Ixesha lifikile? Iingxabano malunga nokuba uqale ukufundisa umntwana ebhodweni, ungayeki. Abanye babhekisela kumava oomama kunye nogogo abakholelwa ukuba umntwana kufuneka afundiswe kwizakhono zokucoceka ukususela ngexesha afunda ukuhlala, oko kukuthi, ukususela kwiinyanga ezintandathu. Abanye bayeka ukufumana ibhokhwe kude kube ngumntwana oneminyaka elilodwa, abanye bangabi nantoni na yonke kwaye balinde iminyaka engama-2-3 xa umntwana eyazi ngakumbi. Nanini na xa usenza isigqibo sokuqalisa inkqubo yokufunda eyinkimbinkimbi, into ephambili ekufuneka uyigcine engqondweni kukuba abantwana baqala ukucela ibhokhwe xa bevuthiwe ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Le nkqubo yendalo ayinakuphazamiseka okanye ngokunyaniseka, okanye ngokunyanisekileyo. Ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi, umntwana akasekho sikhundla sokulawula ukukhutshwa kwakhe: ukunyuka kwakhe komzimba kwenzeka ngokucatshulwa, njengokuba isisu kunye nesisu siyazaliswa. Kule nqanaba, umntwana angakwazi "ukubamba" kuphela - umzekelo, amathuba okuphakama ukuba umntwana, evuke ebuthongweni, uya kufuna "ngendlela encinci" - nje ngeli xesha kwaye unako ukumnika ibhodlo. Ukuze wenze isimo sengqondo kwisimo sazela sazo, kuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana enze iintambo ze-neural ezinikezela ukuhanjiswa kwe "signal" kwisisu kunye nengqondo emathunjini, kwaye ngenxa yoko umntwana kufuneka akhule kancane. Izakhono zokucoceka ziqala ukwakha kumntwana kwixesha elivela kwiinyanga ezili-12 ukuya kwezi-18: ngelo xesha iimbumba ze-anus kunye ne-sphincter ye-bladder ziqina, kwaye ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yomntwana kufinyelele kwizinga elithile. Gcwalisa ulawulo lwe-bladder kunye ne-musculature ye-rectum enokwenzeka malunga neminyaka emithathu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umntwana uqala ukulawula ulawulo lwamathumbu ebusuku, ngoko-emini, ngoko-ulawulo lwe-bladder emini, kwaye ekugqibeleni - ebusuku. Kwamanye abantwana, i-bedwetting ihlala ifikelela kwiminyaka engama-4-5-kwaye oku kuqhelekileyo kwaye kuyaqhelekile. Kuyathakazelisa ukuba amantombazana aqala ukucela ibhodwe malunga neenyanga ezi-2-3 ngaphambili kweemakhwenkwe.
Amantombazana aphuma emlonyeni wesini kunye nakweminye imbeko: njengomthetho, bafunda ukuhlala ngaphambili kwaye benze ngakumbi ukuqonda ukunyakaza ngokucokisekileyo. Baphuculwe ngcono ukulungelelaniswa kwemibono kunye nezakhono zezithuthi. Iingcali zenzululwazi zibonisa ukuba oku kubangelwa kukuba i-hemispheres engasekhohlo kunye neyekunene kwengqondo kumantombazana kunye nabafana bayakhula ngokuhlukileyo.
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Ukuqala ukufundela umntwana ebhodweni akuyona inkqubo elula, efuna ukuba abazali banike ingqalelo kunye nomonde omkhulu. Musa ukulandela iziphumo ezikhawulezileyo, ungalindelanga ukuba umntwana uya kuqonda inzululwazi "yobumbanyo" kwisayensi kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, into ephambili kukuba uya kuba nesimo sengqondo esifanele kule nkqubo. Okokuqala, faka umntwana ebhodweni, uchaze ukuba kutheni. Nika umntwana ukuba achukumise into entsha enomdla, nikela ukuhlala kuso. Unako "ukulahlekelwa" imeko kwiidonki, iityshini ezithambileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana aqonde injongo enobumba. Ukuze umntwana akhule isigqi esithile, yitshale ebhodweni ngaphambi nangemva kokutya, ngaphambi nangemva kokulala komhla, ngaphambi kobusuku ubuthongo kwaye emva kokuvuswa (kwaye yonke imihla kufuneka ibe malunga nexesha elifanayo). Ukuba umntwana uye wafuna "ubusuku busika", qiniseka ukuba umdumise ngenxa yalo, uthi yena ungumntu omhle. Kodwa ukuba akukho niphumo, shiya ukuba uhlale ebhodweni ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-10 akufanele ukuba. Ungalokothi usebenzise kakubi imbuzi ngenxa yokuphosa, mhlawumbi uya kuhlakulela isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwinkqubo yokuhamba kwendalo. Umntwana, evakalelwa kukuba ufuna ukukhululeka, unokuqala ukufihla kuwe, ezama ukufihla imicimbi yakhe ngasese, okanye uya kuzama ukuzibamba ngamabomu isitulo, oku kungakhokelela ekuqotheni. Zama ukuhlala unengqiqo kwaye unengxaki kule miba kwaye ungagqibi ixesha - emva kwayo yonke into, umntwana akanakulungeleka ukuhamba ngeebhulukhwe ezingcolileyo. Ukuvusa umntwana ebusuku ukuze umnike ukuba ahlale ebhodweni akuyimfuneko: mhlawumbi, umntwana uya kuba novuyo kakhulu, kwaye ngaphezu koko, mhlawumbi angalala. Ngethuba umntwana esabhalwa ebusuku, ungambeka ekulaleni kwi-diapers ezilahlayo okanye ubeke iphepha elingenakunqanda ebhedini. Zama ukugcina umkhondo walezo zihlandlo xa umntwana "uza kwenza isivumelwano": ngokuqhelekileyo ngaphambi kokuhamba kweemfuno zemvelo umntwana uyayeka ukudlala, uhlala ethule, uya kugxininiswa - ngeli xesha kwaye kufuneka umlethe ibhokhwe. Emva kwexesha, umntwana uya kuqala ukuxelela ukuba ulungelele umcimbi obalulekileyo. Enyanisweni, oku kufuna ukuba umntwana sele sele uqalile ukuthetha intetho. Mhlawumbi uza kuza ngamagama athile kule nkqubo. Ukususela ekuqaleni kokufunda ucoceko, i-pot kufuneka ihlale ihleli egumbini lebhokhwe, kubonakala, ukuze umntwana ngokwakhe azame ukuhlala kuye, ethathe iipasties zakhe, okanye akulethe ibhodlo aze akucele ukuba uncede.
Ngaloo nto, xa kungcono ukufundela umntwana ebhodweni, iingcali zinobumbano. Ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuziqhelanisa nebhotile ihlobo. Ekubeni iingubo ezithatha umntwana zihlala zincinci, unokuziphatha ngokulula. Yaye ukuba umntwana aze atyeke i-panties, ahlambuluke aze aomiswe elangeni. Ngethuba lexesha loqeqesho kukulungele ukuyeka ukusebenzisa i-diapers ezilahlayo. Xa umntwana esoloko ehlala e-diapers, akanalo isimo sengqondo emva kokuchama, oku kuthetha ukuba akukho mnqweno wokukrazula le meko. Enye into - i-panties emanzi: ukuhamba kuzo akubi kakhulu, kwaye oku kukukhuthaza ukuba uqale ukusebenzisa ibhodwe.
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Ngethamsanqa, amaxesha apho abantwana bebenokukwazi ukufumana ipopu ebandayo ebomvu, baye baba yinto yangaphambili. Ngoku inkqubo iyanelisekile kuzo zonke iindawo: iiplastiki ezingenasiphelo kuphela, zifudumala, zilula, kodwa zintle. Ezinye zazo zenziwe ngeendlela zokudlala - izinja, iidada, imishini, njl. Imizuzu embalwa esetyenzisiweyo kule nkomo ayiyi kushiya nantoni na into engathandekiyo. Abanye abazali, bezama ukunika abantwana babo izinto ezilungileyo, bathenge izimbiza kunye ne-squeaks, izibane ezikhanyayo, umculo. Nangona kunjalo, akuyimfuneko ukuba uthande umdla kule nto: umntwana makangayikhohlwa yintoni injongo ephambili yokuhlala kulo mbandela. Imodeli efanelekileyo kakhulu yebhokhwe yabafana - ene-front inflated: ngebhodi elinjalo lingenakunokwenzeka ukuba i-spray yenzeke ngephene. Phantse iminyaka emibini, unokufundisa inkwenkwe ukuba ibhale ebhodweni elimi. Xa umntwana wakho ungumhlobo kunye nebhodi, iya kuba yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kumntwana. Ngoko ke, ukuya kwikotishi, ekutyeleleni, uhambo, ungalibali ukuba kufuneka kuthathwe. Le nto ingaba yindlela "yendlela" encinci, elula kunye nelula (kubhetele ukuzisa umntwana kwisitsha esitsha kusengaphambili, kuba abanye abantwana, sele beye basebenzisa i-pot yabo, ngamanye amaxesha bayenqaba ukusebenzisa into abangaziyo). Ukusuka ebhodweni unokuhamba ngokuthe ngcembe kwindlu yangasese. Ukuququzelela le nkqubo, unokuthenga isihlalo somntwana esikhethekileyo kwindlu yangasese: kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi kumntwana. Ukongeza, ungathenga inyawo elincinci kwisitoreji sezinto zabantwana, ukuze umntwana angayisebenzisa ukunyuka indlu yangasese aze afake imilenze kuyo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuba ufundise umntwana izakhono zokucoceka, kungekudala okanye kamva uya kuqonda le nzu lulwazi, kubaluleke kakhulu - yiba nesineke uze uphathe imeko ngokuzinzileyo. Musa ukuthelekisa umntwana wakho kunye nabanye abantwana, ungagxininisi kummelwane waseVasya - ngamnye umntwana ukhula ngesiqu sakhe. Yaye ungakhathazeki ukuba inkqubo yomntwana yakho iphuze. Konke ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
UKUPHUHLISWA KWEZAKHONO NGONYANGA
Ikhono lokulawula i-vestile kubantwana ukusuka ekuzalweni ukuya kwi-4 ubudala lilinganayo. Indlela kwaye xa kulunge ukuqala ukufundisa umntwana ebhodweni ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zakhe, kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yobudala.
0-18. Kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi, umntwana unxweme ukuya kumaxesha angama-25 ngosuku. Oku kwenzeka ngokungazi kakuhle - ngelixa umva wesalathisi wesibindi. Kuthe malunga neenyanga ezintandathu ubudala umntwana usuqala ukuvuthwa ngokukhawuleza kangako (malunga namaxesha angama-20). Oku kuyimpawu yokuba iindlela zomntwana ze-neural ziqhubeka zikhula, izihlunu ze-bladder ziyeke ukumbambisana rhoqo kwaye ngoku zikwazi ukugcina umchamo.
18-30 iinyanga. Ingane encinci ikhula ingcamango yokuzaliswa kwesisu kunye nomvakalelo wokukhupha. Ngoku umntwana unokukwazi ukudibanisa izibonakaliso zomzimba wakhe ngokuzaliswa kwesantya-phambi kokuba engakwazi ukukwazi ukuzenza. Abantwana abaninzi banokulawula i-sphincter ye-bladder ekuqaleni komnyaka wesibini wobomi, kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi kuphela ngonyaka wesithathu. Emva koko bavakalelwa ukuba bavine ngaphambi kokuba i-bladder igcwale.
Ukususela kunyaka wesine wobomi, abaninzi abantwana banokulibazisa ukuthunyelwa kwemfuno encinci kwithuba elide, nangona baziva benqwenela ukuvota. Baye bakwazi ukukhawuleza "xa kunjalo", kunye nokuzaliswa kancinci kwesilwanyana. Into ephambili kukuba ayiba ngumkhwa.