Ngaba uya esikolweni ngokuzonwabisa okanye ngekratshi? Ulwalamano lwakhe nootitshala kunye noontanga bakhe baya kuphuhlisa njani? Kwaye ngokubanzi, abantwana kufanele bahlale bekulungele njani kwiklasi yokuqala? Imibuzo eninzi malunga nolawulo lwemihla, ubudlelwane esikolweni, ukutya okunomsoco ...
Yintoni abantwana abanokuyenza xa beya kwibanga lokuqala? Ngalo mbuzo abazali bajika kubafundisi, nakwaotitshala bezontanga, baze bafike "kubazali abanolwazi". Kuze kube yiminyaka, kukho iimvavanyo ezininzi ukufumana ukulungelelwa kweso sifundo esikolweni lokuqala. Umntwana kufuneka alungiselele ngengqondo, entlalweni kunye nangokomzwelo.
Ukulungelelwa kweengqondo kubonisa izinga lokwazi ngomntwana osenkulanga malunga nehlabathi elijikelezile, malunga neemeko zendalo, ukukwazi ukwakha ubudlelwane obangela umphumo, ukukwazi ukwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo. Kwakhona isakhono sokuqoqa izinto ngamaqela ngokwemiqathango ethile. Unokuqhuba ukuvavanya kwixesha elizayo lokubamba imemori kunye nezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi. Umzekelo: xa udweba umzobo obunzima, umntwana kufuneka abambe ipencil ngokufanelekileyo, athathe imigca ecacileyo kwaye wenze udibaniso oluchanekileyo. Ngokuhlolisisa imemori, ibali elifutshane lifundwayo, okufuneka umntwana abuyele ngokuthe ngqo kumbhalo. Kwakhona ubonise amakhadi amaninzi kunye nomfanekiso wezinto. Konke kulungile, ukuba isiqingatha okanye zonke izinto ezibonisiweyo zithiwa. Ukongeza, umntwana kufuneka azi i-alfabhethi aze akwazi ukubala ukuya kwikhulu. Kodwa ukukwazi ukufunda kwixesha elizayo liza kuhlolwa.
Ewe, ukuba umntwana uya kolunye uhlobo lweziko lemfundo, njenge-collegium, i-gymnasium okanye i-lyceum, kuya kufuneka adlulise uvavanyo olunzulu olongezelelweyo nolwazi. Ungangena kwiziko elinjalo lemfundo kuphela ngokukhuphisana, ngokusekelwe kwimiphumo yodliwano-ndlebe.
Kwi-intanethi, kukho omnye wabazali, kunye nekhomishini eququzelelwe ngutitshala omdala weklasi, ogqirha wezonyango kunye nengcali yeengqondo eziqulunqa indlela umntwana kufuneka alungele ngayo iklasi yokuqala. Bavavanya amandla omntwana ukuba afunde, abhale, abale, umgangatho wolwazi lweelwimi lwangaphandle, kunye nokujonga indlela imemori yokuhlola kunye nebonwayo eyenziwa ngayo, ingaba umntwana uyayilumkisa, ingaba unako ukugxila kwinto enye njalo njalo. Emva kwengxoxo, kuqukunjelwa ukuba ngaba umntwana unomsebenzi wokufunda kwiziko elinjalo nokuba ngaba ulungele umthwalo, oquka inkqubo yeziko lemfundo.
Emotionally umntwana ulungele isikolo, xa akwazi ukwenza umsebenzi ongekho ngaso sonke umdla kuye, xa engenza buthathaka. Ukulungela uluntu kubonakala xa umntwana ekwazi ukuthetha kunye noontanga, uyakwazi ukuphulaphula nokufezekisa iimfuno zotitshala, unokulungisa indlela aziphathe ngayo, azivumelanise nemithetho yeqela lezingane.
Ewe, umntu omncinci, ehamba endleleni yokuphila ebomini, kufuneka azimele. Lo ngumgangatho okhula kumntwana ixesha elide ngaphambi kokungena esikolweni. Ukutya ngokuzimeleyo, ukugqoka, iqhosha leenqanda, ukuqokelela iimpahla zesikolo kwiphothifoliyo, umntwana kufuneka. Ukuba ubuya esikolweni, umgcini-kuqala uya kudla isidlo sasemini wedwa, ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba umfundise ukusebenzisa izixhobo zendlu ukuze akwazi ukufudumala okanye ukupheka ukutya okulula.
Ungalibali ngokukhuseleko komntwana wakho. Umele azi igama lakhe, igama lokuqala kunye nomntu onobumba, ukwazi igama labazali bakhe, apho kunye nabo abasebenza nabo, kufuneka bakwazi ukudibanisa nabo ngefowuni nganoma naliphi ixesha. Yazi indlela eya esikolweni, inani lezothutho, ukuba kufuneka ufike esikolweni ngokwakho. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi imithetho yokhuseleko - ungalokothi uxoxe kwaye ungahambi naphi nawabantu abangaziwayo, uhamba ngeenxa zonke ezinqamlekileyo kunye nempahla.
Ukongeza, ngaphambi kokuba uthumele umntwana kwibanga lokuqala, kufuneka uyibonise oogqirha. Umntwana kufuneka abe nekhadi lokugonya, elibandakanya ukugonywa kwamagciwane, i-rubella, i-diphtheria, i-hepatitis, i-tetanus, i-mumps kunye ne-poliomyelitis. Kubalulekile ukuba uhlolisiswe kwiingcali ezincinci: ENT, i-neurologist, i-oculist, wamazinyo kunye neengcali zokuthetha. Ngokusekelwe kwiziphumo zoviwo, umgqirha wenza isigqibo kwaye uveza isatifikethi sokwakheka komzimba wexesha elizayo lomgcini-mhlaba. Iimpawu ezintsha zakutshanje zokubhalwa kwee-first-graders zihamba ngolu vavanyo lukaRuthier, oluvumela ukuba uhlolisise umsebenzi wentliziyo ngexesha lokuzivocavoca. Kuqulethwe kule ilandelayo, ngaphakathi kwemizuzwana engu-15 ukuphambuka kwe-pulse, emva kokuba umntwana sele ethule iminyaka emi-5. Emva koko, ngomzuzu omnye, isihloko sifanele senze ama-sit-ups angama-30, i-pulse ibalwa ngexesha lokuqala kunye neyokugqibela imizuzwana yesibini yomsebenzi. Okulandelayo, ifomula ekhethekileyo ibalwa inkcazo yomsebenzi wenhliziyo (PSD), evumela ukuba ugqibe iqela lomzimba, kunye nomthwalo ovumelekileyo kwiiklasi zokufunda ngokomzimba.
Ukongezelela kubantwana, abazali kufuneka balungele iklasi yokuqala. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba umntwana uyatshintsha, ufumane iimfuno ezintsha, ukwazi abantu abatsha abanombono obalulekile kuye. Akuyimfuneko ukunyanisekisa iimfuno zothisha okanye umfundi ozayo. Abazali mabaxelele umntwana ukuba utitshala uyigunya elihlonishwayo. Emva koko, kuphela xa abazali nabafundisi besebenza nomntwana ngendlela efanayo, balungisa ulwazi olufunyenwe esikolweni, sinokuthetha ngomgangatho wemfundo yabantwana.
Ngomnqweno wokunceda i-future-grader ukuba ivumelane neemeko ezintsha, abazali bahlala bezisebenzisa kwizifundo ezahlukeneyo, izikolo, iiklabhu, zisebenzisa iinkonzo zabaqeqeshi, bhala ingxelo kumntwana kuzo zonke iindidi ezikhoyo. Ngamanye amaxesha umthwalo ongenangqiqo kubantwana, ukulungele ukuzonda uqeqesho, kungabi ngabafundi besikolo. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha umntwana uza kwiklasi yokuqala emva kokulungiselela imisebenzi kunye nolwazi lwakhe lugqithise umgangatho wolwazi lwabafundi. Oku kukhokelela ekubeni uyanyanzeliswa ukuba adlulise izinto eziziwayo, uyaba ngumsindo kwaye akanakunqwenela esikolweni. Umthetho omdala "ulawulo olubhekiselele kwigolide" luthetha ukunceda abazali ukuba bacebise ukulungiselela abantwana babo. Emva koko, into ephambili kukuba ukuza esikolweni esikolweni, umntwana ufumana iimvakalelo ezintle kunye nabahlobo abatsha ngokungaphezulu kolwazi olutsha.