Kukhona umgaqo onjalo ongabonakaliyo: ukuphakama kwinqanaba lokuphuhliswa kwezidalwa eziphilayo, ixesha elide lide kubantwana babo kwaye banokungenakunceda ezi zilwanyana emva kokuzalwa. Iingcamango zenzululwazi zihlala ziqinisekiswa ngokwenza oko, zigxininisa ukuqinisekiswa kwezi nkcazo. Kodwa kuphela inxalenye yokuqala. Ukuba sithetha ngokungenakunceda, ngoko-ke abaphandi abafanayo babonisa okuchaseneyo. Ubomi bentuntu bunjalo ngokobuzwe kwaye bunamandla kangangokuba kubonakala ngathi, abantu abadala, ngezinye izihlandlo. Akukho namnye kuthi uza kusinda kwiimeko apho umntwana usakhulayo. Kufuneka amelane nokutshintshwa kwimiqathango yobushushu (ukusuka kwi-37 ° C kuya kwe-20-25 ° C), ukusuka kwimeko yendalo yamanzi idlula emoyeni, ngemizuzwana ithatha ubugcisa bokuphefumula, inqatshelwe ukunikezelwa kokutya okungaphazamiseki. Kwaye konke kusemzuzwana nje! Ucinga ntoni, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ubuthathaka ngokomoya nangokomzimba kumntu? ..
Ukukhangela izandla zothando
Ngelishwa, ngexesha lokuzalwa, i-crumb ihlupheka, ivakalelwa ingqondo yokuwa kwexesha elingapheliyo, intloko enzima. Uloyiko kwaye alukhuseli ngexesha elifanayo. Nangona kunjalo, izazi zengqondo zibonakalise ukuba le nto ingabikho mkhondo kwinqanaba lokuzalwa ngokuphumelelayo, kwaye xa umntwana ethinta isifuba somama onothando, okhululekile, onothando. Ngenxa yoko, ekusebenziseni izithintelo zehlabathi, ukuzalwa kwemvelo kuxhaswa ngokunyanisekileyo. I-10% kuphela yabasetyhini abasemsebenzini bafuna ukusetyenziswa kwamachiza avuselelayo kunye namayeza. I-90% eseleyo ikwazi ukubeletha ngokukhuselekileyo kubantwana abanengxaki yokungenelela kwezokwelapha, bethembela ngamandla abo. Ngethuba lokubeleka umfazi akanako ukukratshiza, kodwa bulaza, mamela umculo, uphefumule esiswini ... nantoni na, ukunyamezela ixesha elingathandekiyo nesimo sengqondo esihle. Emva koko, iimvakalelo zakhe zengane ngaloo nto zithetha ngaphezu kokunyamezela kwakhe ngokomzimba. Konke oku kufundiswa ngabachwephesha abanekhono kwizifundo zabazali bexesha elizayo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, inyaniso yokuba abantwana, abanqwenela ekukhulelweni nasekukhulelweni, abazalwa ngezandla ezithandekayo, baqala ubomi kunye nenqaku elihle, eliye laboniswa. Zizoxhomekeka kwaye zifuna ukwazi. Baziva bekhuselekile, kwaye banxibelelwano oluqinileyo nabazali babo. Kwenzeka njani? Ngosizo lwezengqondo ze-psychotherapeutic. Iingcali ezininzi zibandakanya ukufunda oko kuthiwa "imemori yokuzalwa", ukutyhila iimpawu kunye neemfihlelo zobuntwana bokuqala. Ngaphantsi kwe-hypnosis, umntu ukhunjulwe waza wachaza oko kwenzeka kuye ngexesha lokuzalwa kwakhe, kwaye rhoqo ngokubhekiselele kwingcaciso encinci, kuquka neengcamango ayenakho. Babengalindelekanga, bengacacile, kunye neemvakalelo-ezinzulu.
Ndikhetha ilizwi lomama
Umntwana uva ilizwi lomama ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuzalwa, ngoko emva kokuzalwa kulula ukuhlula kwabanye. Enye yeemvavanyo ibonise ukuba ihlanganiswe kangakanani nelizwi lomama. Kwakuqhutyelwa yingcali yeengqondo yaseFransi u-Anthony de Caspe. Iintsana zisondeza isifuba somama nge-silicone eqweqwe nge-pacifier edibaniswe kwisixhobo sokulinganisa isantya esiphucuzayo, wafaka iikopi yokurekhoda kweenganekwane ezifundwa ngabomama kunye nabanye abafazi. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba omnye wabantwana beva ilizwi lakhe lokuzalwa, waqala ukunyuka ngokukhawuleza nangakumbi. Uphando lweentsuku ezimbini luye lwavumela ukuba usosayensi agqibe: iintsana zichanekile amazwi abo omama (kungakhathaliseki ukuba bathetha isiNgesi okanye isiJamani). Ngokungafani namazwi abanye besetyhini. Oku kuthetha ukuba i-crumb iyakwazi ukubamba isigqi sokuthetha, intonation, utshintsho lweefowuni kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukugcina inkumbulo enye, intanda kakhulu kunye nomthonyama, ilizwi elivile ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Le talente emangalisayo kufuneka isetyenziswe kwaye iphuhliswe. Isoloko ilungele ukuthetha noMama. Wena ngokwakho ngokuqinisekileyo uqaphele ukuba umntwana oneminyaka engama-2-3 ubudala uphendula njani ngoncedo lokuhamba kunye ne-agukaniya. Kwaye akafumani nje kuphela amathuba okulizwi lakhe, kodwa kwakhona ivela kule ngxoxo kunye nenjabulo engenakucingeka.
Ukulinda ukuthintela
Incoko yomzimba iyaba yinto enxibelelana ngayo ngaphambi kokuba umntwana ahlakulele kwaye ufunde ukulawula ukuhamba kwakhe. Ukubeka umntwana ezandleni zengumntwana omncinane, uze ujikeleze ngerekhodi ngokukhawuleza, izazinzulu zifikile ekufumaneni okumangalisayo okubandakanya iimpawu zobuntwana bokuqala: inkunzi inokuthi ihambele kwi-synchronism kunye nomntu omdala. Ekubukeni kwakubonakala kakuhle, ukuba i-crumb iphinda iphindaphindiwe bonke oodade bokuhamba. Ngokukhawuleza xa uyise egoba intloko yakhe, umntwana welula intloko yakhe kuye. Oku kwenzeke amaxesha amaninzi. Xa isandla sokunene sikayise sasuka ecaleni lakhe, isandla sokhohlo sasilula sisuka kwindlela eyahlukileyo. Iingcali zengqondo azizange zikholelwe ukuba i-synchronism ingaba njani. Kwaye baphinda banxusa abazali ukuba baqaphele ubugcisa bokubambisana - ukuxhamla ngokomzimba, isiqhagamshelo esingabonakali esivumela ukuba uqonde ulwimi lolutsha ukusuka kwiintsuku zokuqala. Ukubambisana kungabangela isiseko esihle sokudlala, intando kunye nobudlelwane obusondeleyo kwixesha elizayo. Umntwana ulungelele lo buhlobo kwaye ulindela okufanayo kuwe. Ungamlahli!
Ndifuna ukwazi yonke into!
Usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa luyindoda. Uyakwazi ukuzibonakalisa. Izinto zenzululwazi zanamhlanje ziqinisekisile ukuba umntwana usentlalontle. Unako ukuthetha, wenze ubuhlobo obusondeleyo. Umntwana osanda kubonakala, ulungele ukufumana ulwazi olutsha kwaye, ngokuncinci kweengcebiso zakho, uyaqonda ukuba wenzeni nalo. Ngoko ke, ukuba uthetha nomntwana ekuqwalaseleni iimpawu zobuntwana bokuqala, uza kufumana umntu ophucukileyo, umntu onetalente nangengqiqo. Musa ukuthobela umnyashek wakho omncinci - ayenziwa ngakumbi kunokuba ucinga!