Ukwahlula, kwaye indawo ebalulekileyo ebomini yomntu ngamnye isondo. Kwabanye, ubulili bubaluleke ngaphezu kothando. Ukwaneliseka kwezilwanyana zakho zintlanzi kuthatha kuqala ngaphezu kwengqondo yomntu, ukucima yonke into, ukunyuka kwemilinganiselo kunye nemida yokuziphatha. Kwabanye, isondo ngumdlalo, kwaye kwezinye izinto, isondo asithethi nantoni na; kuba abantu abanjalo, uthando lubaluleke ngaphezu kokufunwa ngokomoya komntu othile. Umxholo wesini ukhona kuzo zonke iingoma, iifilimu, kunye neencwadi ezixhomekeke kwisini. Ukususela nini na isondo sabaluleke ngakumbi kuthi kunothando? Emva koko, abantu abaninzi banenkxalabo malunga nombuzo wokuba isondo siyinto ebalulekileyo ubudlelwane ???? Inqaku linikezelwa kwingqungquthela " ubudlelwane obuphakathi kwendoda kunye nowesini wesini ."
Khumbula, ngaphambili kuphela umntu ongenatyala onokutshata, aze alahlekelwe ngumsulwa ngaphambi komtshato, wayebhekwa njengesono esibi, oku kusasebenza, kuphela kumazwe aseArabhu, apho baqhubeka behambisana nale miveli. Intombi yayiyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yezithethe, ezazingqinelwa kwaye zibhekwa njengezingcwele. Kwaye ke amantombazana, ayenqatshelwe ihlonipho, ahlazola isixeko sonke, kwaye kungekhona nje amantombazana, kodwa yonke intsapho yintombazana, wayengatshatanga, kwaye wayicinga njengento engcolileyo kwaye ephosakeleyo.
Abazali banciphisa isibini esitshatileyo esizayo, ngokuvumelana phakathi kwabo ngokwemimiselo yomtshato. Amazwi kunye nembono yabantwana ayethetha nto. Kwakuyinto enesivumelwano phakathi kwabazali. Kwaye ndacinga, kodwa ngaba kunjalo? Ewe, ndiyaqonda ukuba ezi zizithethe, kwaye abavunyelwe ukuba baphule, kwaye abo baphula umthetho, baza bachasana nezithethe, baba ngumntu okhutshwe kuluntu. Kodwa emva kokuqala ukuhlala nomntu wonk 'ubomi, engazi, ngubani na yena ngokubanzi uvela kuye ngokwakhe, kwakunzima. Ngethuba lethu abantu, ukuhlangana kunye neminyaka, batshatile, bafike kwisigqibo sokuba benza iphutha elikhulu. Kwaye abantu abangakwaziyo, abangaziwayo, nabaselula kakhulu, banyanzelekile ukuba babe nezihlobo ezinjengeentsapho ngosuku olunye. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, akudingeki ukuba uzikhonze kwaye ukhethe okulungileyo, kuba abazali bakhetha okusemandleni ethu, kuba bazali kwaye abanqweneli ukugula, abantwana babo abathandekayo.
Kutheni ndikhokela konke oku? Ewe, ukuya kwisini. Konke malunga nesondo, isibini esitshatileyo, esakhiwe ngenxa yesithethe, ngobusuku bomtshato nokuqonda, nangona kunjalo, baqonde ntoni? Emva koko, loo mihla ayengazi ukuba yintoni i-orgasm! Ngoko baphila emva kobusuku bokuqala bomtshato bonke ubomi babo, becinga ukuba isondo kufuneka sibe njalo. Umfazi onentloni wayesaqonda yonke into evuyisayo ngesondo, ukufumana isabelo sakhe se-orgasm, kwaye abanye bacinga ukuba ngumnye umsebenzi womtshato, ixesha elide, elixhalabileyo, elithintekayo, elingenakuvuyisa.
Kwaye ke, ukuba ndibekwe kwelinye igumbi, mna, umtshato osemfama, kuyimfuneko ukuba ngandlela-thile uhlale nendoda eyenzeka ukuba ube nawe mhlawumbi engekho yintando yakhe yokuzikhethela. Mhlawumbi yena, njengoye, wayethanda umntu ohluke ngokupheleleyo. Ngoko bafunda ukunika omnye nomnye, baqonde, kwaye uthando luzalwe. Akunanto yinto abayithethayo yokuba uthando kuqala ekukhuphukeni ngokukhawuleza kunokuba uthando luye lwahlwayelwa iminyaka emininzi, akukho nto iya kuyitshabalalisa, kwanokunganeliseki ngesondo. Emva koko, kuba bantu abanjalo, akuyiyo inzuzo yesini kubalulekile, kodwa ukuzonwabisa kobudlelwane bokomoya.
Kwaye kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, yonke into iyahluke, ukuba akukho isondo ngaphambi komtshato, emva kokuba umtshato ungadumala kakhulu. Sonke, sinokuthi ukususela ekuzalweni, siyazi ukuba isini isondo, kuba zonke izixhobo zendaba zikhusele ngesihloko sesini. Bandakanya i-MTV okanye i-MuzTV, "isondo kunye neTequila", "ukulwa ngesondo", "ngesondo kunye no-Anfisa Chekhova," "ulwandle", kwaye nangakumbi ngamafilimu, ngokuqhelekileyo ndingakwazi ukuthula, kuba phantse zonke iifilimu ziqulethe izinto zesini. Ewe, ngoko ubuza apho umgcini oqalayo owaziyo ukuba abantwana bavela phi! Ngokuqinisekileyo, kungekhona uTata nomama, kodwa uArt on MuzTV.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, siqala ukuqonda yonke into malunga nesondo ukusuka kwiklasi yokuqala. Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukulindela kwethu kufanele kuhambelane neyinyaniso, ebomini ekungenakwenzeka. Kwaye ukungaqinisekisi ukulindela ngesondo nomyeni wakhe othandekayo kukhokelela ekudakaleni okukhulu, emva koko ukufezekiswa kwezinto esizilindeleyo kwicala liqala. Ubuqhetseba, ukuxabana, intukuthelo, ngaphambi kokuba umtshato uqhawule, kusondele kakhulu. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba unokufumana indlela yokuphuma kuyo nayiphi na imeko eye yaphuhliswa kwinqanaba lemihla ngemihla yokuhlala kunye, kodwa lingafaneki ukuba lilele embhedeni.
Mhlawumbi, ngamnye umfazi uya kuvuma nam ukuba indoda ethile nayiphi na imeko ifumana i-orgasm, ngokungafani nomfazi, ngenxa yokuba umzimba wethu unzima kakhulu kunabo, kwaye ke akusoloko sikwenza lula. Kwaye abantu baqala ukutshintsha kuphela kuba babona akukho zininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo, kwaye SINCEDO ukutshintsha, kuba asiyikuzonwabisa nayo, oko kukuthi, kunye nomyeni. Ubani omele ityala? Ngaba sinetyala lokuba umzimba wethu unzima kangaka? Kwaye bona, uyabona, akukho ukungafani kunye neentshayelelo! Ngokombono wam, oku kuphosakeleyo kwaye akulungile. Kwaye mhlawumbi ndizithoba?
Kwaye ke, ndikholelwa ukuba simele siyazi ukuba ngubani esiza kutshata naye, kwaye ngubani na oya kuthi siza kulwahlula i-pastel, kwaye sinokubaluleka okunjani ebomini. Ndiyakholwa ukuba isondo ngaphambi komtshato yindlela efanelekileyo yokutshata ngempumelelo, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba sifanele silale nabo bonke abantu ukuze sifumane ukuba ngubani na oya kuvuyisa. Kwaye ukuba intombi yakho ikhulile, akufuneki ukuba uphazamise iminqweno yakhe yesondo, ingakumbi ukuba ulwalamano lunzulu, xelela nje ngokuphathelele ukukhulelwa kunye nendlela yokuzikhusela, kwaye yiyiphi imiphumo enokuthi ikhuselwe. Kwaye akudingeki uqinisekise ukuba ufuna ukutshata umntu ongenatyala, akunjalo.
Nangona kunjalo, ekuqaleni ukuqala impilo yobundlobongela inobungozi, kodwa sele isele kwimpilo. Izitho zangasese zingahlakulela ngokungalunganga, okanye ziyakwazi ukukhubazeka, kunye neentsholongwane ezahlukahlukeneyo zingathathwa, eziyingozi kakhulu yi-AIDS kunye ne-HIV, enzima okanye ingaphathwa ngayo, kuxhomekeke kwisigaba sokuphuhliswa, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ezi zifo zingakhokelela kwisiphumo esibulalayo , ngoko unakekele intsapho kunye nawe.
Kwaye ukususela nini thina bantu siba zizilwanyana ezilandela izilwanyana zabo? Ngendlela, malunga nezilwanyana, izilwanyana zilala ngesondo, kuphela ukubonakala kwintlobo, oko kukuthi, kuya kuchaneka ukuthetha, zisetyenziselwa ukuchumisa, kwaye zinganelisekanga. Ama dolphin kuphela, ama-chimpanze kunye nabantu-balala ngesidlo sokuzonwabisa kwabo bonke abantu abakhona ehlabathini. Kodwa kuvela, ngokwenene, ekuphuhlisweni abantu abazange baphume kwii-chimpanzi.
Kukholelwa ukuba ubulili bubonakaliso luthando, kodwa kuthekani malunga nokulala nomfokazi oye wadibana naye ngentloko enxila? Ngaba oku kungathathwa njengobonakaliso bothando? Nangona kunjalo, konke oku kwenzeka kwizinga lezilwanyana, kuba izilwanyana azikwazi ukuziphatha nokuziphatha. Ngamanye amaxesha, nangona isibini esingahlangabezananga nenyanga yokuqala, udinga ixesha lokuba uzilungiselele ngengqondo ngesondo, kwaye apha nge-counter yokuqala. Kukho ngokucacileyo kufuneka kuvezwe ngokungahambi kwemigaqo nemigaqo yokuziphatha.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni ndifuna ukuthetha ukuba umntu olwabelana ngesondo kubalulekile, kodwa kumntu ongekho. Ukwabelana ngesondo luyinxalenye yendlela yobomi bethu, yenza isondo, kodwa ungawudluli, kuba kukho konke ufuna ukufumana ithetha legolide.