Indlela yokuziphatha emva komtshato?

Abaninzi babefanele bafumane umzuzu onzima ebomini babo njengokuqhawula umtshato.

Emva kokuba iqabane lakho lenze isigqibo sokushiya intsapho, emva kokuba ufumene ulwalamano kwaye ufumanisa ukuba akukho nto yokubuya. Iingcamango ezivakalayo zinyuka entloko yam: yintoni elandelayo? Yintoni e ndilindele kwixesha elizayo kwaye ndiya kuhlala njani ngaphandle kwayo? Nendlela yokuziphatha emva komtshato?

Unxhalaba kakhulu ngokuqhawula umtshato, ubiza umhlobo wakho, ukhononda ngobomi, ukhale njalo, ukhangele ukungaphumeleli kwakho kwaye ucinga ukuba ubomi obonwabileyo abukho kuwe.

Ngaba uyazi indlela yokuziphatha emva komtshato? Inqaku lethu linikezelwa kuloo mbandela. Siza kuzama ukukunceda kule nkinga enzima yobomi bakho kwaye uqale ukuhlala ngokutsha.

Ukuqala, ukukhulula zonke iimvakalelo eziqokelelweyo-intambo, ukubetha izitya, uklebhule zonke izinto zakhe uze uqhekeze iifoto. Ukutshatyalaliswa kokuqhawula isahlulo - kuyinto engokwemvelo.

Ukongezelela, xa iinyembezi zokugqibela ziza kumisa, phendula lo mbuzo: njani wazifumana entlokweni owashiywa ngayo kwaye ubomi buphela kule nto? Yiya kwisibuko uze ujonge intombazana eboniswa kuyo. Uyabona ntoni? Uyabona ukuba intombazana enhle neyobuqili owaziyo ukuzonwabisa ubomi, okhala ngaphezu kweefilimu ezibukrazayo, uthanda izilwanyana kunye nabantwana kakhulu. Okubaluleke kakhulu, usenjalo-intombazana efanelwe uthando kunye nolonwabo. Kwaye, akufanele ukhale ngenxa yomntu owenze isigqibo sokuphila ngaphandle kwakho, emva kokuqhawula umtshato kufuneka usebenze ngesibindi.

Ngaba ufuna ukuba ngokwakho emva komtshato? Kholelwa kuwe. Ungazivaleli kwihlabathi langaphandle kunye nabantu. Ungazixolisi - uzihawukele, kuphela ukuxubisa kwi-mudre yokudakumba nokudakumba. Kholelwa kuwe kunye namandla akho. Ungazivali kwilizwe lakho uze udilize unesihawu esingenamkhawulo. Ngokuchaseneyo, qala ukuhlala ubomi obupheleleyo. Umyeni wakho washiya wena-thatha njengesipho sesigwebo kunye nethuba lokuqalisa ubomi obutsha obungayi kuba njengomdala.

Sinika imiyalelo malunga nombuzo owenziwe nguwe: indlela yokuziphatha emva komtshato.

Ukuya kuzo zonke iziganeko ezinzima kwiinkampani zakhe. Iintombi zakho - ukuhleka kuza kukubuyisela ngaloo mihla xa ungeyintombazana engakhathazekiyo. Ziyolise, njengoko ufuna. Jabulela inkululeko - inzuzo ebalulekileyo ngaphambi komtshato.

Yiba wena, umntu oya kuvuya kwakhona ngelilanga lesentsasa, ngokuhlwa kwelanga. Indoda ebomini bayo akukho ndawo yokudabuka kwindoda eyathengayo yashiya.

Musa ukutshintsha - cinga, yintoni ongenayo ixesha lokuyenza? Mhlawumbi uphupha ngokugqiba, kodwa imfuno yokufundisa abantwana kunye nokungahlali kakuhle komyeni wakho ngeengcinga zakho kwenza kube nzima ukwenza iphupha lizaliseke. Yintoni ekumiseleyo ngoku ukuhlala phantsi kwiincwadi zezifundo uze uqale ukuthungatha i-granite yesayensi?

Indlela yokuziphatha emva komtshato? Ukuze ukwazi ukuphendula lo mbuzo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula okokuqala: unjani umtshato ngaphambi kokuba umtshato okanye ngaphambi komtshato? Khumbula yonke into encinane, yonke imvakalelo kule nto okanye eso siganeko ebomini bakho.

Emva kokuba uphendule yonke le mibuzo, uya kuba sele ucinga ukuba ungathini emva kokuba uqhawule umtshato.

Ungalokothi ukhohlise kwaye ungesabi ukubonisa yakho yangempela "mna". Zifundise ukuba emva kokuqhawula umtshato - funda ukwamukela ngokwakho. Uyakwazi ukuphendula nganye yezenzo zakho, ukwazi ukuzijonga ngaphandle kwaye uqonde oko wenzayo okungalunganga.

Abaninzi bayesaba, ukuba ube ngumtshato emva kokuqhawula umtshato, kuba ukuvuleka komntu kwandisa amathuba okuhlala entlungu kunye nokukhashelwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Lahla ezo ntswelo. Ukuba uphupha lokuhlala isifuba esigcwele - ngoko, unalo ilungelo lokwesaba into ethile.

Kwaye, kulungile ukuba umntu wakho othandekayo akushiye - kholwani mna, endaweni yakhe kungekudala, umgca omkhulu wamadoda anqwenela kukuvuyisa uya kwakha.