Wonke umntwana ngumntu, yingakho wonke umntu ekhula ngokubhekiselele kwimephu yophuhliso lomntu ngamnye. Futhi musa ukuthelekisa umntwana kunye nabanye abantwana kwaye usizizele ukuba umntwana akanalo into ekuphuhliseni kwaye ahlasele emva koontanga. Hamba, uthetha, uya kufunda ngexesha, kwaye ngexesha li nofana kwiinyanga ezithoba, kwaye kwi-15. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba umntwana engazange aye kunyaka kunye nesiqingatha, akukho sizathu sokwesaba kunye nokukhathazeka, konke kusemgangathweni ovumelekileyo.
Imephu yophuhliso
Uphuhliso lomzimba
Umntwana ukwandisa ubunzima bakhe kule nyanga ngokomyinge wama-400-450 amagremu, ukukhula kukunyuka ngama-1.5-2 cm. Ubude obude bomzimba kwiinyanga ezilishumi bubungama-72-73 cm.
Uphuhliso lobuchule
Ingane kule minyaka ingabonisa ukuphumelela oku kulandela ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo:
- Iyakwazi "ukuxelisa abanye" inkqubo yokucoca "amazinyo" kunye ne-toothbrush.
- Umntwana unokuphinda ulandelelanisa umtya weesilawuli ezilula ngokulandelelana, njengokungathi uphendule umbuzo owenziwe.
- Ingane iyayiqonda kwaye igcwalise izicelo ezilula.
- Ingane "yakha" iipramramid, ii cubes, ii cubes kunye namasongo.
- Uvula izigulana (izimbiza kunye neebhokisi) kwaye uhlola iziqulatho zazo.
Ukuphuhliswa komqhubi wemoto yomntwana
- Umntwana uzinyame.
- Sekuqaleni kwinyanga yeshumi yentuthuko, unokubona ukuba yiyiphi inxaxheba kumdlalo inkokheli: ekunene okanye ngakwesobunxele (ngoko ke ngoku ngoku, "umniki-lungelo" okanye "umzantsi" ngumntwana).
- Ingane iphumelele ngokubamba izinto ezimbini kwiphatha elilodwa.
- Umntwana uhamba nenkxaso enye okanye zombini.
- Unako ukuphuma e-stool uze uhambe naye.
- I-Kid ihlala kwindawo yokuma.
Uphuhliso loluntu lomntwana kwinyanga yeshumi yobomi
- Umntwana kule minyaka sele edlala ithoyiyithandayo, ekhethayo. Ngoku unako ukulala naye. Ngokuqhelekileyo umdlalo onjalo unceda umntwana ukuba alele xa umama ngesizathu esithile asinakukufuphi.
- Ukuhlamba kunika umonwabo omkhulu kumntana: umntwana usasazeka, udlalwa ngamanzi, uthanda ukugibela ngamathoyizi.
- Umntwana ufanisa izandi, ubuso babantu abadala, ukuhleka okanye ukukhwehlela.
- I-Kid iyamoyika indawo engaqhelekanga kwaye iphendula ngokuqaphela abantu abangaziwa. Ekubeni bezinye iintlanga, unokuba neentloni kwaye emva kwexesha elithile, xa esetyenziswe kuyo, unokuqala ukuziphatha ngendlela eqhelekileyo.
- Umntwana uqala ukubeka ingqalelo kwiintlukwano zesini phakathi kwabahlobo kumdlalo.
Umsebenzi weMoto
Ngenyanga yeshumi, kukho ukungafani okubalulekileyo ekuthuthukiseni imoto yabantwana: ezinye iintsana zihamba kakuhle, kanti ezinye zivele nje zikhawuleze okanye zifunde nje. Oko kukuthi, yonke into iyodwa. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, bonke abantwana banomsebenzi ofanayo: ukuhlola okusebenzayo kwendawo ejikelezileyo. Abantwana abanomdla omkhulu kunye nokuzonwabisa bafumana izinto ezinomdla, baphumelele ngokugqithisela izithintelo ezahlukahlukeneyo baze bazame ukunyuka kwisitulo okanye izitebhisi, ukuba ngaba kunjalo.
Ingane kule minyaka ihlala phantsi kwaye ijika kwindawo ehleli kuyo yonke indawo. Ukusuka kwindawo "yokulala" umntwana uhamba ngokugqibeleleyo kwindawo ehleli kuyo, kwaye ngaphandle kweengxaki zijika kumdlalo wokudlala okanye umntu omdala, onomdla wakhe.
Umgqugquzeli omncinci usenako ukugcina ukulinganisela kwakhe xa emi emilenzeni yakhe, uhlala exhomekeke ekupheleni kwebala, ubhedu okanye itafile encinane. Inkwenkwe iphumelela ngokuxhaphaza izandla, iya kuba yinto enobungcali. Intombazana encinane yesikolo iphumelele kwaye inyembezi enkulu ihlazi lephepha.
Ngamanye abantwana ngabanye, ngendlela yakhe ilungisa inkqubo yokuhamba. Ezinye iintsana zikhwela kwifenitshala, zikhwela kuyo, zibambe, iphinde zibuyele kwinkqubo yokukhwela. Abanye ukusuka kwintlangano "kwindlela yeplastiki" ngokukhawuleza baya kwinkqubo yokuhamba. Kanti abanye bahamba ngesicwangciso esipheleleyo sokulungiselela ukuhamba: ukukhwela, "ukugquma," ukuhamba ngenkxaso, kwaye sele sele uhamba ngokuzimela ngokuzimela.
Intetho yomntwana oneminyaka elishumi ubudala
Usana luqala ukuthetha, ukudibanisa isenzo ngamagama akhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, isigama sesana sisencinane kakhulu, ngamazwi angama-5-6 kuphela, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo angabiza uyise nomama umama. Umntwana uyazi kakuhle oko uthethayo, ngoko mbiza zonke izinto ngamagama abo afanelekileyo, ukuphucula nokuphucula isigama somntwana. Abanye abantwana bathetha ngokupheleleyo nangemva kweminyaka emibini, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba umntwana uyazi amagama ambalwa okanye akanakukuqonda. Ngokulula, "uyilungiselela" inkqubo yokunxibelelana kwaye uyakwazi ukuqala intetho yakhe, kunye neziphakamiso ezincinci. Ngoko ke, musa ukukhawuleza izinto, yonke into inexesha layo.
Yintoni enokuyenza ngayo umntwana
Ngenyanga yeshumi ekuphuhlisweni kwentsana, sinokuyincinci kwaye sicebise okokusetyenzwa kwemisebenzi kunye nokuzivocavoca, okuya kunceda umntwana ukuba athuthukise izakhono ezintsha kunye nobuchule. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana udlalwa kungekhona kuphela ngumama, kodwa kunye nopapa. Imfesane yakho efanayo iya kunceda ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezahlukeneyo zeziqhekeza. Kule minyaka, imidlalo iya kuba nenjongo ngakumbi, umntwana unokubeka imisebenzi eyahlukileyo. Umntwana sele sele eqonda kakhulu, unokuzalisekisa izicelo ezahlukeneyo. Unika ithoyizi, ubeka ithoyizi etafileni, ukhonkxa aze amanga unina, ahlasele, njl njl. Thetha nomntwana, umdumise kungekudala kuphela, kodwa kwimpumelelo encinane. Oku kuya kuvuselela imvumba kwiimpumelelo ezintsha. Ingane imele iyakwamukelwa kunye nenkxaso yakho.
Imisebenzi kunye nemidlalo yokuphuhliswa komntwana
- Fundisa umntwana kumxholo wobungakanani. Ukwenza oku, mbonise iiglasi ezimbini uze ubeke enye kwenye.
- Ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi, sebenzisa iingubo zokugqoka iimpahla zokudlala. Bafakela kwiphepha uze ubonise umntwana ukuba i-dressspins ingasuswa njani.
- Dlala umdlalo: umatshini uhamba entabeni. I-Gorku inokwenziwa kwinqwenga yeplywood, emele ifakwe kwi-edge of chair.
- Funda incwadi yebhoyi kwimifanekiso, bonisa imifanekiso uze utshele ngubani okanye into eboniswe kuyo.
- Ukuphuhlisa ukulungelelaniswa kwezinto zokuhamba kunye nezixhobo zokugcina umntwana. Ukwenza oku, umncedisi ontle uya kuba ngumdlalo webhola yebhola, i-swing yabantwana okanye i-hammock (leyo ingayifakela ngempumelelo ingubo yomntwana).
- Thenga idrama yengane kwaye ubonise indlela yokugubungela kuyo.
- Fihla ngaphantsi kwengubo okanye phantsi kwebhokisi ekhala iwashi le-alamu okanye umsakazo. Cela umntwana ukuba athole into efihliweyo. Ukuphulaphula isandi, umntwana uza kuzama ukufumana into efihliweyo .