I-Tantra yindlela epheleleyo yefilosofi eyavela eIndiya kwiminyaka emininzi edlulileyo. I-tantric ngokwesini yinto enye yemfundiso yeBibetan Buddhist. Kodwa kwiminyaka engamashumi ama-60, xa i-yoga kunye ne-revolution yezocansi zenza imfashini eNtshona, ubulili besanti kunye neotantra babonakala. Ezi zifundo zichaphazeleka ngokufunda ngamathuba omzimba womzimba, ukufumana ukuthanda kukaThixo ngokusebenzisa ukuxuba komntu kunye nowesifazane. Ngenxa yoko, izifundo ze-sayensi yakudala yase-Indiya zingabonakala zingenangqiqo kunye nesondo. Kodwa ukuba ngokukhawuleza kubonakala ngathi, unokuhamba ngokuphepha. Akudingeki udlwengule ngokwakho ngokufundisisa notitshala ongenalucalulo, kungenza nje ukulimaza. Iincwadi kwiingcamango zaseTantra azikhenxwanga okwangoku, kwaye unokuzenza ekhaya, yedwa kunye nomthandayo.
Unxulumano olunjalo luvela kwimeko yeTantra . Kodwa ubulili beqela kunye neTantra ayingqinelaniyo. Ewe, kwiseshoni yokuthandaza kwigumbi kwaye kunokubakho izibini ezininzi, kodwa abaze batshintshane nabalingani, besenza isiqingatha sabo kuphela. Emva koko, ubudlelwane nomntu othandekayo ngaphezu kwawo konke eTantra. Kwi-neotantra, kuyinyani, into eyenzekayo: kokubili ukutshintshisana kwamalingani kunye nesondo nabantu abaninzi, kodwa oku sele sele kukhethwe ngumntu ngamnye. Ukunyanzela kwizinto ezinjalo akukho mntu unelungelo. Akukho ndawo inobungozi kunye nokunyaniseka kweTantra. Ubundlobongela bamaBuddhist baseTibethi akubhekiseli nje ukudibana ngokwesondo kuphela, kodwa kunye nokuhlanganiswa kwemiphefumlo, iintliziyo zabathandi. Ngoko ke, ukunyamezela kuye kukude kunye nemvelo, ayigxininise kwizitho zangasese, kodwa iguqa umzimba wonke. Ukunyuka kwi-sexric ye-tantric kukhululekile, "ngentsingiselo."
Bonke abo basemagqabini anjalo abangaqhelekanga ngesondo - ngathi-i-tantric - i-altruists, kuba into ephambili apha ayiyi kufikelela kwi-orgasm yakho, kodwa ukukholisa iqabane. Ukongezelela, ixesha elide umntu engaphakathi kwintombi, amandla angakumbi angakuvumela ukuba ahlawule umbane oya kulahleka xa ejaculation. Iseshoni esinjalo sothando sinokugqibela kwiiyure ezimbini ukuya kweyure.
Ingakwazi ukufana nokusikwa kwe-massage , kubandakanya ukuhamba kwezinto ezingaqhelekanga, ukuqhuba ukuphefumula okanye ukululaza amanqaku. Kodwa into ephambili eyenza isondo se-tantric igxininise ngokupheleleyo kwiqabane. Enyanisweni, iqabane lesini lesini eTantra libuThixo obunomntu ongena kuyo ukulala ngesondo. Ngendlela, ngezocansi zesini, ubukumkani kufuneka bayihloniphe, bazinikele ngokupheleleyo kulo mbono kwaye kungekhona okwesibini ukuba bangathandabuzi imvelaphi yakhe. Ngexesha lezesondo ze-tantric, zombini amaqabane aphelisa iinkomfa kwaye, ukuba le mihla ibalulekile, ngokwandisa kakhulu ukuzithemba komnye nomnye. Ukuba ufunda ukufezekisa ukuhambelana okufanayo kunye nomlingane wakho, ebomini bakho kuya kubakho ukudideka nokunganelisekanga embhedeni, "ukulimala" kunye "nomona" kuya kutshabalala, kwaye kuya kutshintshwa yinto efanayo yokuthanda nokuqonda.
Ukongeza kwinqanaba leemvakalelo , isondo se-tantric sinokumangalisa nokuphulukisa amandla. Abantu abaxhasa le ndlela, phantse bangazange bajike oogqirha. Emva koko, baneendlela zabo zonyango: ziyancoma ngaphezu kwamacwecwe.
Okokuqala, kufuneka ufunde kakuhle, uzive umzimba wakho kunye nomzimba wakho. Ukwenza oku, unokwenza uvakalelo, zama ukuziva izinto ezifakwe kuyo into, phunga - fumana ientyatyambo ezifanelekileyo okanye iziqhumiso, kunye nekhonsathi - phulaphula isixhobo esisodwa kwi-orchestra. Oku kunzima ekuqaleni, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uya kuphumelela.
Emva kokuba le nqanaba igqityiwe, unokuqala iseshoni yesini. Wena kunye neqabane lakho kuya kufuneka nilungiselelanga olunye usuku kuphela. Akufanele kubekho izinto eziqaqambileyo okanye izandi ezivakalayo, kwaye kungcono ukulibala ngeTV okanye isikhungo somculo kwiimeko ezinjalo. Nangona ungabandakanya umculo ongabonakaliyo wokuphumula okanye oqhelekileyo ukurekhoda izandi zezilwanyana zasendle. Ngexesha lesini, akufanele uphazamiseke komnye nomnye, khumbula: kubalulekile ukugxila kumlingane ngokwawo, kungekhona ngesini.