Ukuphucula ukuxilwa kwamadoda kuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokuphelisa

Sitshele indlela yokuhlalisa ngokufanelekileyo intanda yakho.
Yintoni enokuba yinto engcono kumntu kunokuba uhlaziye umxube wokubuyisela emuva? Emva kosuku olunzima, hamba ekhaya, ulale phantsi ngokukhululekile kwi-sofa (ukuba akukho festile ekhethekileyo yokusilalisa) kwaye ujabule njengentombazana ethandekayo okanye umfazi wokumisa umzimba unxibe amahlombe, intamo, umva. Mhlawumbi akekho oya kunika lo mnandi, kodwa ukufezekisa umphumo ophezulu, umntu kufuneka aphulaphule iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso malunga nendlela yokwenza umlenze wokubuya.

Yintoni eluncedo ekuphumuleni umlenze emva komntu?

Ungakulibali ukuba phantse nawuphi na uhlobo lokusila (nokuba lukhuni) lithatha inzuzo eninzi. Ukuphumla kunceda:

Iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokubuyisela ukubuyisela okulungileyo

Ukusikwa kwe-Massage akukona nje umphumo womzimba, kodwa ukutshintshwa kwamandla amakhulu kunokwenzeka. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukulandela imithetho embalwa elula, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukukholisa umfana:

Ukuhamba ngokuzihlaziya okuphumayo: ubuchule bokusebenza

Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuhamba, ezisetyenziswe ngabaqeqeshi. Zilula:

Nika iqabane lakho okanye inkwenkwe into enokungafaniyo yokuzihlaziya, okungeyiyo kuphela into emnandi, kodwa inokubaluleka kokubambisana kunye nomntu womntu.