Abaninzi bethu baye bajamelana neqiniso lokuba ihlabathi elijikelezile liqala ukutshintsha ngokuphawulekayo, kwaye sinalo. Umda weTshintsho ngumgca ococekileyo phakathi kobuntwaneni kunye nokudala, xa abazali kunye nabanye bebona ukuba ungumntwana, kwaye sele sele ukhulile ngokwaneleyo ukwenza izigqibo zakho nokwenza ukhetho. Ngenxa yoko zonke iingxaki zobunzima abaselula kunye nokuqonda kwabo kunye nabanye.
Umntwana onzima: Yintoni enokuyenza kubazali
Abazali abaninzi abanakwamkela into yokuba umntwana wabo, owezolo wayefuna uncedo kunye nokunyamekela rhoqo, waba ngumntu omdala kwaye ufuna ukuba aziphathe ngendlela efanayo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba iingxaki ezinobutsha eziselula zibonakala kuphela kwiintsapho ezingasebenzi, oko akunjalo. Ngona kwimeko enhle kwaye enobubele, abantwana bazizwa bengacatshulwa kwaye abayivaleki xa bengabonakali kakuhle.
Nika umntwana ithuba lokwenza izigqibo. Yenza oku kancinci, uzikhandle uxanduva kunye nokuzimela. Musa ukuphatha ngokubanzi zonke iinguqu ebomini bomntwana wakho. Awunakuyithandi umculo ophulaphule umntwana wakho, okanye isimbolo sokugqoka, kodwa kufuneka uhloniphe ukhetho lwakhe, kwaye ngoko ukuziphatha okuvukelayo kuya kuba yinto engadingekile. Unokuvukela njani xa uxhaswa kwaye uqondwa?
Intombazana enzima kunye neempawu zokusebenza kunye naye: ifilimu
Kwiminyaka yenguqu, abantwana banentlonelo, nangona bazama ukuyifihla phantsi kokungabandakanyeki kunye nabantu abadala. Ngelo thuba yonke into iyatshintsha ngokupheleleyo, apho sele ijwayele ukubonakala: ukubonakala, imikhwa, isangqa semibalelo, kuphela isimo sengqondo sabazali asitshintshi. Ubuninzi beengxaki zabantwana abaselula banxulumene nale. Zama ukubonisa ukuba umntwana uyaqonda kwaye uyamkela ngendlela ayenayo. Ncedise ukuba azifumene aze ajamelane ne-hormones ezigubhayo kunye nokuguquka kwemizwelo. Musa ukulibala ukuya esikolweni kwaye ube nomdla kwiinkqubela zakhe zemfundo.
Yenza konke okusemandleni ukuqinisekisa ukuba ekhaya umntwana wakho uzizwa ekhuselekile. Ungaphuthelwa ithuba elincinane lokuthetha naye, ubonise umdla kwizinto ezithandwayo kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa. Amanqaku amaninzi ancedo kunye neziphakamiso ezisebenzayo malunga nendlela yokuziphatha nomntwana onzima, ungayifumana ngokubukela le movie:
Iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo kubazali
Ixesha leemvunguvungu zengqondo lenza umntwana abe nengxaki yokungaqondi kakuhle kunye nokuchaswa. Ngoko ke, xa ubhekene nengxaki yentsholongwane enzima, zama kuqala kokufumana ulwimi olufanayo nomntwana. Sebenzisa ixesha elingakumbi kunye, hamba umoya omtsha. Ukunikezela ukuya kunye kunye ne-cinema, ukuhamba, tyelela isikhungo sokuzonwabisa okanye i-ice rink. Into ephambili kukuba unxibelelwano kunye nemvakalelo emihle. Zama ukufumana oko umntwana wakho akuthandayo, kwaye uqondise onke amandla akhe kwindlela efanelekileyo. Iyakwazi ukudweba, umculo, ukudlala isixhobo somculo, imidlalo.
Ukubandakanyeka kwishishini elithandayo, intombazana ingakwazi ukuphumla nokufumana ukukhulelwa komoya. Bonisa umonde omkhulu kunye noxinezelo, kwaye eli xesha liza kudlulela ubuncinane kumntu wonke.
Ingxaki yabaselula iyabethusa abazali abaninzi, kwaye, bezama ukunceda, benza okubi kakhulu. Zama ukuphulaphula umntwana wakho kwaye umnike ithuba lokukhula, wenze iimpazamo zokuqala kwaye ufunde kuzo.
