Ukukhulelwa kwesibili kunye nempawu zayo

Izixhobo zekhosi yokukhulelwa kwesibili.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, nayiphi na ukukhulelwa kuhamba kunye neemvakalelo malunga nendlela ehamba ngayo nendlela yokunyamekela umntwana ozayo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, xa ukhulelwe okwesihlandlo sesibini, ibhinqa lihlala lizibuza yona into emele ilungiselelwe, kwaye ingaba kuya kuba nayiphi na imeko eyahlukileyo evela kuqala. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ungakulibali ukuba ngokuphathelele iimpawu zomzimba, ubunzima bunokwenzeka, kodwa ngokubanzi kukho izinto eziqhelekileyo omele ulindele.

Izixhobo zekhosi yokukhulelwa kwesibili

Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukukhulelwa kwesibili kulula ukuthumela, ukuthelekiswa nokuqala.

Ngaphambili - kulula

Ukuba uthe wakhulelwa okwesibini emva nje kokuzalwa kokuqala, kusebuncinaneni, ukulinda kwintsana yesibini kuya kufana nokuvalelwa kokuqala kokukhulelwa. Kodwa xa uneminyaka engama-35 kunokubakho ubunzima bokuzala umntwana.

Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuba kwixesha lexesha iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezifo ziqala ukuvela, ezinokuthatha ifom echaphazelekayo ngexesha lokuzala komntwana wesibini. Yingakho kufanele ukongezelela ukuba unakekele impilo yakho - unike iimvavanyo ezingaphezulu, qhagamshelana nomjobi wezinja kunye nezinye iingcali rhoqo. Nangona kubonakala ngathi kukho imimiselo emininzi, sincoma ukuba sisenza konke - emva koko, ukugatywa kweminye yabo kunokuchaphazela kakhulu impilo yengane nomama ngokwabo.

Indlela yokujongana nomona wabantwana?

Ewe, le ngxaki ibhekene nabasetyhini abagqiba ukukhulelwa okwesibili - umntwana omdala, kungakhathaliseki ubudala, akanakuqonda ukuba kutheni ngoku bangamncedi kangangoko kunomama wengqungquthela? Oku kubangelwa kukuba ukuhlala kwinqanaba leengqalelo kwendalo sele libonwe ngolokuqala-mali ngokulandelelana kwesiqhelo. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uhlawule ingqalelo ngokukhethekileyo kwiingxoxo zokulungiselela kunye nomntwana wokuqala, uchazela ukuba ngokubonakala komntakwabo okanye udade, akayi kuthandwa kakhulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka uqikelele iimpawu zobume bomntwana wakho kunye nendawo yobudala, ukuze uyivakalise ngoncedo lwamagama alungileyo.

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Kukho umbono ophosakeleyo ukuba ukukhulelwa kwesibili kunokuhamba ngokukhawuleza. Oku akunjalo, kuba ngaphantsi kwefuthe leemeko ezahlukeneyo, abasebenzi bangakwazi ukuqala kamva okanye ngaphambi kwexesha elimiselweyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngowokuqala umntwana okanye cha. Kodwa iimfazwe zingapheli ngaphaya kokuqala kokukhulelwa, ngoko ungagxilisi uhambo oluya esibhedlele kwisibonakaliso sokuqala sophulazo. Kanjalo, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa okwesibini umbele uya kuhlahla ngaphantsi kuneyokuqala, ngoko i-bladder kunye ne-back back iya kuba nomthwalo omkhulu. Ukusombulula le ngxaki inokwenzeka ngoncedo lwebhanki elisekelayo.