Akunakwenzeka ukucinga umtshato ovuyayo ngaphandle kokuhlonelana ngabafazi. Ufungile ukuba ujikeleze naliphi na ixesha ebomini bakho kwintsapho. Ukuba akukho ntlonipho kwizenzo zomntu, ngenxa yemikhwa yakhe, ngoko, umtshato awuhlali ixesha elide. Tshintsha imeko! Funda ukuhlonelana omnye nomnye.
Uvo lwakhe
Kubalulekile ukuba neembono kuyo nayiphi na into. Umtshato ovuyokayo unokwenzeka kwisibini esitshatileyo apho abafazi bethandana khona. Bafika kwisingqinisiso kwaye bafumana isisombululo esifanayo nasiphi na imibuzo eyanelisayo bobabini. Kwimpikiswano enempilo, inyaniso iyazalwa. Phonononga ngokupheleleyo zonke iinkonzo kunye neengxaki. Ukuzala, ukucwangcisa intsapho, ukuthenga okukhulu, ukuthuthela kwesinye isixeko, ukuguqula imisebenzi, kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi ezingabonakaliyo kwindlela yokuhlala kunye kufuneka zilungiswe kunye. Ngamnye wenu makabonise uluvo lwakho, kwaye kunye uya kuza kwisigqibo esifanelekileyo.
Ngesondo.
Umtshato ononwabileyo akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kobudlelwane bezesondo. Ukwenza uthando kubasondeza abantu, kubasondelane. Uhlobo oluthile lwesini, iimvavanyo, imidlalo yokudlala indima iya kukunceda uhlale unomdla kwizesondo zomtshato. Khumbula, akukho nto inqatshelwe kunye nezinto "ezingagunyaziswanga" ebhedini, ukuba zombini unjalo.
Kancinci, emva kweminyaka emininzi yokuhlala kunye, umnqweno wakho wesini ungahla okanye ungena ephosa. Ungaphuthelwa kulo mzuzwana! Thatha isenzo ukugcina ubomi besondo ngobabini. Xoxa nomlingane wakho malunga noko akufunayo, ziphi izimvo malunga nokuziphatha kwakho embhedeni, yintoni imvakalelo enokubangela ukuba umlingane wakho atyelele. Ingxoxo ephosakeleyo iya kunceda ukugcina umnqweno wesondo ngokude ixesha elide kunokuba uvumela ukuba lihambe. Musa ukwenza loo mpazamo.
Izipho ezintle.
Gcwalisa ubomi bakho bentsapho ngezinto ezintle: ukumamatheka, ukuxoxa ngokuzonwabisa, ukuphumla ngokuhlangeneyo, izipho ezincinane, izidlo zothando. Thatha ixesha elibini xa kungekho bantwana, abahlobo kunye nezihlobo eziseduze. Yayikuphi ixesha lokugqibela obabini kunye? Ndathetha nje okanye ndajonga ndawonye ngeenkwenkwezi, ndihamba ngepaki? Khumbula ukuba bekusekuqaleni kobudlelwane bakho. Phinda uyenze izinto eziphambeneyo. Konke oku kuya kukunceda ukuba usondelane nomlingane wakho, ukuvuselela umlilo wesifiso nesifiso.
Inkxaso.
Ubomi bentsapho obonwabileyo akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kokuxhaswa. Ukuba omnye wenu unengxaki emsebenzini, izihlobo zigula, okanye nayiphi na imeko enzima, musa ukurhoxiswa. Kulula ukuhamba kwisigaba esiyinkimbinkimbi ndawonye kunye. Kubomntu ngamnye kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba abantu abambambeyo baya kuthatha inceba, bacebise, bazincede. Ubuhlobo obunjalo phakathi kwabazali buya kuba ngumzekelo obalaseleyo kubantwana. Imfundo efanelekileyo iya kunceda umntwana wakho abe ngumntu wokwenene, ahloniphe imilinganiselo yokuziphatha kunye neentsapho.
Ukunyaniseka.
Xoxa nomyeni wakho zonke iingxaki zakho, wabelane ngamava akho, uphulaphule uluvo lwakhe. Akuyimfuneko ukufihla into, ngokukodwa, ukukhohlisa umlingane. Ngokukhawuleza okanye emva kwayo yonke into iya kuvela, kuya kuba nehlazo, ngenxa yoko uya kuziva unetyala, kwaye umyeni-uphoswe. Ubomi bentsapho obonwabileyo kusekelwe ekuthembekeni kunye nokuxoxwa kuyo yonke imiba evulekile. Ingcono inyaniso enenzondelelo kunamanga amnandi - umgaqo wegolide wokuphila kwentsapho ephumelelayo.
Intsapho ikuphela kuwe.
Akuyimfuneko ukubandakanya izalamane, abaqhelana nabo, abahlobo kwiingxaki zakho. Ingxaki zakho zeentsapho kunye nokungaqondani okwazi ukuzisombulula kunye, ngaphandle kokubandakanya umntu wesithathu. Musa ukuxelela umntu malunga nobomi bentsapho yakho. Abantu bahlala bekhwele abanye ulonwabo, bachithe ukuhleka, bakhwele ngeengcebiso zabo. Iziganeko ezenzeka kwiindonga zezindlu zakho azenzelwe ezinye iindlebe kunye namehlo.