Ungakuphelisa njani ukudandatheka nokuxinezeleka?


Ngamnye wethu ubuncinane wabukana noxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Unokuyithintela njani le mvakalelo? Ungakuphelisa njani ukudandatheka nokuzixinzelela?

Into yokuqala yokwenza, njengoko iingcali zengqondo zicebisa, kukunyuka kunye nokumomotheka! Ukumamatheka kukubonakalisa umoya omhle! Ukuba uzixelele ukuba inhlanhla ilinde kuwe namhlanje, ngoko-ke unika ithuba lokuba unikwe usuku lonke! Kulungile, yithi phambi kwesibuko amazwi anyanisekileyo othandweni kunye nokuncoma kwidilesi yakho, zive ukhangelwe. Zive uzukise kwaye uhloniphe umzimba wakho, vonisa ukubonga kwakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uhambelana njani nokubonakala. Kwaye kwakhona - kumomotheka! Ugqoke, yenza iinwele zakho, kodwa kungekho njalonjalo: unokongeza i-hairpin okanye ukungabonakali okungavamile. Izinto ezinjalo ezincinci zihlala zikwenza ukuba uqaphele. Iibhuthi ezimfutshane, isikhwamkhwa, isambatho esifutshane okanye ibhatyi. Kwaye igrume! Khetha into ebhekile okanye ecocekileyo. Ama-aromas asezantsi asenza ukuba ungene kwi-sea of ​​feelings! Yaye ihlobo lehlobo liza kuba nani yonke imini!

Indlela yokugqithisa ngokupheleleyo ukuphanga?

Oku kuthenga! Ngoku kukho izinto ezininzi ezinikwe kwiimarike. Thatha intombi kunye nawe. Thayipha kwi-boutique ethile yeentlobo zonke. Kwaye emva kokuziguqula ngokuvuya, unako ukuphumla uze uye kwi-cinema okanye kwiklabhu. Kakade ke, kuphela kwinkampani yabahlobo abasondeleyo. Oku kuya kunceda ukuphepha ukuvalelwa yedwa. Musa ukunyamekela ukunakekelwa kunye nokuqwalaselwa kwabantu abasondeleyo, ngoku uyawadinga kunanini ngaphambili. Ukunxibelelana okuthabisayo kunye nokwethembayo kunokuba ngumsebeki ochaphazelekayo, kwaye ithuba lokuthetha kunye nokuvalelwa liya kukukhulula kwiimeko ezixinzeleleyo. Enkampanini evuya kunye neyobuqotho uya kugxotha ukuqina kobulumko kunye nokungabi nantando, uya kufumana uthando kuwe kunye nobomi, kwakhona uya kuba nakho ukuzisa imimangaliso ebomini kwaye uyamangaliswa yiyo.

Ukuba konke oku akuncediyo! Ndicebisa ukuba utshintshe imeko. Njani ukwenza oku?

Iphepha lodonga lasePerekley kwigumbi lokulala. Yaye yintoni imibala enefuthe elihle kwimvakalelo? Ubomvu nomhlophe kungemibala engathathi hlangothi. Imibala e-Brown, emnyama neyibhakabhaka igxininisa i-psyche. Olubomvu, ophuzi kunye nolulintshi - yiloo nto! Abayi kukuvumela ukuba udandatheke kwiindlunkulu nakubusika. Yenza imvume. Igumbi kufuneka libe nokukhanya ngakumbi. Tshintsha iiltare. Okanye hamba iintsuku ezimbalwa, okanye iintsuku ezi-10. Yiya ehlathini i-shish kebabs, sebenzisa njengendlela yokukhetha, okanye ngamakhowe. Unakekele ukukhanda. Ubusika obubandayo buyakhumbula le mihla engalibalekiyo!

Kakade ke, abafazi bonke abaya kuvuma namacebiso am. Kubo ndiya kucebisa oku kulandelayo. Ukuba awufuni ukushiya indlu, kwaye ufuna ukuchitha ngokuhlwa kusimo sekhaya esilungekileyo, kunokukho isisombululo kuwe - lungisa isitya esitsha. Okanye, mhlawumbi, awuzange uthethe nabani na ixesha elide? Shayela umhlobo okanye umhlobo, bhalela ICQ. Thenga umagazini wefashini entsha. Okanye, ukuba ufuna ukuhlala wedwa, kwaye uthanda ukufunda, udibanise kwaye udibanise, khetha i-detective or detant. Iincwadi ezinjalo azivumeli iimvakalelo ezimbi zizinqande. Ukukwazi okanye ukugcoba, kwakhona, kunokuqwalaselwa phantsi kwe-audiobook (ukudibanisa okulungileyo kunye luncedo).

Kwaye kuthekani ukuba ukuxhatshazwa kusenamandla, ukungonwabi ngobomi kunye nokunganakwa kubuyela ngokukhawuleza? Ngoko ke kungcono ukuba yedwa kunye nawe, ukujonga ubunzulu bomphefumlo wakho uze uqonde oko kwenzekayo.

Thatha umoya ophelileyo, uze uphume ngokukhawuleza. Gxininisa ukuphefumla kunye nokuthula okujikelezayo. Kuya kuphumla kwaye kukuncede ukuva ilizwi langaphakathi. Ziziphi iingcamango ezizalisa ngokugqithiseleyo? Ngaba ingcinga engalunganga? Ukudlulela imimangaliso edlulileyo, iziganeko zeengxaki zesikhathi esizayo? Zama ukuhlangabezana nazo. Musa ukuvumela iingcamango ezimbi ukuba zithathe. Kutheni? Ingcinga nje! Akunandaba, njengento eyenzekayo. Yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyayibona njani!

Iingxaki zangaphambili asinamandla phezu kwethu! Ulibale izikhalazo kunye nokungaphumeleli, ungakhumbuli into ongayi kubuya ngayo. Ngoku konke oku kuluva lakho! Musa ukuzingcaza kunye nekamva, bhala iintlungu ezilikhulu-ezininzi zazo azize zenzeke.

Ubulumko bakho namandla kumzuzu wamanje. Yamukela njenge-axiom: kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni ubomi kunye nantoni na iimeko ezenzeka kuyo, uhlala wenza konke okusemandleni akho ngaphakathi kwengqondo yakho yobomi, ukuqonda kwakho kunye nolwazi lwakho. Yamukela into ongeke ukuyitshintsha, kodwa fumana inkalipho yokutshintsha into enokwenzeka.

Ungazami ukubaleka kwinyani. Ukucwiliswa kwindalo kunobungozi obukhulu, kwaye ukuzisola okungapheliyo kukhokelela ekukhatheni okukhulu kunye nokhathala. Kwaye kukho iindawo ezintle. Emva kwakho konke, into ehambelana nawe, akukho mntu kwaye akukho nto iya kuthatha. Ukuba ngaba ngowakho, unayo, okanye iya kuba ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Ukuba awufumani into, ngoko ke kusengaphambili. Thatha kwaye uqhubeke!

Musa ukuzifunela ngokwakho! Ukwazi izibonelelo zakho kunye nokuphazamiseka, ukwamkela ngokwakho, kuthetha ukuqinisekisa ukuhambelana kwehlabathi elingaphakathi. Ungazigxeka ukuba kukho into engasebenzi. Wonke umntu wenza konke okusemandleni akhe ngaphakathi kolwazi kunye neenkolelo zakhe. Azikho iindlela ezingalunganga. Kwaye akunakulungele ukulandela abanye, ukuthatha ingcamango yomntu ngokholo, ukuzinikela kwakhe? Uvo lwabo uluvo lwabo kunye namava, kungekhona akho. Ukusetyenziswa nokuphuhliswa kwamandla abo, ukufundwa kwamandla abo, isibindi endleleni eya kwintsha-ngaba akuyikuvuselela ubomi? Kuthiwani ngokudandatheka?

Kuvele kwenzeka kwimeko efanelekileyo ebomini bakho. Qaphela ngokucophelela iingcamango zakho, ukufunda ubomi kwaye uzama ukubheka ihlabathi ngendlela entsha, utshintshe kwaye ukhule ngokomoya!