoqo yokuthembela kwihlabathi elikujikelezile. Umntwana wakho naye uqala uqhagamshelwano. Ukususela ekuzalweni kwakhe, ngokukhala okukhulu, usana olutsha lubiza unina. Imizwa engalunganga kunye nokubonakaliswa kwazo ngokukhawuleza kudlala indima ebalulekileyo kwiiveki zokuqala zobomi. Ngaphandle koko, unomnye umama wakho akufumanisa ukuba kukho into ephosakeleyo ngunyana, ukuba udinga ukutshintsha i-diaper, ukutya, ukugqoka? .. Ekupheleni kowokuqala-ukuqala kwenyanga yesibini, umntwana uqala ukunika umntu omdala (ngokuyinhloko umama) evela kwimeko kwaye ukuqala ukumamotheka . Kuze kube ngoku, umntwana wasenokuba neemvakalelo eziphazamisayo, ngoku kwakukho izinto ezintle. Olu lunxibelelwano olukhoyo kwintsana.
Kodwa ukwaneliseka kweemfuno zomntwana akuvelisi iimvakalelo ezintle, kodwa kususa kuphela iimvakalelo ezimbi. Inkwenkwe iyavuya kuphela xa uthetha umntu omdala. Ngethuba le nxibelelwano, ukukhula kwengqondo, ukukhathazeka kwengqondo kunye nengqondo kuyenzeka.
Iinyanga ezintandathu
Umntwana wakho uyakhula kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo uzama ukunxibelelana nokudlala nawe, kwaye le nqwenelo uvakalisa ngolwimi lwesibonakaliso kunye nesenzo. Eli nqanaba lophuhliso libizwa ngokuba lixesha lokusebenzisana. Ukuphuhlisa intetho Umntwana sele sele eqonda intetho yomntu omdala. Yaye kungekhona nje intetho. Ngoku umncinci uyazi kwaye uyaqonda amazwi amaninzi kunokuba athi. Umlinganiselo wesantya wamazwi aqondwa ngumntwana oneminyaka engaphezu kwe-6 i malunga ne-50. Oku kubonakaliswa ukuba uyayiphendula ngamagama akhethekileyo kunye nemigca emfutshane kunye nesimo sengqondo esahlukileyo (imizwa). Umntwana uhlambalaza, ukuxelisa inkulumo yentetho yabantu abadala. Ingane iqala ukudibanisa into ebonwa ngegama layo. Kwaye xa umama angacela ukuba ndifumane le nto ngamehlo am. Ewe, ukuba igama le sifundo liyazi kuye, kwaye loo nto ngokwayo ibonakala kwintsana.
Ingane ngokwayo sele izama ukuthetha , kodwa ngelixa incoko yakhe ibizwa ngokuba yibuhlungu. I-crumb yakho sele iqale ukubhala izinto ezithile ngeentetho ezithile, ezifanayo okanye ezingekho kakhulu kwigama ngokwayo-akukhathaleki okwamanje. Kubalulekile ukuba oku sele asele magama. Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana angakwazi "ukuthetha" ixesha elide, utshintshe intetho, oku kunokunceda ukuba aqonde kangcono umntwana wakhe, iimfuno zakhe kunye neminqweno. "Kule minyaka, kuhle ukudlala" Ladushki "," I-Soroku-raven " ... Le poteshki-pestushki inceda umntwana ukuba athuthukise izakhono zokulingisa. I-crumb iyakuphinda emva kokuba ungahambi nje kuphela, kodwa ngamazwi. Ukwesaba kwabantwana Ngeenyanga ezi-7 ubudala umntwana uqala ukwesaba abangaziwayo. Oku kubonakala kwinto yokuba umntwana uqala ukukhala xa esondela kubantu abangabaziyo okanye xa bebodwa kunye nabo. Isizathu salo singathandekiyo kwaye sikhusekisa amalungu amaninzi entsapho (ikakhulukazi ootatomkhulu abahluphekileyo) ilula: ngoku umntwana ngenxa yokuphuhliswa kwengqondo uyakwazi ukwahlula umntu omnye komnye, ukwahlula umntu ongeyena kunye nomntu ongekho (ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuqonda kwakhe njengomntwana). Umntwana usenokuba nokwesaba ukungabikho kwabazali kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, ukuxhalabisa ngokuphathelele kumntu ongaqhelekanga.
Ingaba loloyiko luya kuthatha okanye luya kudlula, nokuba unamahloni kunye nokuzihlukanisa ngeempawu zobume balo kuya kuba - kwiintlobo ezininzi kuxhomekeke ekuziphatheni komama kunye nobaba. Kubalulekile ukuba inkunzi ikwazi ukuba uhlala ukulungele ukunceda.
Xa umntu owaziwayo esele azalwa, unina kufuneka:
thabatha umntwana ezandleni zakhe, bulisa umndwendwe;
uthetha ngezwi elizolileyo, ukumomotheka kwaye usoloko usondele kumntwana wakho.
Ngaphambi koko, cacisa intsapho yakho into eyenzekayo. Emva koko, kwenzeka njalo ukuba ootatomkhulu (oomama, oomama, ohlobo) abaza kukutyelela kwimeko-nga-imeko, bafuna ukunxibelelana nosana ngexesha lokutyelela kwabo. Kodwa abayikhumbuli abantwana babo, oko kuthetha ukuba baya kuphendulela yonke into yokubanga baze bathuze ngokukhala okukhulu! Ngokochitha kunye neendwendwe ingxoxo echazayo, tshela ukuba iya kuba yinto emfutshane kakhulu kwaye yonke into iyahluka. Kodwa ngelixa yonke into ifana nale ... kwaye uzama ukuchitha ixesha elininzi ngangokunokwenzeka ngomntwana. Akunjalo ngokusemthethweni, ukwenza ibhizinisi labo, kodwa bedlala nomntwana okanye iincwadi zokufunda kuye. Emva koko, kunokwenzeka ukuba le nkathazo iya kuguqulwa okanye ingabonakali ngokupheleleyo. Ngeli xesha, unokuqala ukufundisa umntwana umqondiso wokunxibelelana, uwakhuthaze ngamazwi amfutshane: "siyabonga", "ngoku ngoku", "mbulela."
Unyaka
Umntwana oneminyaka elilodwa unokuyenza eninzi. Uyaphuza kwisiselo sakhe, uhlamba, ehlala ngokuzithemba, ehamba, ekhwela kwi-sofa, uzama ukuzidla ngokwakhe. Kodwa impumelelo ephambili kweli xesha kukuba umntwana uqala ukuthetha, udla ngokukhawuleza ukuchaza igama elilodwa-, ezimbini-syllable words.
Kwaye ngolwimi lwakhe lwezandi kunye nezenzo, unokuthetha nawe. Ngoku i-crumb ayixhomekeke kakhulu kuwe. Uvusa umnqweno wokuzimela, ukuzihlolisisa ihlabathi elikujikelezile. Iinkqubo zengqiqo zikhula ngokukhawuleza, inkunzi inokukhumbula into ethile ize ifike nomdlalo. Ngoku umntwana akafunekanga kuphela kunye nokuziphatha kakuhle kwabanye, kodwa nokukhuthazwa kweempumelelo zakhe, uncedo olusebenzayo kwizenzo. Kule nto kuxhomekeke ekubeni umntwana unokuziva uzimele, umsebenzi kunye nokubaluleka. Ingxaki yokuqala Ukuchasana phakathi komnqweno womntwana wokuzimela kunye nokuxhomekeka kwakhe ngoncedo lwabazali bakhe kuyakha isiseko sezinto ezibizwa ngokuthi "ingxaki yonyaka omnye." Ukuthetha nabazali, umntwana akasaboni nje ukuziphatha kwakhe, kodwa uzama ukutsala nokugcina ingqalelo. kunye neendlela azama ukuphumeza ngayo, ngamanye amaxesha zikhokelela kumama noyise.
Ukusebenzisana
Ingane ngoku ayifuni nje ukuqhagamshelana ngokomzwelo, kodwa kunye nentsebenziswano. Ingane yakho isele ibone ukunikezelwa kwexesha elide. Kubalulekile ukumxelela ngakumbi ngehlabathi elikujikelezile, malunga nezifundo ezahlukeneyo kunye neziganeko ezahlukeneyo. Fumana ihlabathi lomlingo weenganekwane zomntwana wakho. Kufuneka uqale ngezona zilula: Repka, Kolobok, Teremok, njl. Le mibali yamathandayo ayilungile kuba iqukethe ukuphindaphinda amaninzi, oku kunceda umntwana ukuba aqonde kakuhle icebo.