Ukususela ekugqithiseni kweemvakalelo ezimbi, unako ukwenza inamba enkulu yeepazamo uze uphethe iinkuni. Into yokuqala efika engqondweni ngumntu ohamba ngokungcatsha - ukuphula ubudlelwane.
Cinga ngezizathu zokungqubuzana, kwaye uzama ukufumanisa indlela yokulusa ngayo ukutshatyalaliswa komlingane wakhe.
Uthando oludlulileyo. Iingcali zengqondo zithi uthando olususondeleyo luyona sizathu esona sizathu sokuba amaqabane athoba. Kule meko, kukulungele ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo kunye neqabane, fumana ukuba kwenzekani phakathi kwakho kwaye unqume oko uza kukwenza ngokulandelayo. Kodwa, njengomthetho, ezo mbambano ziya kulahlwa.
Iingxaki phakathi kwamaqabane . Ukubonakala kweengxaki kwiintsebenziswano kubakhokelela ekukhohliseni. Ukuba iqabane liguqulwa, oku akuthethi ukuba unemvakalelo yakho. Ubuqhetseba, ngakwakhe, yindlela ekhethekileyo yokusombulula iingxaki zakho. Ngokomzekelo, iqabane livakalelwa kukuba uye wahamba naye, wayeka ukumnaka. Uyabona enye indlela yokuphuma-ukunyamekela umqeshwa wakhe. Okumangalisayo kukuba, kodwa kwiimeko ezinjalo, ukugwenxa kudla ngokuba yinto ebangela ukuba isibini sisebenze kunye nokubophelela ubudlelwane.
Ingxaki zangaphakathi kunye neqabane . Iingxaki zinokuba zihluke kakhulu.
Umzekelo, ukungafuni ukuxabana. Xa iqabane livakalelwa kukuba ulwalamano luya kwinqanaba elitsha, ngakumbi, ukwesaba nokungaqiniseki kwangaphakathi kuvuka kuye. Ngelo xesha, ukunyaniseka akumniki nto yolonwabo, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, kuhlushwa kuphela.
Ukungazinzi ngokwalo, kwakhona, kubangele abantu ukuba baphikise. Ukutshintsha amaqabane esondo kunye nokutshintsha othandekayo, iqabane lalo lizama ukwandisa ukuzithemba.
Umbono o lu "Indoda mayibe nomfazi ngaphezu komfazi wayo, abe nenkosikazi" okanye "ukuba umfazi unentloko, ngoko kufuneka abe nomthandi." Xa umntu ehlala kwaye enza ngokuthembela kwimbono kawonke-wonke, ithetha ngokuvakalelwa kuye.
Izizathu zokubangela ukuba iqabane lixazululwe ngokunyaniseka lingahluke. Kodwa, indlela yokuxhatshazwa ukutshintsha nokugcina ubudlelwane?
Ukuqala kokuqala ukutshatyalaliswa ngumnqweno wokuqhawula ubudlelwane. Kodwa, ukuba nithandana, kufuneka ufune iindlela zokuphepha iimiphumo ezimbi.
Ukuba kuthengiswa, nangona kwenzeka, izazi zeengqondo zicebisa ukuba zilinde ixesha elithile, xa iimvakalelo zizinzileyo, kwaye unokwazi ukujonga ngeso simo. Qonda ukuba zombini amaqabane ahlupheka ngenxa yokungcatsha. Ufuna incoko, kodwa ukuba wena ngokwakho ungayisombululi ingxaki, qhagamshelana nochwepheshe.
Ukungafani nokutshintsha iqabane, khumbula ukuba amadoda adinga isondo kunye nokwaneliseka. Akayi kuzala i-borscht ne-pelmeni.
Yiba nomdla kwizinto ozithandayo. Ukuba uyakubiza ukuba uloba, ke ungavumi. Ukuzonwabisa okuhlangeneyo kusondele kakhulu. Musa ukubeka imimiselo yakho kubantu. Amadoda athambekele ekukhuseleni indawo yabo xa umntu efakazela ingcwele.
Jonga ukubonakala kwakho. Umfazi omhle-ubangela umnqweno womntu kunye nomdla.
Musa ukuba ngumfazi-i-saw. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntu aqaphele ukuba ikhaya lakhe liyinqaba yakhe. Xa ebuyela ekhaya, akafuni ukuphathwa kakubi. Ngokuchasene noko, indoda iya kukhwela kumfazi ukuba ihlala ihlangana naye ngovuyo kunye novuyo.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ukuphazamisa utshintsho okanye ukuphepha ukunyaniseka kubo bonke, bafazi abathandekayo, ziqhenkceze kwaye nimangalise amadoda enu!