Emva koko, uninzi lwala mantombazana luhluphekile kukuba iminqweno yabo ayilungiswanga, ukuba bafumana ingcamango engafanelekanga kunye neyona nto ivakalelwa ngayo. Ngengxaki enjalo ehambelana nenyaniso yokuba akukho mfazi, kuyimfuneko yokwenza ngesondo okanye i-orgasm, ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukwabelana nangomhlobo ongcono. Yaye kunye nendoda oyithandayo kunye nangakumbi. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba isiqingatha sesibini sabantu sinobunzima ukuphumeza i-orgasm efunwayo ngokuchasene nendoda. Ukufezekisa injongo, into yokuqala yabamantombazana kukuba bayeke ukumba ngaphakathi kwabo kwaye bajonge zonke iintlobo zabenzi bobubi beli ngxaki. Ufuna nje ukuzama ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kuyo ngokusebenzisa uncedo lomntu wakho othandekayo, oya kuba lula kwaye kulula ukuyicombulula.
Sifuna izizathu. Ukuthotywa kwezesondo nangayiphi na intombazana ifumaneka kwindlela ethile, indlela yokukhonkxa. Amanye amantombazana akhetha ukuhleka, abanye, ngokuchasene - bekhala, omnye wabo uthanda ukumemeza nokukhangela iqabane lakhe, kanti abanye banqwenela ukukhanda. Kodwa musa ukuphelelwa yithemba kwaye ucaphuke ngala ma ntombazana awaziyo ukuba enze ntoni ngesondo ukuze ufumane uvavanyo olungenamsebenzi kodwa ungamkelekanga. Ku sa phambili. Emva kwakho konke, ukuze ufumane ulonwabo olupheleleyo kumntu osithandayo, kufuneka uziqonde ngokwakho kuqala. Kubalulekile ukuzama ukufumana isizathu esinyani kwaye uzame ukususa ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Ukwesaba kwabasetyhini . Uninzi oluqhelekileyo nolona lukhulu lwabesetyhini abanxulumene nobulili, ubudlelwane obusondeleyo bunokungabaza nokungaqiniseki. Intombazana kule ngxaki ithetha nje ukuba ayiyi kuphila ngokubhekiselele kulindeleke, iinjongo, ukhetho lwezesondo lomlingani wakhe othandana naye. Kananjalo uyesaba ukuba ngenxa yezi zizathu, uya kukwenqaba nje ukuqhubeka kunye neentlanganiso kunye naye kwikamva. Uloyiko olunjalo luhambelana nolunye uhlobo lweengxube zesiganeko esihle somphakathi. Zingabunjwa ngenxa yantlupheko, ukungaphumeleli kwintombazana ebusweni bentombazana, okanye kusekwe ngexesha lokudlula ubomi.
Kwakhona, iingcamango ezilula zeentombazana ezingenako ukushiya intloko yakhe kwindoda kunye nomntu zingabangela ukuba izithintelo eziphambili ekufezeni i-orgasm yangempela. Iingcamango ezinjalo azikwazi ukujoliswa kwindlela efanelekileyo, ukuya kumgca wolungileyo wokufumana umnandi kuphela. Iingcamango zinokudibaniswa nantoni na kuphela, ngokukodwa, kunye neenjongo zokukhusela. Emva koko, amaninzi amantombazana ayamahloni ukuthetha ngeendlela zokukhusela, eziyimfuneko kwaye ziyimfuneko okwangoku.
Imeko engafanelekanga okanye kungeyona ixesha elifanelekileyo lokonwabelana ngesondo kunokuba sesinye isaba somfazi. Emva koko, amantombazana abonwa njengendawo efanelekileyo kwaye ixesha elifanelekileyo liza kuba yilezo kuphela ezicetywayo ngaphambili. Kodwa abaninzi bajamelene neengxaki zento enokuyenza ukuba akukho nto i-orgasm kulawo matyala xa kubonakala ukuba zonke iimeko zokufumana umnqweno ophezulu wesondo zilungiselelwe ngaphambili kwaye zinikezelwe. Nangona ininzi yabo ilahlekelwe ngumzuzu ekugqithiseleyo, iziganeko ezingalindelekanga, ezingalindelekanga, kukho ithuba elikhulu lokufumana inzuzo efunwayo. Kodwa isizathu sokunganeliseki kunye nokungabonakali kwe-orgasm kunokuba ngumntu ongenalwazi, ngaphezu koko, iqabane lokuzicingela okanye ukungabikho kokuqonda nokuthembela kwintsebenziswano nendoda ethile.
Sifuna izisombululo . Into yokuqala kwintombazana engenayo i-orgasm xa ulala ngesondo kukufumanisa ukuvisisana kwangaphakathi. I-orgasm yesifazana, mhlawumbi ukuba engekhoyo-yinto engavamile. Kubalulekile ukuzama ngokuchanekileyo nangokucokisekileyo ukuba ufunde umzimba wakho, fumana zonke ubuthakathaka bakho kunye nemimandla ephosakeleyo. Emva koko, ukuze intombazana imele ifune indoda, kuyimfuneko ukuba intombazana ngokwayo imele ifune. Kwaye oku kufuneka ufumane loo mimandla yomzimba wakho, okufuneka uyixelele indoda ekuqaleni kwenkqubo yesondo. Ukuze le ntombazana ikwazi ukufumana eyona nto ifunwayo. Kodwa kukho konke oku kuyimfuneko ukunqamula zonke iingcinga ezingadingekile neziphazamisayo, kungcono ukuzicabangela wena njengentanda yakho kunye nomntu oyintanda, oyifunayo.
Kubaqalayo ngobudlelwane bezesondo, unokucebisa ukuba ufunde ubuchule bokusebenzisa uKegel, ngoncedo apho imisipha efanelekileyo yomdaka ibandakanyeka. Ukuzivocavoca okunjalo kunokunika inkazana enkulu ukuzithemba, ekubeni emva kokufaka isicelo kwisenzo sokulala nomntu onomthandayo, unokufumana impembelelo enkulu. Kwaye kuya kuba nzima kakhulu kwaye kunzima ukushiya kweso silingo.
Ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo . Kwimeko xa kungekho nantlanzi ngexesha lesondo, le ngxaki kufuneka iyanqotshwa ngamaqabane omabini. Ngaphandle kwemizamo enxulumene nayo unokukwazi ukufezekisa okulungileyo, umphumo olungileyo, ongaphikisani nabani abathandekayo bakho. Okanye, kubalulekile ukuba uzame ngokucokisekileyo, ngobumnono kwaye ungenakho ukuzenzela ukuchaza kumntu obathandayo malunga neengxaki ezibalulekileyo njengokungabikho komzimba. Ukongezelela, ukuba abantu ababini bahlala ixesha elide kwi-gap, ubuhlobo obuqinileyo kunye nozuko. Musa ukunyamezela ukungazaliseki ngokupheleleyo ngokwesini. Ukuba iqabane lifuna unxulumano olunzulu, olude, oluhlala njalo kunye nentombazana, uya kukwazi ukuqonda oko kuye kwathethwa kuye, kwaye aze ayenze ngenyameko.
Umzuzu ofanelekileyo. Kuyafaneleka ukuba uqonde ukuba ixesha kunye nendawo yengxoxo engathandekanga akufanele kukhethwe xa sele ulala ngokulala kunye nomthandayo. Ngokukodwa ukuyivakalisa ngelizwi lokuhlambalaza nokunganeliseki, lunokutshabalalisa ubuhlobo bakho bobubele ngonaphakade. Kuya kuba ngcono kuphela xa umthandayo eba ngumlingani, kodwa kungekhona intshaba.
Uyakwazi ukufumana indlela yokuphuma ngokucela ukuba "isithethe" esingekho ngokukhawuleza sinokuthandana kunye nokuthokoza. Okanye mxelela nje malunga neendawo zakho ezithandekayo kunye neengxaki. Unokucela kwakhona iqabane ukuba litshintshe i-tempo, ebalulekileyo kule meko.
Ukuze ufumane unonwabo oluninzi kunokwenzeka kuwo onke amaqabane olwabelana ngesondo, ukuqala, umfazi kufuneka nje azithande ukuba ngubani yena kunye nento enene. Uthando luzodwa oluya kuba sisisombululo esilula kumsebenzi wokufumana i-orgasm.