Ngenye indlela kuthiwa ngumthetho wentsingiselo


Lo mthetho wentsingiselo, esiyifumana rhoqo kubonakaliswa kuyo yonke indawo, kungekhona kuphela ubudlelwane. Udibana nantoni na apho sifuna ukuba yonke into ilungele, yonke into iyahamba kakuhle, xa kukho into ebalulekileyo kuthi, kwaye sicinga ukuba ubuncinane kuya kusebenza, sithandaza kuThixo, kwaye akayi kuphuma, kwaye ngokukhawuleza sicinga ukuba lo ngumthetho wokunyaniseka okanye, kutheni Ngaba ndiyingozi kangaka? Uhluke njani umyalelo wobuthathaka ? Umthetho wentsingiselo, ngumthetho wenhlanhla, ngumthetho kaMurphy, ngumthetho we-sandwich. Omnye wabahlobo bam wathi kufuneka uphathe yonke into "ngesandla esilula." Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo akunakwenzeka, xa kukho into ebalulekileyo kuwe, akunakwenzeka ukuba udibanise lula nalo. Ngokomzekelo, ngexesha loviwo awucingi: "Andiyi kunika namhlanje, ndiya kulihlawula elinye ixesha." Okanye bahamba nodliwano-ndlebe, indawo enhle enemivuzo emihle kunye nethemba elihle elizayo kwaye andicinga ukuba uya kucinga: "abayi kuhamba nam apha, ndiza kuhlala kwenye indawo". Kuya kubaluleka kuwe nayiphi na imeko.

Yaye yintoni umthetho wobubele? Uvela phi, kwaye ngubani owawuqulunqa? I-Furrow ubukhulu be-Intanethi, iphosa zonke iindawo eziza kum amehlo, andizange ndifumane impendulo kumbuzo wam. Ezi ziza zabuza umbuzo ofanayo ndizibuza yona ngoku. Ndabona imbali, indlela lo myalelo waba ngayo, owawuqulunqa, ukuba lo myalelo wangena njani ebomini. Kodwa andiyifumananga impendulo kumbuzo wam, luhlobo luni lwamandla oludonsa ukwesaba kwethu, kutheni ukuba okungafunekiyo kwenzeke ngexesha elingathandekiyo? Xa ukhawuleza ukudibana nendoda yamaphupha akho, xa uzisa ubuhle, kwaye xa ushiya indlu, amajuba ahamba phezu kwakho kwaye anelisekile iimfuno zomzimba wakho endleleni, kwaye ke oku kuyanelisa kubonakala kwi-blouse yakho entsha. , ngumthetho wenhlanhla embi. Ngoko kutheni amajuba aphanga ngaphezu kwakho namhlanje? Kwaye kutheni bafuna ukulungisa iimfuno zabo ngaloo mzuzu? Nsuku zonke uphuma endlwini, yonke imihla uya kwenye indawo, kodwa ingabalulekanga kunene kule ntla nganiso.

Ihlabathi linomdla kakhulu. Kukho iingcamango ezahlukeneyo malunga nesakhiwo sendalo kunye ne-cosmos, apho kuthiwa i-cosmos idonsa yonke iminqweno kunye nosongelo. Kule meko, uloyiko, ukhathazeke, ukuba yonke into yayihamba kakuhle. Oko kukuthi, uqondisa ukwesaba kwakho kwindawo, kwaye i-cosmos iyenzeka ngendlela yeenkumbi, okanye iglasi eguqwayo yewayini kwisitya sakho esitsha kwindawo yokutyela ebiza ngexabiso. Emva koko, isikhala asikwazi ukwahlula okuhle kwizinto ezimbi, kwaye asiyiqondi amahlaya, ngoko kufuneka ucinge ngezinto ezintle. Kakade, konke oku kuxho mekeke kwinqanaba elifunwayo kwaye alifunanga. Oko kukuthi, uninzi kangakanani ufuna okanye awufuni ukuba le meko ivele kuwe.

Kodwa ungathini ukucinga ngezinto ezimbi? Emva kwakho konke, ngokuzikhethela usacinga ngento engalunganga, kwaye ngoko, uqaphela ukuba wenza oku, uyasusa le ngcamango ephosakeleyo kwikhanda lakho eliqaqambileyo. Mhlawumbi kukho isidingo sokwenza imfundo yabo kunye nekhaya lokungacingi ngento embi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba ngumntu onomdla kwiikhulu ezili-50 ukuya kwekhulu.

Yinto enye into, xa umntu ekuqaleni ebhekisela kuyo yonke into "ngesandla esilula." Mhlawumbi, kuxhomekeka kwimfundo, ngokwembono, kwisimo sengqondo somntu ebomini. Kodwa apha imfundo yokuqala ivela kwiminyaka encinci okanye ivela ebusheni, xa iimbono zethu ziguquka kwaye ezinye zazo zihlala nathi kuze kube sekupheleni kobomi. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, isiseko sakhiwe "kuyo yonke into evela ekukhanyeni". Konke oku kuvela kubudlelwane obubi phakathi komntu kunye nehlabathi elikujikelezile. Konke oku kwenzeka ngokungaqhelekanga, oko kukuthi, indoda encinane yenza izigqibo ezichanekileyo ngombono wayo kwaye iqala ukunamathela kuzo. Kwaye ke, abazali abadala abakhathazekile kwiingxaki zabantu abadala, abaqapheli iingxaki ezincinci zabo ezincinci, kwaye ke ezi ngxaki ezincinane ziba yingxaki yabantu abadala nabancinci.

Kukho, ngokwenene, iinkalo ezintle kule nto. Ngomlinganiselo othile, umntu uqala ukuphatha yonke into "ngesandla esilula". Kodwa ndicinga ukuba, nokuba yintoni umntu, akunakwenzeka ukuba aphathe yonke into ngesandla esilula, kuya kuqwalaselwa njengento ethile yesifo sengqondo esidinga ingqwalaselo kunye nokunyango okukhawulezayo.

Kodwa mhlawumbi silungisa yonke into? Kuthiwani ukuba le ndoda ayilungile njengoko sicinga? Sibheka yonke into ngokusebenzisa "iiglasi ezikhanyayo" kwaye sizikhuthaze ukuba le nto iyona nto ingcono, kwaye xa sitshisa, oko kukuthi, umthetho weentlanzi uphazamisa ubomi bethu obubonakala buhle, sibonakala sinobuhle obuhle, sisusa iilazi ezibomvu kwaye siqala ukubeka ityala kuMurphy bonke. Kwaye kamva siyaqala ukuqonda ukuba oku akuyona nto engcono kakhulu. Kwaye siqala ukujonga ngenyameko nokuvavanya ihlabathi kunye nento yonke ejikeleze. Mhlawumbi umthetho weentlanzi ulungile kithi? Awuyikuvumela ukuba senze loo mpazamo esiyayenzayo, sijonge ngeiglasi ezikhanyayo. Kwaye mhlawumbi kubalulekile ukubonga ngenxa yamahobe ngenxa yokuba, ehamba phezu kwenu, banelisekile iimfuno zabo zangokwenyama, ngelixa ugijimela kumhla kunye nomntu ophezulu okanye udliwano-ndlebe kumsebenzi ophezulu.

Khangela ihlabathi ngokuqinisekileyo kwaye uhlalutye yonke into ngokucokisekileyo, kwaye ke awuyi kupheliswa yinto nawuphi na umthetho wobuthathaka.