Akufanele babuzwe malunga nale nto
Amadoda, njengabantwana baka-naskodivshie, de kube yinto yokugqibela yokukhanyela kwaye bathi bahlambulukile, njengento yokulahla kwedonko. Ukuba uyaphumelela ekubambeni umthengisi ngeenyaniso ezandleni zakho (okokugqibela akumele kukhankanywe ngokupheleleyo), ngoko umcimbi omtsha ovela kwinqutyana uza kudlala: "Ewe, andiyazi ukuba kwenzekani ..."
Kwaye kuya kuvela izizathu. Eyona ndlela ixhaphakileyo-ithi, "wayedakiwe", akayiqondi into ayenzayo. Umyeni womhlobo wam wayesethi kwitheyibhile yokutya (umfazi wam waqhekeza ekhitshini): "Kule meko, oko kungenzeki kuphela." Ukungcatshiswa kotywala - inkolelo yinto eqhelekileyo. Kuphela ke beza kunye nabo, baninzi kakhulu, amadoda. Emva koko, bayasela, kunoko, ukuba banesibindi, kwaye kungekhona okunye ...
Umyeni wam ubeke phambili ingxabano elula: "Kwaye kwaba kanye kuphela". Oko kukuthi, ukuba kanye, ngoko, kwaye ungabi naluphikisa. Kwaye indoda enye eyindoda yazama ukukholisa esinye isiqingatha ukuba ilale "namanye ootatawabo" yayingumsebenzi wakhe wobugcisa. Yena, njengomntu oshishino ophumelelayo, unelungelo lokuzifumana ngolu hlobo.
Ungakwazi ukuluhlu zonke iintlobo zezizathu kunye nezizathu zokubambela ixesha elide, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ungathetha into enye: akunakuze ufumane isizathu sokungcatshiswa komntu. Emva koko, ucinga ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba awuyidingi inyaniso, kodwa isithuba sokulungiselela indawo kunye nokuqinisekisa ukuba oku akuyi kuphinda kwenzeke kwakhona. Ngokunyanisekileyo konke oku kunika.
Ngenxa yokuba uyindoda
Ukuze ngandlela-thile sibone oko abathandekayo bethu baxhobela "ulwaphulo-mthetho," kungcono ukuphendukela kolwazi lwezengqondo ze-psychologists kunye ne-physiologists. Kwaye baqokelele kakhulu kwinkulungwane yokugqibela.
Kwaye isizathu sokuqala sokuba uya kuthiwa izandi zilula: kuba ungumntu. Yaye uthando aluhlangani nento. Umlingani wakho unokufumana iimvakalelo zothando kuwe, uthanda abantwana bakho, uthwale unyoko kwizandla zakho, kwaye ngezikhathi ezithile "hamba ukuya ngakwesobunxele."
Usola into ekhethiweyo yemvelo kunye namahomoni angamadoda, awanakho ukuphumla "entliziyweni ephelile". Ngamanye amaxesha ukubonwa kwexesha elithile le-sex diva lwanele, kwaye indlela eyenziwa yiminyaka eyi-mill eqhutywe yinkwenkwe yenkwenkwe yokuphalaza inzala yakhe, naphi na, kwaye ebaluleke kakhulu, ayiyi kushiya ukuthembeka kwayo. Kwaye konke esinokukwenza ukuxolela okanye ukuziphindiselela ...
Iindawo eziyingozi
Kukho indawo yokubeka ingozi, oko kukuthi, indawo apho ukunyaniseka kwendoda kufakwe iimvavanyo ezizodwa. Ngaloo ndlela, ii-resorts zihlala zingumnikazi werekhodi. Kubonakala ngathi isondo esinamandla phantsi kwelanga elisezantsi liza i-amnesia yesikhashana. Bayalibala ngokupheleleyo ngabafazi babo nabantwana. Yaye le meko yile: ubuhle obunqununu obunxwemeni bubonakala bufikeleleka.
Kwaye akukho apha kuphela ama-hormone adlala indima yabo emnyama. Kwakhona sinesidlo esinxilisayo senkululeko. Emva koko, indoda, nangomtshato, izama ukugcina ngokuzimeleyo ukuzimela kwayo (ubuncinci kwimiba ethile) ukusuka kwiingxabano zabafazi. Ngendlela, esinye sezizathu zokuhlambalaza sinokuba ngumnqweno wokubuyisela umlingane wakho ngendlela yakho. Unqwenelelo olunjalo lwechungechunge elimangalisayo, akukho ndoda iya kuvuma. Kwaye ke, wakuthanda ngendlela ayenayo, ngaphambili.
Kwaye kwi-resort kunye nohambo lwezoshishino, mayeke ixesha elifutshane, umntu ufumana oko akusoloko ephupha. Akudingeki uxoke, zigwebise, qaphela ixesha kunye nokubeka umlomo kwihembe lakho. Nantsi ke, uvuyo!
Akukho ncipheko engekho yinto ebizwa ngokuthi "amaqela angamaqabane". Ngokukodwa ukuba zigcinwe kwimeko ethile ebalulekileyo-umtshato womntu, umzekelo. Ngendlela, ukuba umthandi wakho wenza njengomyeni, umngcipheko kule nto awunciphisi. Enye inkolelo kukucinga ukuba oomama bathambekele ekwenzeni ukunyaniseka. Amakhwenkwe awanomdla ngale nto, kholwani! Ngoko ke baya kuzama ukuchitha imali kunye nobomi babo obuncinane kwizinga eliphezulu, oko kukuthi, kunye namantombazana.
Amatyala ekliniki
Iindawo zokuhlala, uhambo lwezoshishino, amaqela angama-stag - konke oku kungenangqondo, oko kuthetha, ishishini lansuku zonke. Kukho "iigzags zendoda" kwaye zinzulu ngakumbi. Ndinomhlobo okwazi ukutshata kabini ... ubulili. Lapho afunyanwa khona kumanani anjalo, kunzima ukusho. Kodwa into ephawulekayo kukuba amaxesha amabini intombazana, njengoko beyithethayo, ayengazi ncam
Nangona izazi zeengqondo zithi ziyakwazi ukuchonga aba benzi bezinto. Zizo, njengomthetho, ezingapheliyo kwiimvavanyo zesondo, kunye nokuthanda kwimiqathango emitsha abayekanga ngayo nangemva kwexesha elibalulekileyo lomtshato. Ukuba iqabane lidiniwe, likhawuleza lifumane ukuzizonwabisa "ecaleni" kwaye kaninzi ayinalo nomfazi. Iingcamango zilula - kunzima ukujonga ngesondo kunye nendoda njengobuqhetseba ...
Nangona kunjalo imeko engowona nto ihlala iqhathaniswa nomama. Akunabo abantu abancinci kwaze kube yilapho bekhulile bexhonywe kwi-diapers kunye nenjongo yabo ephambili kukufumana umhlobo othembekileyo, kodwa umama onomdla. Kuze kufumaneke loo ntokazi, abayi kuphumla. Kwaye ke, baya kuzama abaviwa abatsha nabatsha. Kwanokuba isithuba sele sithathwe.
Ukukhathala
Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha thina ngokwethu sivuselela ukungathembeki kwesiqingatha sethu. Iqhawe lomdlalo "Ulungele ukwenza okulungileyo" uthi kudadewabo: "Hlala nomyeni wakho iminyaka eyi-15, kwaye siza kubona ...".
Enyanisweni, ngaphezu kweminyaka emininzi yobomi obatshatileyo, iimvakalelo zithintela, imenyu yesondo iyaba yinto engcolileyo kwaye abafazi bavame ukuyeka ukubaluleka kwiintlobo zabo. Kodwa le ndoda iyaqhubeka ifuna ukuvakalelwa ngokukhawuleza, nokuba ngamaholide, kunye nesimo sayo somntu asikwazi ukuchaza ukuba uxolo luvuyo. Ngoko uqala ukukhangela.
Ngaloo ndlela, kungcono ukuba udiniwe, uzibeke umyalelo, uthenge ingubo yokulingana kwaye ugubungele umdala. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ungadluli. Emva kwakho konke, othembekileyo wakho (unokuthi ulungile) ugqibe ekubeni ufumene indawo esikhundleni sakhe. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuqala konke kunzima.
Ngendlela, ngokweengcali zengqondo, ukuzithandabuza kuyona nto ibangela ukuphinga. Ngoko ke, ubuncinane kanye ngeveki ukhumbuze umhlobo wakho ukuba nguye kuphela onokukunika unonwabo, nangona ukuba akunjalo ...