Wayekuthanda ukuhamba, kodwa xa umntwana ebonakala, kwavela ingxaki, indlela yokuza kulandela? Uncinci kakhulu, kwaye ngoko ufuna ukulala emlanjeni oshushu. Kukho umlinganiselo wonyaka oneminyaka elilodwa okanye umdala omncinane kunokuba umntwana angasala iiveki kunye nogogo. Kodwa kuya kulungeleka, ukuba unjalo na loo nto uhamba nayo. Umntwana ufuna kwakhona utshintsho lwezinto ezikuyo, ukuguqulwa kokubonakala kuyimfuneko. Kwaye abantwana abakhulileyo be-kindergarten age badinga ngakumbi.
Ukuhamba nomntwana omncinci
Ukuba ukuhamba nomntwana kunokubangela ukuphazamiseka, kwaye emva kweminyaka engama-3 umntwana uya kuvuya xa eyazi ilanga elitshisayo, ulwandle, kunye namanye amazwe, ukubona ihlabathi. Xa uhamba nohambo nabantwana, kufuneka ukwazi imithetho embalwa.
Okokuqala, umntwana uya kufuna ukutya kokusana. Umbuzo wokunyamekela umntwana kwi-airplane okanye kwisitimela akufanele ube yinto emangalisayo kuwe. Kulungile ukuba ukutya kukuwe, okuba isifuba somama. Kodwa ukunxila kungabikho, ngoko kufuneka udibaniso olulungiselelwe kwaye kufuneka lulungiselelwe kwangaphambili ekhaya. Kukulungele ukuthenga isikhwama sefriji esiza kuzaliswa ngeqhwa. Ingagcina ukutya, iya kufuneka ngexesha lokuhamba okanye ukuhamba.
Ngeke kube lula ukuhlamba iibhotile kwizothutho. Ufanele ubeke kwisitya ezintlanu ezihlambulukileyo. Qinisekisa ukuthatha inkunkuma ngokutya, ijusi, ukutya. Nangona i-aircraft ayivumelekile ukuba ithwale amanzi, lo mgaqo awusebenzi kubantwana. Ukungabikho kwamanzi, izimo ezinzima zivela. Qinisekisa ukuba unomphelo omanzi nawe, ziya kufuneka. Iipapkins zivumela abantu abadala ukuba basule izandla zabo ngaphambi kokutya, kunye nokusula umntwana.
Ngokuphathelele ukutya kwiivenkile okanye kwiihotele, kungcono ukuyeka ukukhetha ukutya okuhamba nawe. Akunakuqondwa ukuba umntwana unobungozi kwindlela ethile yokutya. Ukuba umntwana akanalo utywala kwaye udala, uya kudla nawe. Kodwa musa ukumnika izidlo ezilungileyo. Emva koko, isisu somntu omdala asinakuhlala sijamelana nokuzonwabisa, kwaye sithini ntoni ngabantwana.
Ukuhamba ngesitimela esinomntwana, kungcono ukuthatha indawo zendawo, ngakumbi ukuba yonke indlela iya kuthatha ngaphezu kwemihla. Usana luya kuziva lukhululekile kwaye uya kuhlalisa. Thatha kwiindlela zokuzithandela ezithandayo zomntwana okanye uthenge amathoyizi amasha, ngexesha lokuxhamla umntwana. Ukuba uyadla kunye nomntwana emotweni, yenza ngaphezulu. Susa umntwana usuke esihlalweni ukuze uvuselele, vumela umntwana aphume emotweni aze asebenze encinane kwintsi. Yeka ukuyeka endleleni, kodwa masithi, kufuphi nommandla. Musa ukulibala ukuba nezixhobo eziphathekayo zomntwana omncinci, okuyi-armchair kwimoto, ingasetyenziselwa ukuphumla komntwana.
Ekugqibeleni, songeza ukuba unokuhamba nomntwana omncinci, ngenxa yokusebenzisa ezi ngcebiso kwaye ngokuphumla kwakho kuya kuhamba kakuhle kwintsana yakho nakuwe.