Iifom kunye nokutshintshwa kwimihla ngemihla kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwiminyaka emi-3-5 ubudala. Ngalesi sikolo i-psyche yengane ingahlali ingaqinisekanga kwaye ixhomekeke kwiinguqu ezincinci kwimeko. Yingakho abazali bafanele bafunde iindlela zokuphelisa ukuveliswa kweengcingo zabantwana babo kwangaphambili. Okokuqala, umonde. Iphimbo lezwi kunye nokuxilwa yizona zixhobo ezilungileyo ekulwa nokubonakaliswa kokungalingani kwabantwana. Ukongezelela, umntwana, uziva uxolo lomama okanye ubaba, ngokungazi ngokunciphisa umgangatho wokubhikisha. Ukunyamezela kubunye ubuchule obalulekileyo. Ukumemeza, ukukhwabanisa, isohlwayo sonyango asikwazi nje ukuqinisa ingxaki, kodwa kunokuchaphazela kakhulu ukuzinza kwengqondo kwengane.
Unxibelelwano siqinisekiso sesiphumo esihle. Incoko enzulu eneenkcukacha kunye nemibuzo echanekileyo iya kunceda ukufumanisa isizathu sokuvuswa komntwana, ugonyamelo okanye ukudandatheka. Musa ukuphazamisa umntwana okanye uqedele impendulo kuye - kufuneka athethe ukuba unomdla. Nangona kuthatha ixesha elide. Amacandelo anjalo asebenza ngokukodwa, kuba ayivumeli kuphela ukuyeka, kodwa ukukhusela i-vagaries.
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