Ukukhusela ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili

Nangona iimeko zokukhulelwa kwabantwana abaselula ziye zancipha kwixesha elidlulileyo kwiminyaka elishumi elidlulileyo, lihlala linye yeengxaki eziphambili zoluntu ezineziphumo zesikhathi eside kubamama abakutsha, abantwana babo, intsapho kunye noluntu lonke.

Ukukhulelwa kwentsha kukuyingxaki yoluntu

Izicwangciso eziphumelelayo zokukhusela ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili ziquka iinkqubo zokuphucula uphuhliso loluntu, ukuziphatha ngokuziphatha ngokwesondo, nokuphucula ukululekwa kunye nokunikezelwa kokukhulelwa.

Zininzi zezi zicwangciso ziphunyezwa kwinqanaba leentsapho kunye noluntu.

Ingxoxo ekhuselekileyo, iifilimu kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwabameli beeyeza badlala indima ebalulekileyo kwingxoxo eyimfihlo, ingxoxo ngokuzinza ngokuphathelele ukuzala, ukuziphatha ngokuziphatha ngokwesondo (kuquka ukusetyenziswa kweikhondom, ukusebenzisa i-contraceptive). Le ncoko kufuneka iqale ngaphambi kokuqala komsebenzi wesondo kwaye uqhubeke nokukhula.

Isigqibo sokuthintela ukukhulelwa kwentsha ixhalaba ngabazali kunye noogqirha namhlanje.

Kutheni namhlanje kwiimeko ezininzi zokukhulelwa kwangaphambili? Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zentlalo-qoqosho zokukhulelwa kwamantombazana asetsheni, kwaye enye yezona zinto ezisemgangathweni kukuba abantu abavisayo ngesondo abazicingi ngemiphumo baze baphathe lo mbuzo ngokungenakuqonda. Ubudlelwane besondo buyimbangela yokukhulelwa.

Iintsholongwane kufuneka ziqaphele ngemiphumo yokulala ngesondo, zilawulwe iimpembelelo zazo kwaye zifunde ukuba abantu abancinci bezesondo.

Izicwangciso zokukhusela

Imfundo ingaba esinye sezixhobo eziphambili zokuthintela ukukhulelwa kwentsha. Kwizikolo apho kunikezelwa imfundo yesondo, abanakunceda kuphela abantwana abaselula ukuba baqonde iimpawu zobomi bokuqala besondo, kodwa nemiphumo yazo. Iiprogram ezininzi zibonelela ukuyeka ukulala ngokwesini.

Kwamazwe amaninzi, iinkqubo zokuthintela ziphuhliswa ukwenzela ukunciphisa inani lokukhulelwa kwentsha. Ezi nkqubo zijoliswe ekuphuculeni ukusetyenziswa kokukhulelwa komzimba nokuguqula indlela yokuziphatha yabantwana besikolo ababandakanyeka nokukhulelwa kwentsha. Iinkqubo zoluntu zophuhliso loluntu ezijoliswe kwizakhono zentlalo nezengqondo ziyimfuneko ukuze kuphephe ingozi ephezulu ekuphatheni kwabantu abancinci, njengokuqala kwenkqubo yesondo, ukuziva ukuxhaswa koluntu kunye nokulawulwa ngabazali.

Isithintelo ekuthandeni kwasekuqaleni

Ukuthintela ukukhulumisana kwangaphambili ngesondo kunye nokukhulelwa okungafunekiyo kwaye kufuneka kube ngumzamo odibeneyo, ngokuthatha inxaxheba kwabazali.

Kubalulekile ukukhuthaza ubudlelwane kunye noontanga, ukuhamba kwazo, ukuya kuma-movie nakwiimboniso. Ukubandakanya umntwana wakho kwimidlalo, makumeme iqela labahlobo endlwini yakhe ukuba libukele ibhayisikobho okanye lilalele umculo ukuze angabi yedwa kwithuba elithile.

Ululeko lwezocetywa

Ukukhusela ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili kuncike kakhulu kwizenzo zabaqeqeshi bezempilo abadlala indima ephambili ekusebenziseni ukukhulelwa. Impumelelo malunga nalokhu ingaba nefuthe elibi ekukhulelweni kwe-adolescence: iziganeko zokukhulelwa zingama-85 ekhulwini phakathi kwezibini ezitshatileyo ezinobomi obunempilo yobundlobongela iminyaka engama-1 ngaphandle kokusebenzisa isisu.

Oogqirha bancomela ukuba bonke abantu abatsha bathathe inxaxheba kwiingxoxo ezivulekileyo okanye iingxoxo eziyimfihlo kwizesondo zakuqala. Iingxoxo kufuneka zibandakanye ulwazi olupheleleyo lwezonyango malunga noxanduva lokuziphatha ngokwesondo. Ezi ngxoxo ezicetywayo zifanele ziqhubekele ekutsheni.

Ufikelelo olulula lokukhulelwa komzimba lungadlala indima ephambili ekukhuseleni ukukhulelwa kwentsha. Namhlanje, iinkqubo ezahlukeneyo zindawo zokukhusela ukukhulelwa kwentsha, abameli babo banike iikhondom kubaselula. Izenzo ezinjalo zinceda ukunqanda ukusasazeka kwezifo ezithathelwana ngesondo.